If your doctrine and your churches doctrine doesn't quite line up with scripture, then your doctrine needs to change. Even though I was raised Evangelical, I have to admit that Evangelical presentations of the Gospel often don't sound that much like presentations of the Gospel in the Bible.
Here is stuff you hear Evangelicals say,
1 It's a relationship not a religion.
---When their Bible speaks of 'pure religion' in James 1. Unbelievers don't know our unique definitions of words like 'religion' so we shouldn't bog down our presentations of the Gospel with them.
2. It's all about a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.
---Jesus probably grew up with some folks who had personal relationships with Him who didn't believe the Gospel. The people in Nazareth knew him. Judas Iscariot had a personal relationship with Him, but Judas was lost.
---The apostles never present the Gospel as being about having a 'personal relationship with Jesus Christ.'
---Why should we think that the Hindu who wants to put a statue of Jesus on the shelf, the New Ager who wants a spirit guide, or the Muslim who doesn't believe that Jesus is the Son of God or that He rose from the dead, who repeats a prayer to 'accept Jesus' so he can have a personal relationship.... is saved?
3. The Bible does not teach you get saved by repeating a prayer.
--I saw a video made by an author who explained the 'sinner's prayer' ritual was popularized only in the 1950's, taken from a way to get people who were ready to make a profession of faith after a counselor went through the Bible with them and talked with them about their faith.
--Repeating a prayer doesn't save you. Saying it without faith won't save you. Asking people to repeat a prayer without explaining the Gospel to them first doesn't make any sense at all, though it seems to be the norm in many pulpits throughout the land.
4. The Bible does not teach that you get saved by 'asking Jesus into your heart.'
---Check it out. It's not there. Even 'behold I stand at the door and knock' is addressed to a church, not the unbeliever. And it doesn't mention Jesus coming into anyone's heart.
--- here is no reason to think that the verse that says, "But to as many as received Him..." refers to the modern evangelical ritual of repeating a prayer after a preacher, which hadn't even been in the first century.
5. The apostles preached Christ, the cross and the resurrection.
---One cannot claim the promise of salvation based on I Corinthians 15:1-4 if he doesn't believe that Jesus died for His sins and rose from the dead. One cannot claim the promise of salvation found in Romans 10:9-10 if he doesn't believe that Jesus rose from the dead.
---So why do so many preachers NOT tell sinners that Jesus died for their sins and rose again from the dead, but instead talk about having a 'personal relationship' and repeating a sinner's prayer. Some mention the cross and not the resurrection. Believing that Jesus died on the cross isn't enough to save you. Caiaphas believed that Jesus died on the cross. Plenty of pagan Romans believed that Jesus died on the cross. Plenty of atheists believe that Jesus died on the cross.
6. Our salvation is tied up with our faith that God raised Jesus from the dead.
---If Jesus hadn't risen, we would still be dead in our sins.
Here is stuff you hear Evangelicals say,
1 It's a relationship not a religion.
---When their Bible speaks of 'pure religion' in James 1. Unbelievers don't know our unique definitions of words like 'religion' so we shouldn't bog down our presentations of the Gospel with them.
2. It's all about a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.
---Jesus probably grew up with some folks who had personal relationships with Him who didn't believe the Gospel. The people in Nazareth knew him. Judas Iscariot had a personal relationship with Him, but Judas was lost.
---The apostles never present the Gospel as being about having a 'personal relationship with Jesus Christ.'
---Why should we think that the Hindu who wants to put a statue of Jesus on the shelf, the New Ager who wants a spirit guide, or the Muslim who doesn't believe that Jesus is the Son of God or that He rose from the dead, who repeats a prayer to 'accept Jesus' so he can have a personal relationship.... is saved?
3. The Bible does not teach you get saved by repeating a prayer.
--I saw a video made by an author who explained the 'sinner's prayer' ritual was popularized only in the 1950's, taken from a way to get people who were ready to make a profession of faith after a counselor went through the Bible with them and talked with them about their faith.
--Repeating a prayer doesn't save you. Saying it without faith won't save you. Asking people to repeat a prayer without explaining the Gospel to them first doesn't make any sense at all, though it seems to be the norm in many pulpits throughout the land.
4. The Bible does not teach that you get saved by 'asking Jesus into your heart.'
---Check it out. It's not there. Even 'behold I stand at the door and knock' is addressed to a church, not the unbeliever. And it doesn't mention Jesus coming into anyone's heart.
--- here is no reason to think that the verse that says, "But to as many as received Him..." refers to the modern evangelical ritual of repeating a prayer after a preacher, which hadn't even been in the first century.
5. The apostles preached Christ, the cross and the resurrection.
---One cannot claim the promise of salvation based on I Corinthians 15:1-4 if he doesn't believe that Jesus died for His sins and rose from the dead. One cannot claim the promise of salvation found in Romans 10:9-10 if he doesn't believe that Jesus rose from the dead.
---So why do so many preachers NOT tell sinners that Jesus died for their sins and rose again from the dead, but instead talk about having a 'personal relationship' and repeating a sinner's prayer. Some mention the cross and not the resurrection. Believing that Jesus died on the cross isn't enough to save you. Caiaphas believed that Jesus died on the cross. Plenty of pagan Romans believed that Jesus died on the cross. Plenty of atheists believe that Jesus died on the cross.
6. Our salvation is tied up with our faith that God raised Jesus from the dead.
---If Jesus hadn't risen, we would still be dead in our sins.