Femininity vs Masculinity

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womanofchrist28

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Femininity has a natural:
Weakness: Men are strong, firm and a little bit of hardness to them. Women are weak, delicate and soft. Being delicate and soft its okay it is very beautiful!


Submissiveness: A man is a leader and a guide. A woman is adaptable, and trustful. These traits make it easier to submit to her husband’s authority.


Dependence: Men are to provide the living (depends on the situation), and protect women and children from harm. Women are to lean on men, trust them, allow them to protect and care for them.


Tenderness: Tender feelings are part of the feminine woman. Movies, songs, books, and even television commercials will move her to tears. She has a strong sense of sympathy and has tender emotions toward the helpless. Don’t try to hide or be ashamed of these feelings.


Fearfulness: Every feminine woman has a tendency to have a natural fear of dangers. A man have the opposite tendency to be unafraid, especially when they have control over the situation.

A feminine woman leans toward trustfulness, adaptability, and fearfulness. She is submissive to her husband and has a dependency upon her husband for care and protection.

Masculine nature is stronger, harder, firmer. Men are natural leaders and guides, and they have a natural tendency to command. They are competent, aggressive and protective. The feminine woman lack these masculine tendencies.



The feminine nature makes a man more willing to offer his care and protection. As he begins to care for a woman his love and tenderness toward her grows. When you are too independent and self-sufficient he feels no need for caring for you and this causes his love and tenderness to fade. He loves that which he shelters and protects. When you display a feminine nature it awakens his need to take care of you, do things for you, protect you, shelter you and devote himself to you. While he is doing these things his feelings of love deepen.
 
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elf3

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I am seriously in shock by what I just read praying for you sister
Ok why are you in shock? Is it because what she said makes sense or is it because she doesn't follow your rules?
 

crossnote

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A little stereotypic but generally accurate.
 
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Revelator7

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I am seriously in shock by what I just read praying for you sister
Christianfeminist, tell me, is the apostle Peter wrong in saying this?

Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel. 1 Peter 3:7 NKJV

You know that Peter was the rock that Jesus said he would build his church on...

I would like an explanation of what you believe Peter meant by saying that the wife/woman is the weaker vessel.
 
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Ok why are you in shock? Is it because what she said makes sense or is it because she doesn't follow your rules?
It saddens me to see a young clearly beautiful girl do whatever her parents and men made her think a woman is
 
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Christianfeminist, tell me, is the apostle Peter wrong in saying this?

Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel. 1 Peter 3:7 NKJV

You know that Peter was the rock that Jesus said he would build his church on...

I would like an explanation of what you believe Peter meant by saying that the wife/woman is the weaker vessel.
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I would like an explanation of why that is?
 

jsr1221

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Femininity has a natural:
Weakness: Men are strong, firm and a little bit of hardness to them. Women are weak, delicate and soft. Being delicate and soft its okay it is very beautiful!


Submissiveness: A man is a leader and a guide. A woman is adaptable, and trustful. These traits make it easier to submit to her husband’s authority.


Dependence: Men are to provide the living (depends on the situation), and protect women and children from harm. Women are to lean on men, trust them, allow them to protect and care for them.


Tenderness: Tender feelings are part of the feminine woman. Movies, songs, books, and even television commercials will move her to tears. She has a strong sense of sympathy and has tender emotions toward the helpless. Don’t try to hide or be ashamed of these feelings.


Fearfulness: Every feminine woman has a tendency to have a natural fear of dangers. A man have the opposite tendency to be unafraid, especially when they have control over the situation.

A feminine woman leans toward trustfulness, adaptability, and fearfulness. She is submissive to her husband and has a dependency upon her husband for care and protection.

Masculine nature is stronger, harder, firmer. Men are natural leaders and guides, and they have a natural tendency to command. They are competent, aggressive and protective. The feminine woman lack these masculine tendencies.



The feminine nature makes a man more willing to offer his care and protection. As he begins to care for a woman his love and tenderness toward her grows. When you are too independent and self-sufficient he feels no need for caring for you and this causes his love and tenderness to fade. He loves that which he shelters and protects. When you display a feminine nature it awakens his need to take care of you, do things for you, protect you, shelter you and devote himself to you. While he is doing these things his feelings of love deepen.
I get what you're saying but to me you made it seem like women are made to be damsels in distress.
 
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Trinity33

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Femininity has a natural:
Weakness: Men are strong, firm and a little bit of hardness to them. Women are weak, delicate and soft. Being delicate and soft its okay it is very beautiful!


Submissiveness: A man is a leader and a guide. A woman is adaptable, and trustful. These traits make it easier to submit to her husband’s authority.


Dependence: Men are to provide the living (depends on the situation), and protect women and children from harm. Women are to lean on men, trust them, allow them to protect and care for them.


Tenderness: Tender feelings are part of the feminine woman. Movies, songs, books, and even television commercials will move her to tears. She has a strong sense of sympathy and has tender emotions toward the helpless. Don’t try to hide or be ashamed of these feelings.


Fearfulness: Every feminine woman has a tendency to have a natural fear of dangers. A man have the opposite tendency to be unafraid, especially when they have control over the situation.

A feminine woman leans toward trustfulness, adaptability, and fearfulness. She is submissive to her husband and has a dependency upon her husband for care and protection.

Masculine nature is stronger, harder, firmer. Men are natural leaders and guides, and they have a natural tendency to command. They are competent, aggressive and protective. The feminine woman lack these masculine tendencies.



