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I am currently engaged to a Christian woman and we are getting married in 38 days! Very excited, love her very much.
When we started dating I was not a Christian. I didn't like any sort of "classification" at the time, but I guess you could say I was an atheist. My parents are atheists, and they are the most moral, upstanding, good natured, beautiful people I have ever known, and I was raised according to their very high values. I was a good person by anybody's standards.
We were very much in love right out of the box. We saw each other all the time and did everything together. I always treated her like a princess, respected her beliefs, and never did anything to compromise those beliefs.
Long story short, she talks with her dad and her dad convinces her to break up with me because I am not a believer at the time. Of course, this breaks my heart and I am left completely not understanding. I already knew this was the woman I was going to marry. She tells me it is what the Bible says to do.
Weeks go by, we are still talking to each other and in the interim, I come to Christ. It was a genuine happening, and yes it was influenced by me wanting to be with her, but real and genuine nonetheless. We get back together and continue dating.
The months go by and I start to read a lot of scripture. I come upon 2 Cor 6:14(unequally yoked verse), and find why she believes that she can not be with me. Even though the break up still hurts like crazy I come to a sort of peace about the issue.
A couple more months go by and I stumble upon 1 Cor 7:12-14 - To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her. 13If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. 14For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband.
I understand that in 1 Cor 7:12-14, this is coming from Paul's point of view, and is not directly from God. Even though that is the case, in my opinion, it clearly contradicts 2 Cor 6:14 and it is still in the Bible so it should not just be dismissed and invalidated.
My questions are:
1) Which one are we to believe?
2) If a person lives a "Godly" lifestyle but is an unbeliever, is there really anything wrong or sinful about being in a relationship with them,and/or marrying them?
When we started dating I was not a Christian. I didn't like any sort of "classification" at the time, but I guess you could say I was an atheist. My parents are atheists, and they are the most moral, upstanding, good natured, beautiful people I have ever known, and I was raised according to their very high values. I was a good person by anybody's standards.
We were very much in love right out of the box. We saw each other all the time and did everything together. I always treated her like a princess, respected her beliefs, and never did anything to compromise those beliefs.
Long story short, she talks with her dad and her dad convinces her to break up with me because I am not a believer at the time. Of course, this breaks my heart and I am left completely not understanding. I already knew this was the woman I was going to marry. She tells me it is what the Bible says to do.
Weeks go by, we are still talking to each other and in the interim, I come to Christ. It was a genuine happening, and yes it was influenced by me wanting to be with her, but real and genuine nonetheless. We get back together and continue dating.
The months go by and I start to read a lot of scripture. I come upon 2 Cor 6:14(unequally yoked verse), and find why she believes that she can not be with me. Even though the break up still hurts like crazy I come to a sort of peace about the issue.
A couple more months go by and I stumble upon 1 Cor 7:12-14 - To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her. 13If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. 14For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband.
I understand that in 1 Cor 7:12-14, this is coming from Paul's point of view, and is not directly from God. Even though that is the case, in my opinion, it clearly contradicts 2 Cor 6:14 and it is still in the Bible so it should not just be dismissed and invalidated.
My questions are:
1) Which one are we to believe?
2) If a person lives a "Godly" lifestyle but is an unbeliever, is there really anything wrong or sinful about being in a relationship with them,and/or marrying them?