SOUL TIES- ARE THESE MESSING UP YOUR MARRIAGE ?

Precious Young Men and Women of GOD,

Please understand a few things that I would like to share with you...........Yes GOD does forgive our sins, no doubt. However, the enemy tries daily to interupt our MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP on this planet. Our relationship with ABBA FATHER GOD.....

When there are multiple "partners" and these are outside of marriage, a very unusual event occurs. I don't know if you have ever heard of it, it is called SOUL TIES.........

This is the way it works...........In GENESIS where the LORD just presented EVE to ADAM, after HE woke him up from taking the rib out of him.... HE says some very ineresting things read it from GEN. 2:20............Read down to verse 24......This is where I am talking about what are called SOUL TIES......FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE AND THEY SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH

Extremely important here.................We are designed to marry our mate and only enjoy the "marriage bed" with our mate............that's the way it is supposed to be..........

So here's what happens...............When we have sex outside of marriage, we violate this principle of our FATHER, and here's what happens.......

WE HAVE CONNECTIONS WITH THAT PERSON THAT MUST BE SEVERED SCRIPTURALLY, OR WE WILL ALWAYS HAVE DIFFICULTIES IN OUR NEXT RELATIONSHIPS, OR MARRIAGE BECAUSE PART OF US IS STILL ONE WITH THAT PERSON..........Remember the verse........And the 2 shall be ONE FLESH.......

So our Adversary knows this, and knows the Word and FATHERS intentions and purposes for us in this world, so he tries to promote repeated sexual encounters with multiple partners for years..............Then when we stop doing that, and settle down in marriage, this is when the problems start.......The Adversary attacks our marriages BIGTIME, because of those soul ties..............his intent, obcviously is to destroy the marriage, and us in the process.......

PLEASE CHECK OUT THIS PARTICULAR MINISTRY ON THE WEB www.laughcry.org They have their lead book on ther called "LAUGH AND CRY YOUR WAY TO FREEDOM" Rev. John Chappell and his lovely wife have been helping couples and individuals get set free from the torments of SOUL TIES AND FRAGMENTATION............Which is what happens to our soul when we have been with multiple partners OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE......

Please check this ministry out, this is very serious...............and most of Rev. Chappells teaching you can just down load..........FOR FREE............

I AM PRAYING FOR YOU MEN AND WOMEN.........

SeekinHIM

[greatkraw]

SOUL TIES AND FRAGMENTATION

there must be something in this

I have heard of more than one person speaking about leaving little bits of themselves behind

[MahogonySnail]

I've posted elsewhere a while ago now, showing from scripture how once two people have sex they are already married in God's eyes. If they have sex with another, they are in essence committing adultery.

Dear MahogonySnail,

GOD doesn't honor sex outside of marriage, it is known as fornication, and is definately a sin. As the teaching entails, once someone does this their SOUL IS TIED, OR BONDED TO THAT PERSON...............The two becoming one flesh is still a principle in reality. And GOD will always honor this principle because this is HIS Word.

So if anyone has sex outside of marriage there needs to be repentance, and a breaking of the soul tie......thankfully we can do this now, because of CHRIST.

SOUL- Your soul is comprised of 3 inter-connecting, functional parts. MIND, WILL and EMOTIONS. When our souls are "ONE" with someone the way GOD intended it to be, this is good, or a good soul tie. However, when this is done outside the parameters set down in GOD's Word, then we are in real trouble................Just repenting of the sin of fornication, even in the most sincere way, will not break the soul tie.........While GOD does honor the repentance for the " act " HE cannot just brush aside HIS OWN PRINCIPLE OF ONE FLESH, this must be broken understanding the principle teaching of:

HEBREWS 4 : 12 THE WORD OF GOD IS LIVING AND ACTIVE, SHARPER THAN ANY TWO EDGED SWORD, PIERCING AS FAR AS THE DIVISION OF SOUL AND SPIRIT OF BOTHJOINTS AND MARROW, AND IS A DISCERNER BETWEEN THE THOUGHTS AND INTENTS OF THE HEART.

I hope this helps you and others that may read this. This is partly the reason why I believe the LORD has had me post some of these teachings, because far to many of HIS children are suffering needlessly and either don't know how to get free, because they havn't been taught, or they have already given up for similar reasons.

Do not be tricked into believing the LIE that the enemy has so permeated in Christianity today, that casual sex is ok as long as "I'm not hurting anyone".
Or some other falacy that .........."Oh I can just repent when it's over and GOD will forgive me........" Then the adversary has that person right where he wants them and can and WILL continue to hammer that person until they just give up on GOD and Christianity.................

There's much more to this, so maybe check out Rev. John Chappell's teachings online at www.laughcry.org


I am praying for all that may be going through this most difficult situation.............

SeekinHIM

[VW]

One of the hardest things to learn in a situation like this is that light illuminates darkness. Nothing that is hidden is in the light. Confession, open and complete is the answer to removing the darkness. It takes a understanding partner to hear this confession. God is able to make things perfect again. He can heal even this. But the rememberance will cause our heart trouble for the rest of our lives in this world.

In the book of Proverbs, the Spirit speaks of the harlot who actually steals the soul of those who go into her. It is true, that is exactly what she does.

We are people, and we will be tempted, but not beyond what we are able to bear. David was tempted, and he took Bathsheba, and had Uriah killed, and lost their first son as a result. Everything has a price, that must be paid. The price in sexual sin is usually heartbreak, unbearable heartbreak.

After 38 years being married to the same woman, (she must be nuts to stay with me so long,) I can say that the heartbreak is unbearable, and but for the Lord's love, it would destroy the union and the lives of those so affected.

