We all look at someone and only see the wrong they do, but maybe if we knew their background we would understand why they are who they are.We must forgive people though in order to move on or the devil can use that hate to destroy us. That is why Christ said forgive lest ye be forgiven. Think of all we do wrong and Christ even died for us knowing we would do all this wrong against him. I had a nephew in our family who is 18 molest my son,spread rumors about my family, and even egg my house after the fact and yet this year I told him i forgive him and he said Merry Christmas. It is a burden lifted when you forgive someone, does not mean you forget that they could hurt you again but you dont hold it over them anymore.So if I can forgive the guy in our life I think you can forgive so you can heal.