I'm sorry for your hurt. I know what you are dealing with. My husband just up and leaves anytime he wants to. It's usually over the simplest things. When he leaves he won't even contact his daughter. The last time he left us, we were faced with having to move out of our home. God provided a better place for us to live, gave me a fantastic deal on the rent too. I pay less now for a bigger apartment than i was for the smaller one. He even sent people to help me move. It's been very tight financially, however, God always provides for us-usually to the amazement of others.For a year or more my husband had no idea where we were. His family would not tell him because they despise his behavior. However his mother does not see the wrong in providing a home for him when he deserted his family. It's only recently that I finally got some child support from him.