Shoud I ask a girl out?

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BritishDave

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Hi everyone, I'm 16 and there's a girl at school whom I really like.. I was wondering whether or not I should ask her out / to the prom and I would appreciate your opinion on the matter. As far as I know she's not a Christian but she's nicer than most of the Christians I know and she seems open to religion :) Thanks in advance for the help!
 

breno785au

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You'd get a better response in the teens thread about this mate, since it would be in a more relevant area.
 
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BritishDave

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Cheers, how exactly do I do that?? Sorry I'm new to the site
 

MarcR

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Hi everyone, I'm 16 and there's a girl at school whom I really like.. I was wondering whether or not I should ask her out / to the prom and I would appreciate your opinion on the matter. As far as I know she's not a Christian but she's nicer than most of the Christians I know and she seems open to religion :) Thanks in advance for the help!
In my opinion, the warning about being unequally yoked applies to marriage and business partnerships.

NOTHING in scripture prohibits friendships with unbelievers. Friendship evangelism is often very successful.

The only thing to be careful about is this:

You should influence her toward Christ; but she should not influence you toward worldliness.
 
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Hi everyone, I'm 16 and there's a girl at school whom I really like.. I was wondering whether or not I should ask her out / to the prom and I would appreciate your opinion on the matter. As far as I know she's not a Christian but she's nicer than most of the Christians I know and she seems open to religion :) Thanks in advance for the help!
Just go ahead and take her to the prom...
 
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BritishDave

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Thank you very much, I see what you're saying there. How do you define friendship..? Would asking her to the prom be too far?
 

MarcR

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Thank you very much, I see what you're saying there. How do you define friendship..? Would asking her to the prom be too far?
NOT AT ALL! If you ask her to marry you without leading her to Christ first you will have gone too far.
 

breno785au

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Cheers, how exactly do I do that?? Sorry I'm new to the site
Oh, you could just go to the teens forum and repost the same question but its okay, what's done is done :) welcome to the forum by the way.
 
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BritishDave

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Thank you :) I'm getting better responses than I expected hahah
 

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Hi everyone, I'm 16 and there's a girl at school whom I really like.. I was wondering whether or not I should ask her out / to the prom and I would appreciate your opinion on the matter. As far as I know she's not a Christian but she's nicer than most of the Christians I know and she seems open to religion :) Thanks in advance for the help!
Yeah, go ahead and ask her out. One of the nicest people I had met that had Christian qualities was a Muslim. I told her that I would light a candle for her. She said that I was an amusing guy.
 
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JustinFromTwinCities

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You'd get a better response in the teens thread about this mate, since it would be in a more relevant area.
Are you sure that teens should be seeking advice from teens?
 
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BTW, I like Piper despite some of his legalistic leanings, but like any other person, he is not God. From any man, all you will get is his personal, esoteric perspective.
 

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Hi everyone, I'm 16 and there's a girl at school whom I really like.. I was wondering whether or not I should ask her out / to the prom and I would appreciate your opinion on the matter. As far as I know she's not a Christian but she's nicer than most of the Christians I know and she seems open to religion :) Thanks in advance for the help!
Yes, ask her.

Need a little courage, brother? Pray first, and then...

"...be courageous; be strong. [SUP]14 [/SUP]Do everything in love."
1 Corinthians 16:13,14
 

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Hi everyone, I'm 16 and there's a girl at school whom I really like.. I was wondering whether or not I should ask her out / to the prom and I would appreciate your opinion on the matter. As far as I know she's not a Christian but she's nicer than most of the Christians I know and she seems open to religion :) Thanks in advance for the help!

Hey, this belongs in the teen forum, but whatevs. Pray about it firstly, see what God has to say about it. Secondly, will she lead you to sin or be put into temptation? Thirdly, if she really is kind and won't lead you into trouble, go for it. Have fun. Just don't do anything that would go against your beliefs and ideas.


But...first you have to get a yes. :cool:
 
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BritishDave

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Cheers that helps a lot :)
 
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BritishDave

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Good point I don't even know if she likes me yet XD