hmmm..is a gift still a gift if it is conditional?
If I know that the person who is giving me a gift is the type of person who puts strings on to it., I will NOT accept this "gift" because it is not a gift for me. It is a gift for them. It is selfish, it is not for me it is for their own good not mine.
The gift of Salvation from Jesus has nothing to do with selfishness nor is this gift given from a self centered intention in any way. His gift is the epitome of love and grace and our example of how we should be.
How many of us can follow 1Cor.13 without the power of the Holy Spirit?. We can't do it unless we have a revelation of the love of God in Christ. We love Him because He first loved us. This gift is said in the Bible to be an indescribable gift. (am thinking of all the Christmas cards)
But how can any of us DO this kind of love??? It can be accomplished only if we have Jesus and a revelation of His love for us.
13 If I [can] speak in the tongues of men and [even] of angels, but have not love (that reasoning, intentional, spiritual devotion such [SUP][
a][/SUP]as is inspired by God’s love for and in us), I am only a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
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2 [/SUP]And if I have prophetic powers ([SUP][
b][/SUP]the gift of interpreting the divine will and purpose), and understand all the secret truths
and mysteries and possess all knowledge, and if I have [sufficient] faith so that I can remove mountains, but have not love (God’s love in me) I am nothing (a useless nobody).
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3 [/SUP]Even if I dole out all that I have [to the poor in providing] food, and if I surrender my body to be burned
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in order that I may glory, but have not love (God’s love in me), I gain nothing.
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4 [/SUP]Love endures long
and is patient and kind; love never is envious
nor boils over with jealousy, is not boastful
or vainglorious, does not display itself haughtily.
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5 [/SUP]It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude (unmannerly)
and does not act unbecomingly. Love (God’s love in us) does not insist on its own rights
or its own way,
for it is not self-seeking; it is not touchy
or fretful
or resentful; it takes no account of the evil done to it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong].
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6 [/SUP]It does not rejoice at injustice
and unrighteousness, but rejoices when right
and truth prevail.
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7 [/SUP]Love bears up under anything
and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person, its hopes are fadeless under all circumstances, and it endures everything [without weakening].
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8 [/SUP]Love never fails [never fades out or becomes obsolete or comes to an end]. As for prophecy ([SUP][
d][/SUP]the gift of interpreting the divine will and purpose), it will be fulfilled
and pass away; as for tongues, they will be destroyed
and cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away [it will lose its value and be superseded by truth].