Is it to late to start my life before God returns

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sweetpea86

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Iam anon married female that is 29 I don't have children but I do have a boy friend I m the middle child of 7 children but I m not married or no children and neither does my boyfriend and he is the oldest of three boys. I am afraid that god will return and it will be to late can some one help me please it is stressing me out.
 

Jilly81

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Fortunately, you don't need to have children to enter Heaven, and Jesus is a perfect example :).
 
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notuptome

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Eph 5:16 Redeeming the time, because the days are evil.
Col 4:5 Walk in wisdom toward them that are without, redeeming the time.

Redeem the time. Live for the Lord in all that you do. Do not worry when the Lord will return but live for Him. It is no sin to marry and have children. Don't not do something that God blesses in fear of Christ's return. Just be found faithful in what you are doing.

Getting married and having children is blessed by God. Do not let the things that are going to befall this wicked world rob you of the joy of living for Jesus.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
 

JaumeJ

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Mat 20:1

For the kingdom of heaven is like unto a man that is an householder, which went out early in the morning to hire labourers into his vineyard.
Mat 20:2

And when he had agreed with the labourers for a penny a day, he sent them into his vineyard.
Mat 20:3

And he went out about the third hour, and saw others standing idle in the marketplace,
Mat 20:4

And said unto them; Go ye also into the vineyard, and whatsoever is right I will give you. And they went their way.
Mat 20:5

Again he went out about the sixth and ninth hour, and did likewise.
Mat 20:6

And about the eleventh hour he went out, and found others standing idle, and saith unto them, Why stand ye here all the day idle?
Mat 20:7

They say unto him, Because no man hath hired us. He saith unto them, Go ye also into the vineyard; and whatsoever is right, that shall ye receive.
Mat 20:8

So when even was come, the lord of the vineyard saith unto his steward, Call the labourers, and give them their hire, beginning from the last unto the first.
Mat 20:9

And when they came that were hired about the eleventh hour, they received every man a penny.
Mat 20:10

But when the first came, they supposed that they should have received more; and they likewise received every man a penny.
Mat 20:11

And when they had received it, they murmured against the goodman of the house,
Mat 20:12

Saying, These last have wrought but one hour, and thou hast made them equal unto us, which have borne the burden and heat of the day.
Mat 20:13

But he answered one of them, and said, Friend, I do thee no wrong: didst not thou agree with me for a penny?
Mat 20:14

Take that thine is, and go thy way: I will give unto this last, even as unto thee.

Mat 20:15
Is it not lawful for me to do what I will with mine own? Is thine eye evil, because I am good?
 
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sweetpea86

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I know I don't need to have children I would like to experience having my own family before he returns but Iam afraid that god will return before I get to experience it for my self. I come to learn that once you go to heaven you wont remember any one who you have a relationship with
 
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God's purpose for us in this life is more than marriage and children. Our purpose in life is to serve Him as He directs us. Some He wants married to serve Him in certain ways, others He prefers single. Accept Christ and go live your life, single or married, kids or no kids. Just go live.
 
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Iam anon married female that is 29 I don't have children but I do have a boy friend I m the middle child of 7 children but I m not married or no children and neither does my boyfriend and he is the oldest of three boys. I am afraid that god will return and it will be to late can some one help me please it is stressing me out.
I really don't see what your marriage or child situation has to do with seeking God first.

If you are stressed out because you have not given your life to God by trusting in the Son he gave so that you can have eternal life, forgiveness of your sins, peace with God - then what are you waiting for?


https://youtu.be/BeTu8twnGvU

Go ahead take that first step - confess Jesus as Lord and believe God raised him from the dead - you will be saved! Start your new life now. :)
 
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sweetpea86

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I have been working on it but it is a challenge I was smoking but I m smoking less now and my boyfriend is doing well I believe his only weakness is sex but we are not married but I don't want to rush him just to be able to have sex what can I do to make it right
 
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sweetpea86

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I know to see others with husbands and children makes me feel like I will never get my chance because we are already living in our last days and things are happening in this world to were I fear that god could return any day now and I wont get my chance as I said before I learned that once we get to heaven we wont remember any one that has crossed our paths in our lives on earth
 
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sweetpea86

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I have already excepted Jesus as my lord and savior I just want to experience being a mother and wife before god returns and we are really living in our last days and I know I wont remember any one in this life time in heaven so I just really wanted to experience that before he returned
 

valiant

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I know to see others with husbands and children makes me feel like I will never get my chance because we are already living in our last days and things are happening in this world to were I fear that god could return any day now and I wont get my chance as I said before I learned that once we get to heaven we wont remember any one that has crossed our paths in our lives on earth
Let me assure you that if you are a true Christian and get to Heaven you won't be worrying about what happened before. As long as you are not having sex with your bf there seems nothing wrong in your situation, although you do give the impression that you need to rededicate your life to Christ.

