What happens if a believer decides he hates God and does not want to go to heaven?

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A born again believer suddenly hates God, begins profuse sinning, and despises heaven

  • He can't do this

    Votes: 1 10.0%
  • He won't do this

    Votes: 2 20.0%
  • God will ignore him and send him to heaven anyway

    Votes: 2 20.0%
  • He could never have been born again to start with

    Votes: 5 50.0%

  • Total voters
    10
Sep 16, 2014
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#21
AGAIN you are teaching "Works" for Salvation!

When will you understand rightly believing is not part of Salvation?

Again the Thief on the Cross never had Divine Reveal Truth but yet he is with Jesus!
 

Chester

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#23
I like a lot about your original answer and I agree with most of it: (Quoted below)


"God will offer grace and patience. Then he will rebuke. Then He will offer divine discipline, getting harsher and harsher if the believer stays in reversionism. And If the believer doesn't come out of it......sin unto physical death. God brings the believer home. And loss of rewards,rank,reign,crowns can be further punishment.

He will be a happy,content, tear free,sin free,jealous free shoe shiner to those who advanced in the Christian way of life. With those rewards forever on display to see what they missed out on.

All believers will enter,not all will reign with Him or inherit the Kingdom."



Wonderful answer in that God would love this person, he would tenderfully (and yet powerfully) chastise him to bring him back to himself: I agree completely with that.

So, you are right when you say that you did not say "God will ignore him"!

But I categorized your answer as (C) because you imply that God will ignore this person's pleas not to be sent to heaven.

A further question: What will happen "if" this person gets to heaven and continues swearing at God and demanding that he be sent to hell? And if this is not possible, why not?
 
Jan 9, 2016
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#24
AGAIN you are teaching "Works" for Salvation!

When will you understand rightly believing is not part of Salvation?

Again the Thief on the Cross never had Divine Reveal Truth but yet he is with Jesus!
Can you name 1 divine revelation of Christ you believe you don't have to believe?
 
Feb 11, 2016
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#25
None of the above.

I believe that a person can decide (for whatever crazy reason) that they hate God, and all He stands for, and walk away, never looking back.

To me, that is the unforgiveable sin.... not wanting to be saved. I do not believe God will save us against our will.
I like how you said, "for whatever crazy reason" that they'd hate God, and I thought, perhaps it would be less likely in more of a direct sense of proclaiming they hate God in words (as some might count it) but rather to love something else more. For example, Jesus said you cannot serve God and mammon, and that you would either love the one or hate the other, or hold to the one and despise the other. There was no middle ground there. But then we see Paul speaking of Demas having forsaken him having loved this present world. And yet as it relates to God both the love of money and/or the love of the world (as we are given to understand) is that such a one in that place has no love of the Father abiding in them (they love the world). And so it could be making a choice (in that way) not so much to stand up and say they actually hate God so much. Speaks of a heart of unbelief which departs from the living God it has to be "for something" I would think.
 

Chester

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May 23, 2016
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#26
A, B, D...under protest :mad:

Can you explain?

If (a) "he can't do this" is correct, then of course it follows that (b) "he won't do this" is also true.
So if you choose (A) at all among a list of several answers you are acknowledging this is the best answer

(A) and (D) are similar in that both deny the scenario could ever happen. (a) "he can't do it" says the believer does not have free choice to reject God while (d) says if a "believer" should do this (reject God) then he was not a believer to start with.

How can A,B,and D be correct answers?
 

Chester

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May 23, 2016
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#29
Is this how to respond to questions that people do not know how to answer?
 

RickyZ

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Sep 20, 2012
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#30
Here is a scenario with 4 given possibilities: which option would you choose as the correct answer?

The "actor" in this scenario is a believer in Christ who says that he has full 100% assurance of salvation. No one who knows him (based on his faith and his actions) has any reason to doubt his salvation.

But one day this person decides he hates God: He doesn't want to go to heaven (and tells God so!): He swears at God, he curses God, he begins doing any and all kinds of unspeakable evil deeds - and he keeps on doing this for years and it gets worse and worse as time goes on.

Which option is the best?
(A) He can't do this
(B) He won't do this
(C) God will ignore him and send him to heaven anyway
(D) He could not ever have been saved (born again) in the first place
Assuming that he was truly saved, nothing short of their conscious public denial of the resurrected Christ will 'unsave' them. Hating and badmouthing God are not denial, thus C is the correct answer - except that God won't ignore them. Even tho they are saved they will be called to account for their works, and suffer gain or loss accordingly.
 

RickyZ

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#31
None of the above.

I believe that a person can decide (for whatever crazy reason) that they hate God, and all He stands for, and walk away, never looking back.

To me, that is the unforgiveable sin.... not wanting to be saved. I do not believe God will save us against our will.
I've long felt that the only unforgiveable sin is refusing to accept forgiveness
 

Angela53510

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#32
So, would your answer be (a) He can't do it or (b) He won't do it
Let's use some logic here. At this point I have returned and the thread is well past my first post, onto page two! There are only 5 votes so far, all for d). So that means either I voted D or I did not vote at all.

