my friend Judas

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posthuman

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i have a question about a single word in the scripture, that i think brings up a lot of other interesting questions that touch on things that are discussed here quite a lot.
i don't know the answer to the question - hopefully that's a relief, as this isn't just a thread where i tell you how it is and expect a lot of "
yes post we agree" responses. i expect some of us aren't going to make much of it but i also expect some of us have never really given it deep thought, and i hope we all learn something exploring the implications, either way.

so at Gethsemane, Judas led men from the chief priest & elders of the people to capture Jesus.

Going at once to Jesus, Judas said, “Greetings, Rabbi!” and kissed him.
Jesus replied, “
Do what you came for, friend.
(Matthew 26:49-50)

some translations give "why have you come?" instead - i'm not clear which is correct or why there are two renderings - but in either case, what i want to know is why did Jesus call him "friend" ?

there are two other references that must be important here - the obvious one:

Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
You are my friends if you do what I command.
I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business.
Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.

(John 15:13-15)​

and also this, that may not be as obvious in it's bearing on the question:

As soon as Judas took the bread, Satan entered into him.
So Jesus told him, “
What you are about to do, do quickly.
But no one at the meal understood why Jesus said this to him.

(John 13:27-28)

and here is also some wisdom to help us think about this:

Faithful are the wounds of a friend;
but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

(Proverbs 27:6)


A friend loves at all times,
and a brother is born for adversity.

(Proverbs 17:17)


Whoever covers an offense seeks love,
but he who repeats a matter separates close friends.

(Proverbs 17:9)​

i know that Christ spoke the truth when he said this to Judas, and that no scripture is contradicted by what He said to him.
i'm grateful for your thoughts about this.
like i said, i don't know the answer - so i'm not going to argue; i'd just like to hear what you think & what i can learn from this.
 
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Psalm 41:9
Even my close friend in whom I trusted, who ate my bread, has lifted his heel against me.
 
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Psalm 41:9
Even my close friend in whom I trusted, who ate my bread, has lifted his heel against me.
John 13:18
I speak not of you all: I know whom I have chosen: but that the scripture may be fulfilled, He that eateth bread with me hath lifted up his heel against me.
 
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psalm6819

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I think even at this stage that Jesus had not given up on Judas. He knew what Judas was going to do. Jesus also knew what Peter was going to do.

Peter believed that Jesus would forgive him. So he asked for and received forgiveness.

Judas did not believe Jesus would forgive him. He DIDN'T ask forgiveness instead of submitting to God, Judas tried to punish himself.

I believe if Judas believed what Jesus said, Judas could have asked and received forgiveness.
 

Pres19

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Umm okay I don't want anyone bashing on me for this..and I'm not even sure if it will help.

I was reading a book called "the necessity of an enemy by Ron carpenter" (not really a fan of him but really liked the book) and he talked about that..
Here it is if you're interested..


"His friends are usually identified as Peter, James, John, and the other faithful disciples. The enemy? That seems a no-brainer—has to be Judas, the notorious betrayer, right?

Now, I warn you: I’m going to mess with your mind, because in a moment I want you to consider a principle of the Christian life that’s often ignored. But first, back to my questions about Jesus and His relationships. Let’s look first at a familiar incident involving one of Jesus’s “buddies,” the fiery, foot-inmouth Peter. One day Jesus and the disciples were having a discussion, and Peter got high-fives for saying that Jesus was “the Christ.” But a little later, when Peter
pulled Jesus aside and started criticizing the Lord for saying that He had to go to Jerusalem to suffer and die, Jesus got in Peter’s face and said, “Get behind Me, Satan!” (Matthew 16:13–23.)

Whoa! What happened to the “nice” Jesus?

Now flash forward a few days to the Garden of Gethsemane, where Jesus is in agony about upcoming events. Judas shows up with a group of soldiers who intend to take Jesus prisoner. The betrayer steps forward, greets Jesus, and gives Him a kiss. Jesus (who of course knows what’s up) responds, “Friend, why have you come?”

The kiss is the secret signal to the soldiers that “this is the guy,” and they rush forward to grab Jesus. One of the disciples—yup, it’s Peter—pulls his sword and takes a whack at the head of a servant of the high priest, slashing off
the poor man’s ear. Jesus will have none of it and, after telling His “friend” he has it all wrong and needs to sheath his sword, says, “Do you think that I cannot now pray to My Father, and He will provide Me with more than twelve legions
of angels? How then could the Scriptures be fulfilled, that it must happen thus?” And later Jesus also says, “All this was done that the Scriptures of the prophets might be fulfilled” (Matthew 26:50–56).

Now, I ask you, taking into consideration these two incidents involving Peter and Judas, which man ultimately did the most to advance Jesus’s mission on earth? Who did Jesus call “Satan”? Who did Jesus greet as “Friend”? Here’s the point. The message Jesus was trying to get across to Peter was something like this: “You do not have in mind the things of God. You are trying to keep Me from the cross. Right now you are an enemy.” And later, Jesus effectively
said to Judas, “You have come to sell Me out so that I will complete My destiny. You, therefore, are My friend.”

In this circumstance—which because of the Cross is the most important moment in history—Judas did for Jesus what Peter and the other disciples could not do."
 
