How does marriage begin and end? What is dating?

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miknik5

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Hmm OK, I still do not see the response :D
She wanted a husband
and in that time the right husband ensured spiritual promises of GOD

Look again at my post
 

Locutus

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I didn't know what happiness was till I got married.










By then of course it was too late....:p
 

miknik5

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And yes, it begins as a heart issue. Or at least should

after that a covenant between a husband and a wife should reflect a covenant of FAITHFULNESS in all seasons

Especially if we consider the wedding covenant to be an example of OUR COVENANT with
CHRIST
 
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Tinuviel

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I didn't know what happiness was till I got married.










By then of course it was too late....:p
You're spacing is a kind of hilarious dramatic pause in type; perfect! lol
 

Angela_grace

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I agree with lot people on here. Marriage is a matter of the heart, not a legal document. Although the document helps the government and businesses etc identify who is married. Also Jesus apparently had no issue with weddings or the way marriages begun. His first miracle was turning water into wine at a wedding.
 
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And yes, it begins as a heart issue. Or at least should

after that a covenant between a husband and a wife should reflect a covenant of FAITHFULNESS in all seasons

Especially if we consider the wedding covenant to be an example of OUR COVENANT with
CHRIST

Amen...well said. If we get a revelation of how Christ is towards us - how He remains faithful no matter what. We would not be having divorces and if the other party did divorce - the life of Christ in us would stick to being faithful in the midst of unfaithfulness.

The other side of this is IMO - not everyone sees this life of Christ in us in that manner and thus there is grace for those that have chosen a different path. There is a better life and it is found only in Christ's life being manifested in us.

If others have divorced and married others - then move on in the state we are in and learn of Christ in us and walk on in Him. There is no condemnation for those that are in Christ Jesus. We are all learning how to live from the life of Christ that is in us.
 

trofimus

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I agree with lot people on here. Marriage is a matter of the heart, not a legal document. Although the document helps the government and businesses etc identify who is married. Also Jesus apparently had no issue with weddings or the way marriages begun. His first miracle was turning water into wine at a wedding.
What does it mean, practically that it is a heart issue?

Dont you know that your heart goes from one to another? People change their partners quite often today. So what does it mean? Are they married to all they loved? Or what?
 

trofimus

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Not directly to the topic, but quite fine :)


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I grew up believing marriage was the union of a man and a women to procreate children and in this process love making took place.
Now in my late 60’s a grandfather several times over, without a wife to comfort me;
Is it a sin to want the comfort of a women that is not your wife?
Is sex and love making one and the same?
 
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Ugly

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I grew up believing marriage was the union of a man and a women to procreate children and in this process love making took place.
Now in my late 60’s a grandfather several times over, without a wife to comfort me;
Is it a sin to want the comfort of a women that is not your wife?
Is sex and love making one and the same?
Translation: is there a way I can have sex without getting married?
Perhaps I'm misunderstanding but that's how the question sounds.
 
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Spokenpassage

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14 years is a long time to earn a wife, I think I'll just go play video games and then she will come.
 

Angela_grace

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What does it mean, practically that it is a heart issue?

Dont you know that your heart goes from one to another? People change their partners quite often today. So what does it mean? Are they married to all they loved? Or what?
when I say it's a matter of the heart. It's when you choose to be with a certain person for life. You make promises to each other and to God. To love, cherish, respect, honor etc.

Now as far as intimacy goes no one is supposed to practice that outside of marriage (before making vows to be with them and them only). That's my thoughts at least...
 

trofimus

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when I say it's a matter of the heart. It's when you choose to be with a certain person for life. You make promises to each other and to God. To love, cherish, respect, honor etc.

Now as far as intimacy goes no one is supposed to practice that outside of marriage (before making vows to be with them and them only). That's my thoughts at least...
In almost any relationship there are promises of love and you are planning to be with the person for life. But after few months, the situation is different again.

So to my question - is dating with promises or sex marriage? I am still not sure what you mean by the phrase "matter of heart".