The feminine nature makes a man more willing to offer his care and protection. As he begins to care for a woman his love and tenderness toward her grows. When you are too independent and self-sufficient he feels no need for caring for you and this causes his love and tenderness to fade. He loves that which he shelters and protects. When you display a feminine nature it awakens his need to take care of you, do things for you, protect you, shelter you and devote himself to you. While he is doing these things his feelings of love deepen.
Ummm where do I even begin.... OK.... I think it is OK to let the man maybe hold the reins as were getting along Lil womaning it.... But that that you wrote pumpkin just set us back 60 years. A good man will not be afraid of a strong woman. They will support and love and charish just the same. To think that you have to be weak to get love from a man.....fragile, vulnerable, submissive (was hard to write that one) whatever you call it is just wrong! Good Godly men are not afraid of a beautiful, smart, witty sexy woman.... Just sayin
 
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psychomom

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woc, i sometimes think about the fact Eve was deceived,
and recognize in myself a tendency toward that very thing.

thank God i can trust my husband to help me steer clear of it. :)
 
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Ummm where do I even begin.... OK.... I think it is OK to let the man maybe hold the reins as were getting along Lil womaning it.... But that that you wrote pumpkin just set us back 60 years. A good man will not be afraid of a stron g woman. They will support and love and charish just the same. To think that you have to be weak to get love from a man.....fragile, vulnerable, submissive (was hard to write that one) whatever you call it is just wrong! Good Godly men are not afraid of a beautiful, smart, witty sexy woman.... Just sayin
Thank you it is sad to see such a young girl fall in to this trap and the saddest part is she will get married and actually be like this!! SWEETHEART WAKE UP no woman likes this stuff only men because they want to boss you around
 
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elf3

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It saddens me to see a young clearly beautiful girl do whatever her parents and men made her think a woman is
This is kinda funny as you are assuming that is why WOC believes what she wrote. Now I may be wrong and only WOC can correct me on this....I would be willing to bet she got most of this from the Bible.
 
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Trinity33

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Thank you it is sad to see such a young girl fall in to this trap and the saddest part is she will get married and actually be like this!! SWEETHEART WAKE UP no woman likes this stuff only men because they want to boss you around
And IMO men only dig it for so long then they want someone to take care of them lol!! Sorry guys ~smiles~
 

jsr1221

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Thank you it is sad to see such a young girl fall in to this trap and the saddest part is she will get married and actually be like this!! SWEETHEART WAKE UP no woman likes this stuff only men because they want to boss you around
It's a recipe for psychological and emotional abuse
 
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Ugly

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Thank you it is sad to see such a young girl fall in to this trap and the saddest part is she will get married and actually be like this!! SWEETHEART WAKE UP no woman likes this stuff only men because they want to boss you around
Wow. Really? You can speak for every person whose ever lived or alive? You know their intents and hearts and desires and thoughts? Billions of people and you can speak for every one of them? You just went from zero credibility to in the negative.
Funny though, if someone speaks to what feminists really are and want you take offense. Yet you are able to speak for every other person in existence. Classic. Troll on.
 

gzusfrk

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It may be hard to refute by the Word.
 
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elf3

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Ummm where do I even begin.... OK.... I think it is OK to let the man maybe hold the reins as were getting along Lil womaning it.... But that that you wrote pumpkin just set us back 60 years. A good man will not be afraid of a strong woman. They will support and love and charish just the same. To think that you have to be weak to get love from a man.....fragile, vulnerable, submissive (was hard to write that one) whatever you call it is just wrong! Good Godly men are not afraid of a beautiful, smart, witty sexy woman.... Just sayin
If you knew anything about WOC you would know she is not a weak woman. The assumptions are amazingly amazing!
 
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Femininity has a natural:
Weakness: Men are strong, firm and a little bit of hardness to them. Women are weak, delicate and soft. Being delicate and soft its okay it is very beautiful!


Submissiveness: A man is a leader and a guide. A woman is adaptable, and trustful. These traits make it easier to submit to her husband’s authority.


Dependence: Men are to provide the living (depends on the situation), and protect women and children from harm. Women are to lean on men, trust them, allow them to protect and care for them.


Tenderness: Tender feelings are part of the feminine woman. Movies, songs, books, and even television commercials will move her to tears. She has a strong sense of sympathy and has tender emotions toward the helpless. Don’t try to hide or be ashamed of these feelings.


Fearfulness: Every feminine woman has a tendency to have a natural fear of dangers. A man have the opposite tendency to be unafraid, especially when they have control over the situation.

A feminine woman leans toward trustfulness, adaptability, and fearfulness. She is submissive to her husband and has a dependency upon her husband for care and protection.

Masculine nature is stronger, harder, firmer. Men are natural leaders and guides, and they have a natural tendency to command. They are competent, aggressive and protective. The feminine woman lack these masculine tendencies.



The feminine nature makes a man more willing to offer his care and protection. As he begins to care for a woman his love and tenderness toward her grows. When you are too independent and self-sufficient he feels no need for caring for you and this causes his love and tenderness to fade. He loves that which he shelters and protects. When you display a feminine nature it awakens his need to take care of you, do things for you, protect you, shelter you and devote himself to you. While he is doing these things his feelings of love deepen.
Awesome post.
 
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Trinity33

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Oh Lord please.....you know the kind of intervention that is needed here. You first and for most treated women like wonderfully. I would thank you to keep this discussion with love and understanding. Teach us if were wrong. In Jesus most precious name amen...
 
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elf3

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And IMO men only dig it for so long then they want someone to take care of them lol!! Sorry guys ~smiles~
Awww you is so funny as if you know all men. It's so cute how you do that funny little chipmunk. :)