Jesus came to destroy the works of the devil. The devil only kills, steals, and destroys.

Praise God in Jesus Christ

Precious Brother,

I so would like to talk to you or at least exchange private messages, because unless I read your response wrong, it seems like you are suffering needlessly, you mention 38 years.............? Yes, I just re-read your comments.............please contact me about this, uh, I think you have suffered long enough, don't you ...........


I am praying already for your complete RE-IMBURSEMENT...................I'll explain when you contact me..........

SeekinHIM

[VW]

Originally Posted by SeekinHIM

Precious Brother,

I so would like to talk to you or at least exchange private messages, because unless I read your response wrong, it seems like you are suffering needlessly, you mention 38 years.............? Yes, I just re-read your comments.............please contact me about this, uh, I think you have suffered long enough, don't you ...........


I am praying already for your complete RE-IMBURSEMENT...................I'll explain when you contact me..........

SeekinHIM

I would talk to you, but as to suffering, no, I am not suffering. God has seen fit to give me a wonderful wife, who loves me and accepts me. God has healed me from things which happened, even from before I was a man. And He has shown me that these things, and all that has happened to me is in His hand, that He has seen it and already provided the cure, restoration, healing love.

I am deeply grateful for your prayers.

[VW]

Also, I believe that there are some things which must be born, that cannot be forgotten, that will always in this life affect us and who we are. These things, though they be sin, though they cause great harm, with the work of the Spirit become things which make us stronger in Christ. David was a man after God's own heart. He was strong in the Lord as a young man, but made some very seriously wrong decisions which had consequences that were terrible to behold. And in the end of his days, when his son rebelled against him, and he was fleeing with his household from his son, the trust in the Lord that made him such a man of God is evident when those with him want to slay Shimel, the son of Geta. He was throwing rocks at David and all who were with him. He cursed David and called him a man of bloodshed, and that Absalom deserved to receive the kingdom. David answered those who were with him, who wanted to slay this man, saying,"Behold, my son who came out from me seeks my life; how much more now this Benjamite? Let him alone and let him curse, for the Lord has told him. Perhaps the Lord will look on my affliction and return good to me instead of his cursing this day." I must trust Him in this, as in all things.

The Lord is good. He will return good, and I only ask that I be able to see that which I have from Him as good, just as it is.

Dear Brother,

I am a little confused by your responses, I have a very sensitive spirit in the LORD, and as I read your responses, I sense a "hopelessnes and despair" in my spirit.......Maybe I am off a little and I hope I am...............I am glad to hear about the cure, restoration and healing love. PRAISE GOD.....

It's the next response that has caught me a little "off'" guard. "SOME THINGS THAT MUST BE BORN THAT CANNOT BE FORGOTTEN....?

And then that expose' on King David................? While I know the story, it's the relevance to the soul tie issues, that I don't see the correlation.....
Please help me out here, perhaps I missed somthing......? And please remember that statement of David, about him being a man after GOD'S OWN HEART......This occurred after the sins that so damaged his walk with GOD initially. Uriah the Hittite, Bathsheba, etc.......counting Israel by Satans thought suggestions, after GOD told him not to....

I eagerly, but patiently await your response.

SeekinHIM

[VW]

Originally Posted by SeekinHIM

Dear Brother,

I am a little confused by your responses, I have a very sensitive spirit in the LORD, and as I read your responses, I sense a "hopelessnes and despair" in my spirit.......Maybe I am off a little and I hope I am...............I am glad to hear about the cure, restoration and healing love. PRAISE GOD.....

It's the next response that has caught me a little "off'" guard. "SOME THINGS THAT MUST BE BORN THAT CANNOT BE FORGOTTEN....?

And then that expose' on King David................? While I know the story, it's the relevance to the soul tie issues, that I don't see the correlation.....
Please help me out here, perhaps I missed somthing......? And please remember that statement of David, about him being a man after GOD'S OWN HEART......This occurred after the sins that so damaged his walk with GOD initially. Uriah the Hittite, Bathsheba, etc.......counting Israel by Satans thought suggestions, after GOD told him not to....

I eagerly, but patiently await your response.

SeekinHIM

There was a time when I believed I was His, I was convinced that I belonged to Him, and that I was saved by His grace. How to say this? I was living a lie. I used God's written word to excuse my sin, and to avoid His righteous judgment for what I was allowing. But I did believe, very strongly that I had accepted Him. The night that He took me and woke me up, showed me what a horrible mess I was making of His gospel, His love, and my life, I was living in adultery. In a moment, just like that, I was no longer an adulterer. It was over, by His power. I cannot give Him enough thanks for His deliverance. And in truth, this was the least of what He delivered me from. I was dead in my sins, and He gave me life.

But the things that happened, they are not forgotten. I will remember. I want to remember, so that if I ever think that I am something, I will know that but for His grace I would not have life. The worse sin of my time before was adultery against God. I claimed His name, and lived as if it meant nothing, only to serve me as my ticket to heaven. This makes every other sin pale in comparison. For this, God does not need to forgive, only if He chooses. If you sense anything, it is that I will not forget this that He has saved me from. It makes my life His. I belong to Him.

What we are is a result of everything that we experience. God can transform us and make us into His children, and it is His place to decide just what we will look like. I have this remembrance to keep me in the place He has placed me. If He does not give me life, I am again worthless. I remember.

I wish to thank you for your concern. I know of your prayers. If you have something specific from Him, I am always open of heart.

In His perfect love,
vic

Precious Brother,

I am going to send a couple of things to you that that I do think are specifically from the LORD for you........


SeekinHIM