Thank you AliceOfLegend... Yeah it wasnt easy at all... But i just wasnt happy in my situation...I would have loved for us to work it out, especially because we have children together but it wasnt even healthy for them...Let alone us....so it it what it is.

My son is 2, and the other child is a month old...My oldest son loves to see his father...loves to spend time with him and loves to be around him. He adores his father...and is always calling for him. I would love to feel comfortable with him going to stay with his father but his father and I do not live in the same state...so he commutes back and fourth to see the children weekly...which I appreciate because I know that he loves his kids...BUT it just makes it REALLY hard for me to move on...and he has since moved on...mind you it has only been about a month since we have OFFICALLY split up...but he has already moved on...and that hurts...So that is why I need him to give me some more space since this isnt what he wants... But I dont want to be selfish because we have the kids to think about...