I truly think that if your husband earns enough to have all your families basic needs (no luxuaries) its much better for the woman not to work if she has children, this sounds old-fashion nowadays and some ppl may even find this offensive but I think its better in the long run in many ways...it would avoid many problems with the upbringing of your children and i would even say in marraige as nowadays our roles as woman are a bit cofusing..but its just a personal opinion as we r all different cause there arent universal rules for marrage except for what the bible says