If your a female and talk in church you are sinning

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Blain

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I find this to be highly womanish, and I am not offended.

Or should I say feminist?

If one is offended by what the word says, guess who needs to change? The Word or the self?

Notwithstanding, it seems to me that this topic has done been chewed on this Forum.
The word says that women should not teach the op says talking in general is sinning. So if I was talking with a women in church and she spoke to me she is in sin according to the op. I am not offended by his words but I do find it highly offensive because it can extremely offending to many ppl
 
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kaylagrl

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Paul made this statement concerning women: “If, then, they want to learn something, let them question their own husbands at home, for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in a congregation.” (1 Corinthians 14:35) This means that if sisters do not understand or are disturbed by certain statements read or made during the meetings, they should not raise points of contention before the congregation. Rather, they should ask their husbands to clarify matters when they are at home.

Thank you !!!!! Finally someone understands the verse and doesn't twist its meaning!!
 

Angela53510

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"There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." Gal. 3:28

Context is everything! Who was Paul talking to in 1 Corinthians? A church filled with uneducated women who were causing problems. In fact, the men were strongly chastised in the book for things they were doing! Read the whole book.

If women are a different class of people, as the OP suggests (the silent ones!), then why would Paul contradict himself in Gal. 3:28? I don't believe Paul is contradicting himself, but rather stating the universal principle in the Galatians verse. Because ALL means all!

Therefore, when seeking to exegete 1 Cor. 14, we need to look at context, and at what Paul says elsewhere. What he says is we are all equal in Christ, therefore the admonition in 1 Cor. 14 is local, and/or cultural.
 

maxwel

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Apparently Godiskindtothewicked attends a church where no women ever speak.

That doesn't sound like a church, that sounds like some kind of snobby Victorian gentlemen's club.
But hey, I'd still go!!!!
: )
 

SoulWeaver

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Context is everything! Who was Paul talking to in 1 Corinthians? A church filled with uneducated women who were causing problems.
Many people dont understand that Paul was being extremely liberal because he said the women belonged in the church in the first place, and plus he was encouraging them to learn and study...
 
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Tintin

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Hey, OP! If you're always bashing on about God in a negative manner, you're sinning.
 
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twofeet

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Genesis explains very clearly why we see this attitude:

God told ADAM not to eat of the tree

Eve was deceived but Adam DELIBERATELY sinned. ( We see that God speaks to Adam very differently to Eve after the fall when He says "Because you listened to your wife and ate from the tree about which I commanded you "YOU must not eat of it". These words were not spoken to Eve)

As a result of MAN deliberately disobeying God HE needs to learn to listen to God.

God WARNS Eve that her husband will now rule over her BECAUSE OF SIN. The original command of " you have dominion over the plants and animals" will now get so distorted man will want to rule and control women.

How do we know it was a warning? Because God did not then say to Adam " I now give you dominion over your wife".

It is a direct result of MANS sin that they try and use scripture to control. Their very nature will always go against " it is for FREEDOM that Christ has set us free".

This is why Jesus had to have no earthly father to be born without sin.

REAL Godly men will bring FREEDOM to a woman. Sinful ones will go against God, walk in the original sin and try and control them
 

Ella85

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Jumped on this thread and was glad to see the user had been banned :)
As I totally disagree.

Bad way of understanding these verses for sure.
 
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twofeet

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Jumped on this thread and was glad to see the user had been banned :)
As I totally disagree.

Bad way of understanding these verses for sure.
Yet 62 people "liked" his controlling attitude. Im So glad God will bring all things to judgement. He is not a God who controls .." I stand at the door and knock" not " I stand at the door and break it down therefore you had better do as you are told".

Its so sad that for centuries , men teaching men, this attitude still continues. Their twisted understanding of scripture constantly feeding that controlling attitude. Look at King James when he was translating the word, he chose the word "submit" rather than another translation of "be gently persuaded". Look at King Henry the 8th who actually made the first draft of the King James bible. He kept killing his wives due to his lack of respect. ( I love how God placed one of the strongest Queens after him that ruled England for over 40 years on his throne)

As a woman I was made in the image of God. My God IN ME is no greater or no lesser than God creating a man. Arrogance of man will see it different.
 

nl

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Now it was Mary Magdalene and Joanna and Mary the mother of James and the other women with them who told these things to the apostles. (Luke 24:10)

Women were the first witnesses to an empty tomb and an announcement from angels about the resurrection of Jesus Christ. Jesus was dead and had become alive again.

