I used to date a peg legged woman til I broke it off...
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Okay really, I don't have that much of a story either. I'm a friends first kind of person, so that makes a huge difference. In all my years I've yet to meet a girl in person who truly got my attention in a potentially more than friends kind of way. Sure I might've had a crush or three in my younger teen years especially, but I didn't act on them.
Even in my young teen years my goal was always to just meet that one girl I'd spend my life with. So I never got into casual dating or anything that went along with it.
The only times I've met anyone that truly interested me were girls I've met online. Those usually land in the friend zone in a short amount of time too though. However, there were a couple that went on longer with a solid friendship in place and very much discussion about a future together. Neither of those ended up really taking off either though, as in never even to the meet in person and see what is there phase. The first one slowly fell apart and didn't end that great really..but that's okay. I learned some things after to make me glad to be completely out of even the discussion of that.
The last one...well, she is an amazing girl and is going to make someone an awesome wife someday, God willing. After much honesty, prayer, using wisdom God gave me to see things, Him speaking in various ways, etc. we learned it wasn't supposed to go any farther.
I'm definitely not going to encourage anyone to try to jump online just to meet someone. It's much better if you can meet someone where you are. HOWEVER, things happen when you make friends online. Sometimes someone just grabs your attention and there isn't much you can do about it...whether they live nearby or on a whole other continent. That is the interesting thing about the internet huh?
I stick with friends first though either way and I'd rather stay single than settle for anything less than who God knows is best for me... Hopefully someone who will have all of the qualities and other things I look for. God knows best though, so I try to keep an open mind on some things..Key word: TRY...
Yep, that's pretty much me relating to that.
WAKE UP.
