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Originally Posted by Madorno
A few weeks ago my friend was contemplating dating a non-Christian guy and of course I advised against it. I remember her saying" I would rather date a non Christian guy that treats me well then a "Christian" guy that doesn't." Her words were very true. A Christian guy I was dating (my first boyfriend) cheated on me. Also my dad a "Christian" guy cheated on my mom after 25 years of marriage. My dad's friend's wife cheated on him with two different guys. So my question is this: is dating a non-Christian really any worse than dating a Christian? what do you think?
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Just because a guy (or woman, either way) says he's a Christian, doesn't actually mean he's a devout Christian. I could tell you I'm a 5-star chef, but that doesn't make me one. Some people go to church every Sunday, but going to church makes you a Christian like going to your garage makes you a mechanic. The way you live your life is what makes you a Christian, and the constant battle to become the best person you can be through the eyes of Christ.
So, is dating a non-Christian worse than dating a Christian? Yes, it is. Likely because you haven't actually dated or seen a true example of a "real" Christian.