I have heard that when it comes to forgiving difficult situations/people, that you have to keep doing it. First you vent it all out and ask God to help you forgive. And you try with all your heart to mean it as much as you can. And the next day, you do it again. And the next day you do it again. And you keep doing it, every day, until one day you will look into your heart and you will realize that you have truly through God forgiven them.

Debbie