Re: Need some advice - thinking of ending my marriage
So if you end your marriage you will be doing so primarily because you want a daughter and your husband wants no more children?
If you follow that logic through then your life will quickly become dominated by that one desire, you'll choose your next mate on how willing he is to have a child with you, possibly multiple children if you aren't fortunate enough to have a girl....soon enough you'll have 2 families....most people struggle to support 1.
End your marriage you might have a daughter, but you'll probably have an unhappy life, you'll have destroyed your family, your 3 sons wil go through life knowing no matter how they achieve they were never enough for you, your husband will be left feeling.......well I can't imagine but it doesn't sound lke he's done anything wrong as 3 kids isn't a small number.
I know in women the desire for children runs deep and I can't offer any way to solve this problem.
But I can tell you that throwing away the life you've made won't get you any closer to the life you want......you might gain a daughter but you'll lose a family.
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