Forgiveness from a biblical view

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Blain

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Matthew 6:14-15
For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins

Mark 11:25
And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.

Un forgiveness is a nasty burden and can affect our relationship with God, not to mention that it can affect our prayers.
If we have un forgiveness in our hearts today we should forgive those who we cannot forgive even if it is someone here in cc.
You may say something like- How can I forgive them after what they did? well the bible covers that as well

Psalm 103:12
as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.


Colossians 1:13-14
For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.

Micah 7:18-19
Who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance? You do not stay angry forever but delight to show mercy. You will again have compassion on us; you will tread our sins underfoot and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea.

The bible speaks so much of how God forgave us of all our sins and all our faults. If anyone had the right to place judgement on us it was him but he forgave us and remembered them no more. So if we are not able to forgive others but we want God to forgive us then what does that say about us? Forgiveness comes easier to some than others but is still something we must practice. I will end this post with this parable
Matthew 18:21-35New International Version (NIV)
The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant

21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”

22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.[a]

23 “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. 24 As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. 25 Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.

26 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ 27 The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.

28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins.[c] He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded.

29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’

30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. 31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened.

32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ 34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.

35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”
 

Joidevivre

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I found that once I dropped my expectations of how people should act, either to me or to others - knowing that we all have a sinful nature - I hardly had reason to forgive anyone anymore. I just now expect people to do things that hurt me occasionally, or become thoughtless in their behavior. So, when they do, I can more easily overlook it. I ONLY EXPECT good from God alone, and he will never ever disappoint me.

When you have high expectations of others and they fail to live up to them, you make a judgment, and then you become bitter and forgiveness becomes difficult.

So now when others are kind/loving towards me, it is a gift I am grateful for - not something I necessarily expected from them.

When others hurt me, I just realize that I have the same beam in my eye and the only reason I might not act the same is because I'm also looking out of the lens of Jesus now. And I have the Holy Spirit restraining and guiding. But without those two things, I'm really no better.

I also realize that usually they don't really want to hurt me - it is that they are coming from a place of pain themselves that needs to be healed. Or they are not in a place where they are able to see your needs. They are very self focused.
 
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SoulWeaver

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Beautiful Scriptures you brought up there.
We serve an amazing God.
 

Blain

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I found that once I dropped my expectations of how people should act, either to me or to others - knowing that we all have a sinful nature - I hardly had reason to forgive anyone anymore. I just now expect people to do things that hurt me occasionally, or become thoughtless in their behavior. So, when they do, I can more easily overlook it. I ONLY EXPECT good from God alone, and he will never ever disappoint me.

When you have high expectations of others and they fail to live up to them, you make a judgment, and then you become bitter and forgiveness becomes difficult.

So now when others are kind/loving towards me, it is a gift I am grateful for - not something I necessarily expected from them.

When others hurt me, I just realize that I have the same beam in my eye and the only reason I might not act the same is because I'm also looking out of the lens of Jesus now. And I have the Holy Spirit restraining and guiding. But without those two things, I'm really no better.
That was a fantastic response:) I would give you rep for such an amazing comment but I gave to much rep today and the system won't let me