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Originally Posted by tryingtobecalm
My husband knows I want to try again to have a little girl someday. We have three beautiful boys but I still want my girl. My husband seriously wants a vasectomy. He says he is happy with our three boys and is done. I am not. This is a BIG difference in opinion between the two of us. What would u do?
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My question is how old are your sons, and what is missing or lacking in your life that make you feel you need to have another child? And there's no guarantee you'll have a girl! I have 4 children myself, but not have a specific gender but to bring another life in my life. And what a blessing my family has been! Embrace what you have and please figure out why you feel this need. There was a comment made where he/she felt it was selfish of you..... what about your husband?n Isn't he also selfish? I know when I wanted my fourth child my husband said it was up to me as I was the one who was going to be home with them all! Talk it out and pray it out!
Blessings on you and your family