Just to make it easy for you, I voted d).

But the question is whether the person was truly saved, which if he truly walked away from he obviously he was not truly saved.

But if he truly walked away from God, then wasn't he obviously never truly saved?

So if a person truly walks away from God, then they were never truly saved, no matter their thoughts and feelings on salvation.

It really comes back to this bad piece of theology, that our thoughts, feelings desires and especially "will" save us. The Bible is clear we are justified by faith, and faith is s gift of God. We cannot lose something that was from God, and not of ourselves.

And if anyone could truly hate God, then they were never truly saved in the first place!
 

Chester

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#33
An interesting and I must say clear response!

I think my description of what this person did was to me a "conscious public denial of the resurrected Christ". I wonder how you would describe a "conscious public denial of the resurrected Christ"?

Are you saying such an action (a conscious public denial) would mean this person goes to hell if they die?



Assuming that he was truly saved, nothing short of their conscious public denial of the resurrected Christ will 'unsave' them. Hating and badmouthing God are not denial, thus C is the correct answer - except that God won't ignore them. Even tho they are saved they will be called to account for their works, and suffer gain or loss accordingly.
 

Chester

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#34
Can I get you to think about your answers a bit?

You said in your first answer: "Because I don't believe someone who has a deep relationship with our loving God and Creator could ever just abruptly change their mind and walk away from God. Well, more than walk away -hate God!"

Why do you believe that? (By the way I pretty much would agree with the statement above)


In the second response you seem to be saying that it is impossible for a truly saved person to "truly walk away" from God.

If this is so, then you make the assumption the person I said was "truly born again" actually was not born again.

Hence you answered (D) as the best answer. OK, but what that does is makes our assurance of salvation dependent upon our works! Because if I truly do not do good works, then I have cause to doubt I was ever truly saved in the first place.

It seems to me the person who really believes in "once saved always saved" must either answer this question (a) or (c) or if answering (d) realize that the doctrine of "once saved always saved" means our assurance of salvation is based on our works.

It seems to me that responses (A) and (C) are really saying that God takes away the free choice of the Christian: If you believe that - OK - but it seems repugnant to me.

I think (B) is probably the closest to a good answer: It seems to me that God's love and grace in the life of the believer has keeping power so that he will not want to choose to deny God. The "He won't do this" may be too strong a statement, but I think it conveys the heart of God better than any of the other answers.

So your earlier response I might word like this if I wrote it: "Because I don't believe someone who has a deep relationship with our loving God and Creator would (instead of "could" as you had) ever just abruptly change their mind and walk away from God. Well, more than walk away -hate God!"



Let's use some logic here. At this point I have returned and the thread is well past my first post, onto page two! There are only 5 votes so far, all for d). So that means either I voted D or I did not vote at all.

Just to make it easy for you, I voted d).

But the question is whether the person was truly saved, which if he truly walked away from he obviously he was not truly saved.

But if he truly walked away from God, then wasn't he obviously never truly saved?

So if a person truly walks away from God, then they were never truly saved, no matter their thoughts and feelings on salvation.

It really comes back to this bad piece of theology, that our thoughts, feelings desires and especially "will" save us. The Bible is clear we are justified by faith, and faith is s gift of God. We cannot lose something that was from God, and not of ourselves.

And if anyone could truly hate God, then they were never truly saved in the first place!
 
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#35
AGAIN you are teaching "Works" for Salvation!

When will you understand rightly believing is not part of Salvation?

Again the Thief on the Cross never had Divine Reveal Truth but yet he is with Jesus!
Okay, so what's the magic number, just so the rest of us can get on board? What number do you have to hit before you can give up repeating yourself?
 
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#36
Is this how to respond to questions that people do not know how to answer?
Is it wise to assume people don't know the answer simply because you didn't give the best choices for answers?

And, is this it for you? Is this your deep study into God's word or a game? I vote the latter.
 

wolfwint

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#37
Here is a scenario with 4 given possibilities: which option would you choose as the correct answer?

The "actor" in this scenario is a believer in Christ who says that he has full 100% assurance of salvation. No one who knows him (based on his faith and his actions) has any reason to doubt his salvation.

But one day this person decides he hates God: He doesn't want to go to heaven (and tells God so!): He swears at God, he curses God, he begins doing any and all kinds of unspeakable evil deeds - and he keeps on doing this for years and it gets worse and worse as time goes on.

Which option is the best?
(A) He can't do this
(B) He won't do this
(C) God will ignore him and send him to heaven anyway
(D) He could not ever have been saved (born again) in the first place
I am shure nobody will come to heaven against his will.
Concern of your scenario. A strange one!
 
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RobbyEarl

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#38
Well, there are those who once knew Him and now reject Him.
 

CS1

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#39
I would say(D) but it is easier to just worry about me :) but I could be wrong :)