Tongues won't always make a big difference, the process isn't a binary switch that turns on the Holy Spirit or not. It is a relationship that you grow in, the Holy Spirit convicts us towards righteousness while Satan condemns us in shame. You don't have to be afraid because your heart is moved by joy towards something better and the things of the world will just grow dim while the fruit of walking with him surpasses any entertainment.

I know it happened in my life that my desires changed from escapism in entertainment to encouraging others in a close community.