Love

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Sac49

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The word "love" is used many ways and forms in language. "I love you", "I love pizza", "I love music" ect. It is also one word most abused in language. We will often say "I love you" to gain something we desire.

The word "love" is translated into English 310 times in the KJV, 348 in the NASB, 551 in the NIV and 538 in the NRSV. The only reason for these difference in numbers is readability as per the translation. But. The words that are translated from the Greek to the English do not all have the same meaning.

This is a study in the word "love", how we use it and how we are to use it according to Gods Word. Do we use love properly and show it properly or are we using it to "get what we want"?

There are four main words in the Greek which get translated into the English word "love". They are Storge, Eros, Phileo and Agape. Each has a different meaning and are shown in a different way. Only the words Phileo and Agape are used in the Bible. Both Eros and Storge are displayed in the Bible but neither word actually appears. Although the compound word "philostorgos", made up of phileo and storge, appears in Romans 12:10. And the negative for storge, astorgos, appears in Romans 1:31 and 2 Tmothy 3:3.

Storge>an affectionate love shown within a family. Unforced and naturally occuring. Shown Biblically by Noah, Jacob, Mary, Martha and Lazarus.

Eros>is a passionate and sexual love. Important within a marriage relationship. Eros can be mistakenly used for storge. Shown Biblically in the Song of Soloman.

Phileo>this love refers to a brotherly love and is most often displayed in a close friendship. Best friends will display this generous and affectionate love for each other seeking to make the other happy. Shown Biblically between David and Jonathan.

Agape>this is the most powerful type of love. This is a pure sacrificial love of giving oneself for another. This love can only be displayed 100% by God. We are called to have an agape love but because of sin we cannot ever have a 100% agape love. We can have and show times of agape love but while we are human it can never be full in us.

The New Testament writers, who wrote in Greek, found no common word for love adequate enough to explain the love which belongs to God. They used a word rarely used before and gave a new meaning to it. Inspired by the Holy Spirit they used the word agape. J. I. Packer wrote "the New Testament writers had to introduce what was virtually a new Greek word "agape" to express the love of God as they knew it.".

Jesus is agape love personified.
 
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The word "love" is used many ways and forms in language. "I love you", "I love pizza", "I love music" ect. It is also one word most abused in language. We will often say "I love you" to gain something we desire.

The word "love" is translated into English 310 times in the KJV, 348 in the NASB, 551 in the NIV and 538 in the NRSV. The only reason for these difference in numbers is readability as per the translation. But. The words that are translated from the Greek to the English do not all have the same meaning.

This is a study in the word "love", how we use it and how we are to use it according to Gods Word. Do we use love properly and show it properly or are we using it to "get what we want"?

There are four main words in the Greek which get translated into the English word "love". They are Storge, Eros, Phileo and Agape. Each has a different meaning and are shown in a different way. Only the words Phileo and Agape are used in the Bible. Both Eros and Storge are displayed in the Bible but neither word actually appears. Although the compound word "philostorgos", made up of phileo and storge, appears in Romans 12:10. And the negative for storge, astorgos, appears in Romans 1:31 and 2 Tmothy 3:3.

Storge>an affectionate love shown within a family. Unforced and naturally occuring. Shown Biblically by Noah, Jacob, Mary, Martha and Lazarus.

Eros>is a passionate and sexual love. Important within a marriage relationship. Eros can be mistakenly used for storge. Shown Biblically in the Song of Soloman.

Phileo>this love refers to a brotherly love and is most often displayed in a close friendship. Best friends will display this generous and affectionate love for each other seeking to make the other happy. Shown Biblically between David and Jonathan.

Agape>this is the most powerful type of love. This is a pure sacrificial love of giving oneself for another. This love can only be displayed 100% by God. We are called to have an agape love but because of sin we cannot ever have a 100% agape love. We can have and show times of agape love but while we are human it can never be full in us.

The New Testament writers, who wrote in Greek, found no common word for love adequate enough to explain the love which belongs to God. They used a word rarely used before and gave a new meaning to it. Inspired by the Holy Spirit they used the word agape. J. I. Packer wrote "the New Testament writers had to introduce what was virtually a new Greek word "agape" to express the love of God as they knew it.".

Jesus is agape love personified.
it is clear that words ,thsrefore, cannot and do not really describe and define love like mother love as Jesus illustrated it at Jn 13;34-34 AS not many now have seen the mother hen take off vertically to meet the downward swoop by the eagle/hawk on her little chicks - wincam
 
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MadParrotWoman

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With regards to the first paragraph of the OP, when we are talking about love within a marriage I think love enters into different stages on the journey through marriage and for a marriage to remain healthy and long-lived the love has to run deeper than those first heady weeks, months and first years. A love has to evolve from "Eros" love into "Agape" love. Love becomes more stable, lasting and gains in strength even if it appears more subtle.

I saw a good meme that made me think about this; it's a picture of an old couple and the wording is "people ask how we managed to stay together for so many years, I tell them we come from an age when if something was broken we didn't throw it away but fixed it". These days folks bolt at the first sign of trouble (many are guilty of this myself included) instead of turning to God and seeking his blessing upon the union....now that is true love!
 

Sac49

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With regards to the first paragraph of the OP, when we are talking about love within a marriage I think love enters into different stages on the journey through marriage and for a marriage to remain healthy and long-lived the love has to run deeper than those first heady weeks, months and first years. A love has to evolve from "Eros" love into "Agape" love. Love becomes more stable, lasting and gains in strength even if it appears more subtle.

I saw a good meme that made me think about this; it's a picture of an old couple and the wording is "people ask how we managed to stay together for so many years, I tell them we come from an age when if something was broken we didn't throw it away but fixed it". These days folks bolt at the first sign of trouble (many are guilty of this myself included) instead of turning to God and seeking his blessing upon the union....now that is true love!
I think you are correct. Eros is not and should not be the only love within a marriage. I think a marriage should consit of all four words of love. But eros should only be displayed within the marriage.

Again you are correct. We live in a disposable society. If it breaks get a new one. Rather we should be willing to take the time to fix it. I am guilty of this also as i think many are.
 
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JUD. 1:21. Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life.