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atwhatcost

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i have a question about a single word in the scripture, that i think brings up a lot of other interesting questions that touch on things that are discussed here quite a lot.
i don't know the answer to the question - hopefully that's a relief, as this isn't just a thread where i tell you how it is and expect a lot of "
yes post we agree" responses. i expect some of us aren't going to make much of it but i also expect some of us have never really given it deep thought, and i hope we all learn something exploring the implications, either way.

so at Gethsemane, Judas led men from the chief priest & elders of the people to capture Jesus.

Going at once to Jesus, Judas said, “Greetings, Rabbi!” and kissed him.
Jesus replied, “
Do what you came for, friend.
(Matthew 26:49-50)

some translations give "why have you come?" instead - i'm not clear which is correct or why there are two renderings - but in either case, what i want to know is why did Jesus call him "friend" ?

there are two other references that must be important here - the obvious one:

Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
You are my friends if you do what I command.
I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business.
Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.

(John 15:13-15)​

and also this, that may not be as obvious in it's bearing on the question:

As soon as Judas took the bread, Satan entered into him.
So Jesus told him, “
What you are about to do, do quickly.
But no one at the meal understood why Jesus said this to him.

(John 13:27-28)

and here is also some wisdom to help us think about this:
Faithful are the wounds of a friend;
but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

(Proverbs 27:6)


A friend loves at all times,
and a brother is born for adversity.

(Proverbs 17:17)


Whoever covers an offense seeks love,
but he who repeats a matter separates close friends.

(Proverbs 17:9)​

i know that Christ spoke the truth when he said this to Judas, and that no scripture is contradicted by what He said to him.
i'm grateful for your thoughts about this.
like i said, i don't know the answer - so i'm not going to argue; i'd just like to hear what you think & what i can learn from this.
But, I do agree with you fully. I don't know either. :)

Some thoughts I'm having.

Have you ever had a friend stab you in the back? How long between back stabbing and the end of the relationship? Yeah, I know. The instant thought is immediately. The next thought is I'd have to go to my friend to make sure this can't be resolved or it couldn't have happened like that. Yeah, but that one gets dismissed, because Jesus knew this wasn't going to be resolved. Ultimately, I'm left with it has to be something like when a spouse comes to you out of left-field and asks for a divorce. (And Jesus compared people to unfaithful spouses often, so there is some connection there.) You really can't just dismiss a friend that quickly, even if he stabbed you in the back. There's too much history in the friendship. There is time between back stabbed and end of friendship. Until that time is over, the person is still a friend. (One possibility.)

The other is Jesus was sweating blood over this moment. He had been praying for hours.

Now my prayer life usually goes something like this:
Me: But I don't want to.
God: It's good for you.
Me: But I don't want to.
God: Tough. (He's gentler than that, but when I'm in a good pout, it sounds like that.)
Me: But I don't want to.
God: It's here. Deal.
And then whatever I don't want to do lands straight in my lap where I don't want it, but God lifts me up and carries me through it, often before I even notice it's happening.

I'm cantankerous. Jesus and his Dad were always in agreement, so the timing was probably just as perfect, except he went willing. So Judas shows up, Jesus knows this is it. Doesn't that seem like the action of a friend at that moment, even in those circumstances?

Just my thoughts, but I am firmly agreeing with you on the I don't know. :D
 
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psychomom

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a look at the Greek? :)

John 15:14-- 'friend'
philos: beloved, dear, friendly

HELPS word studies:
phílos – a friend; someone dearly loved (prized) in a personal, intimate way; a trusted confidant, held dear in a close bond of personal affection.Note: The root (phil-) conveys experiential, personal affection – indicating 5384 (phílos) expresses experience-based love.


Matt 26:50-- 'friend'
hetairos: a companion

HELPS word studies:
2083 hetaíros – properly, a companion (normally an imposter), posing to be a comrade but in reality only has his own interests in mind.

2083 /hetaíros ("supposed friend") suggests someone viewed (associated) as a friend, but is actually an imposter acting for self-gain.

just for consideration :)
 
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Is

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But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you. Matt.5:44

Jesus practiced what He preached.
 
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Every person on the earth is a friend of Jesus . A lot of them refuse the friendship. Jesus never changes.
 
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Judas being the original "son of perdition" was also a sign of the latter day "sons of perdition" as one who would feign himself as a true disciple and friend of the Lord, but was really reprobate concerning the faith. This same spirit of hypocrisy is found in many who claim to know Jesus, but in works they truly deny Him. These are those who flatter with their lips giving lip service, but their hearts are far from the Lord. Even many selling out the Truth for covetousness and greedy gain like Judas who sold out the Lord for 30 pieces of silver.

Psalm 55:12-15 "For it was not an enemy that reproached me; then I could have borne it: neither was it he that hated me that did magnify himself against me; then I would have hid myself from him:[SUP]13 [/SUP]But it was thou, a man mine equal, my guide, and mine acquaintance.
[SUP]14 [/SUP]We took sweet counsel together, and walked unto the house of God in company.

[SUP]15 [/SUP]Let death seize upon them, and let them go down quick into hell: for wickedness is in their dwellings, and among them."


Luke 21:16
And ye shall be betrayed both by parents, and brethren, and kinsfolks, and friends; and some of you shall they cause to be put to death.