Hmmm..
to my mind, it is better to try before marriage. you have to know if the person is acceptable to you. this kind of nearness is very special.. we may think that our future husband/ wive is The One, The Only One, The Perfect One..But living in marriage consist not just of being psychologically close. I just do not think that unacceptable body could become acceptable.. we have to know this before our marriage. we have to know future wive's/ husband's body before marrying. that's what I think.