AliceOfLegend, I completely understand where you are coming from. =)

I wish it was that easy to just talk to him and let him know how I feel and what has been going on. This is one of the reasons we had so many issues. It's hard talking to him because if he doesn't agree, we will end up arguing. I could tell him NOT to do something because of the way it makes me feel and his argument would be "it is always about you and how you feel". So this is why it's become so hard to talk to him about anything. Its sad...it really is because for us to go from friends to enemys after having children...smh..I really do not know what to say about that...I just know I need time to gather my thoughts and to "let him go."