The church was small that Sunday morning and it was the women who had a message to tell.
 

p_rehbein

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Apparently Godiskindtothewicked attends a church where no women ever speak.

That doesn't sound like a church, that sounds like some kind of snobby Victorian gentlemen's club.
But hey, I'd still go!!!!
: )
Which may well explain the singular lensed eyewear?

(hehe.......)
 

p_rehbein

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QUOTE:

I find this to be highly womanish, and I am not offended.

Or should I say feminist?

If one is offended by what the word says, guess who needs to change? The Word or the self?

Notwithstanding, it seems to me that this topic has done been chewed on this Forum.

END QUOTE...........

I'm laughing too much to be offended...............the complete lack of understanding of Scripture exhibited here by some never ceases to humor me.....
 
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Jumped on this thread and was glad to see the user had been banned :)
As I totally disagree.

Bad way of understanding these verses for sure.
Mostly someone from another belief like the pagan's goes to other Christian sites to disrupt it by using what most Christian has taken out of context and use it as a weapon to have Christians to leave their faith. As I had posted earlier where the mistake has been made or taken out of context is when Paul was actually trying to get the men of the church to rethink about what they are doing.

34 Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says. 35 If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.

[ But then he goes on and said to the men]

36 Or did the word of God originate with you? Or are you the only people it has reached? 37 If anyone thinks they are a prophet or otherwise gifted by the Spirit, let them acknowledge that what I am writing to you is the Lord’s command. 38 But if anyone ignores this, they will themselves be ignored.

Didn't God had reached Ruth and Mary? Paul stating that God uses all, even the sons and daughters that will be prophesying in the future. But the devil is going to prevent those not to listen to one part of the body because of their gender, because he know that if a house is divided, it will no longer stand. So he send his angels, the pagan's to put his words in their thoughts.
 
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Tintin

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It is in liberal theology. I like to take God's Word for what it is.
Wait, what? Context helps us to take God's Word for what it is. Otherwise you can make it say any old nonsense.
 
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didymos

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Wait, what? Context helps us to take God's Word for what it is. Otherwise you can make it say any old nonsense.
The context (historical, scriptural) helps... true, but it isn't EVERYTHING. It is however for liberal theologists, who try to 'render harmless' controversial passages through their farfetched, overcontextualized exegesis. Ultimately what helps us 'take God's Word for what it is' is NOT contextualization, but His Holy Spirit.
 
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Tintin

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The context (historical, scriptural) helps... true, but it isn't EVERYTHING. It is however for liberal theologists, who try to 'render harmless' controversial passages through their farfetched, overcontextualized exegesis. Ultimately what helps us 'take God's Word for what it is' is NOT contextualization, but His Holy Spirit.
Yes, that's true. But sometimes reading the Bible in context is as simple as reading the surrounding verses, paragraph or even chapter to find out what it really means. You'd be surprised by the way some people read the Bible. Or maybe you wouldn't.
 
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Yet 62 people "liked" his controlling attitude. Im So glad God will bring all things to judgement. He is not a God who controls .." I stand at the door and knock" not " I stand at the door and break it down therefore you had better do as you are told".

Its so sad that for centuries , men teaching men, this attitude still continues. Their twisted understanding of scripture constantly feeding that controlling attitude. Look at King James when he was translating the word, he chose the word "submit" rather than another translation of "be gently persuaded". Look at King Henry the 8th who actually made the first draft of the King James bible. He kept killing his wives due to his lack of respect. ( I love how God placed one of the strongest Queens after him that ruled England for over 40 years on his throne)

As a woman I was made in the image of God. My God IN ME is no greater or no lesser than God creating a man. Arrogance of man will see it different.

King James didn't translate anything...it was 54 Episcopalian priests who translated, transliterated and copied the King James Bible......And yes it does have words that were transliterated instead of translated....!
 
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didymos

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... You'd be surprised by the way some people read the Bible. Or maybe you wouldn't.

Yeah, some people use contextualization of certain passages from Lev and Rom to claim homosexuality is actually ok,

it happens. ;)