Serial adultery

[atwhatcost]

Jesus gave only 1 reason for divorce,cheating on the spouse,and 2 reasons for remarriage,cheating on the spouse,and death,but Jesus said whoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery in his heart,but of course the woman does not know the man lusted after a woman in his heart,but what if he told his wife,would that be grounds for divorce seeing Jesus said he committed adultery the same as if he committed the act,or would it be a sin to him,but not reason for divorce,because it was not a physical act.

I believe it would be a sin to him,but not a reason for divorce because it was not a physical act.

Actually, he also said why that's okay. Because the hardness of the heart. Then again, he was in the business of softening hearts, so even there it's not a given.

(Not to mention, does it matter if you're not a believer? Bigger issues to explore before divorcing.)

 

[blue_ladybug]

If it's been going on for 10 years, as stated in the OP, then something is seriously wrong with both of you and you need counseling ASAP. I wouldn't put up with a cheating hubby for 10 years, no way in Hades!! His butt would be divorced so fast it would make his head spin..

I'm NOT saying the OP should divorce.. That's just what I personally would do..

 

[Utah]

ugh I hate porn so much - its so degrading to women. So many women are the victims of criminal elements and some are cant survive any other way. Porn to me is just another abuse of women. Being addicted to that abuse makes me feel sick.

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[pottersclay]

Each year thousands of girls are raped, drugged, and beaten into submission to exploit their bodies in sexual depravity. This is also the same for men believe it or not. The ones that start out to do this as a career or as a way to get through hard times and even college often find themselves trapped. Between the disease and drugs being used chances of living a healthy life are slim to none. The mental scares that they accumulate and the decline of self worth is staggering. Most end up addicted to drugs or alcohol or find suicide there only relief. Very few have found their way out of this lifestyle to have a normal life. One viewing these pic or films never considers that it's someone's child or mom or dad. Worst yet it could be a missing person that a family
Is hoping to see again, and never will. In the U.S. Portland Oregon is the main export of children for sex .
And in parts of India and throughout its been known that for a price you can have your way with a 6month old if you like.
The reason why I bring this disturbing news to you that all of it is a related worldwide circuit and each time you mouse over on your puter and click or by a book or c.d. your supporting it one way or another. Think about it.
Sex addiction is a form of violence, ones self gratification, to humiliate, or hurt for pleasure and can make one so he or she cannot be satisfied , with or by the norm. This is what this industry is all about. It is the number one addiction in the world and Satan's best layed trap. It's found in the bible as pleasant pictures.

 

[resurrection33]

If a man is addicted to porn, masturbation and active lusting and has been for over 10 years, is he a serial adulterer?

I've never heard it put that way before. Such a man certainly has a serious problem. Lust is very addictive and it grows until one is committing acts that can cause him to lose his job, his family, and in some cases, go to prison.