Do you truly know Christ as your personal Saviour? That is the first important question.
 
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sweetpea86

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Yes But Iam still learning about him every day that he works me up But the problem is me and my boyfriend Have been having sex and I don't want to rush him to get married but I want to do the right thing by god as well
 

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I have already excepted Jesus as my lord and savior I just want to experience being a mother and wife before god returns and we are really living in our last days and I know I wont remember any one in this life time in heaven so I just really wanted to experience that before he returned
Get married with a believer..have children..you never know when the Lord may return...today or in a thousand years.
 
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I have been working on it but it is a challenge I was smoking but I m smoking less now and my boyfriend is doing well I believe his only weakness is sex but we are not married but I don't want to rush him just to be able to have sex what can I do to make it right
Does your boyfriend love you . . . REALLY love you? Talk to him - tell him what you want for your life and if he loves you, he will be willing to stop the sex thing and wait until you two are married. You can still do that! :) As for smoking - I have that same problem . . . smoking is harmful to you . . . but it does not "touch" the gift of holy Spirit inside you . . . Is it BEST NOT to smoke? Sure - Will/can it keep you from loving God and having a relationship with your heavenly Father? NOPE . . . I still am working on quitting - It's an addiction and it is not easy - hopefully one day I will get there but why should I let that deter me from loving God and loving others?
 
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I have already excepted Jesus as my lord and savior I just want to experience being a mother and wife before god returns and we are really living in our last days and I know I wont remember any one in this life time in heaven so I just really wanted to experience that before he returned
You are worrying too much about the "WHAT IF'S" instead of just living your life to the fullest! :) If you are ready to get married make sure that your boyfriend is wanting the same things as you especially a relationship with God and his Son - that is really important. Your life needs to be centered around God - with God first - and all the other things will work out.

As for as what eternal life will be like - scriptures give us glimpses of what that will be like - but I don't think we can even imagine what that will really be like - wouldn't you rather be there than anywhere else?
 

Magenta

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I have already excepted Jesus as my lord and savior I just want to experience being a mother and wife before god returns and we are really living in our last days and I know I wont remember any one in this life time in heaven so I just really wanted to experience that before he returned
We have been in the last days since Jesus walked this world. If you have accepted Him as your Lord and Saviour then take His words to heart, and "do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."
 
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JustAnotherUser

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It's not too late to change. Upon God's return, well, it's not too late until you actually see it for yourself. ;)
 
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Ugly

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I have already excepted Jesus as my lord and savior I just want to experience being a mother and wife before god returns and we are really living in our last days and I know I wont remember any one in this life time in heaven so I just really wanted to experience that before he returned
Where your treasure is, there your heart will be.
The heart is deceitful above all things.
Do not store up your treasures on earth.

Seems like your priority in life is getting what you want more than serving God and trusting that He will fulfill you and your life. That may lead to marriage and kids. Maybe not. But whatever it is, it will be more rewarding than you pushing for your own wants.
 
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I know I don't need to have children I would like to experience having my own family before he returns but Iam afraid that god will return before I get to experience it for my self. I come to learn that once you go to heaven you wont remember any one who you have a relationship with
Bless you, Little One, but WHO IN THE WORLD HAS BEEN FILLING YOUR MIND WITH THIS STUFF?
 

PennEd

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I have already excepted Jesus as my lord and savior I just want to experience being a mother and wife before god returns and we are really living in our last days and I know I wont remember any one in this life time in heaven so I just really wanted to experience that before he returned
If you have accepted Jesus let the Holy Spirit work in your life. He will sanctify and conform you to be Christ-like. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean NOT on your own understanding. Peace, joy, and Grace to you.