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Blain

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Oh, so truth becomes out-dated.

It doesn't matter if it's the year 3900. Truth is truth back in 1900 as it was in the Garden of Eden, and as it is now. Truth is immutable because it comes from God who is - Scriptures are clear, God has decreed men to be pastors, not women.
The scriptures also say to stone a women for adultery yet what did Jesus say? Let me ask you this, if a women is a pastor of a church and in her ministry has helped to lead many people to Christ and has healed many wounded and broken hearts in her ministry was she ordained by God to be a pastor and to lead his flock or did she disobey what he has declared?
 
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The scriptures also say to stone a women for adultery yet what did Jesus say? Let me ask you this, if a women is a pastor of a church and in her ministry has helped to lead many people to Christ and has healed many wounded and broken hearts in her ministry was she ordained by God to be a pastor and to lead his flock or did she disobey what he has declared?
She disobeyed. I can't believe I'm going to say this. This one is for you preacher4truth. How many people have come to the Lord from someone, who others claim, to be a false teacher? God can use anyone to bring someone else to the Lord.
 

Blain

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She disobeyed. I can't believe I'm going to say this. This one is for you preacher4truth. How many people have come to the Lord from someone, who others claim, to be a false teacher? God can use anyone to bring someone else to the Lord.
From false teachers? not a lot. Granted I do believe that normally men are to be in the position of leadership as it is a common pattern throughout scripture however I also believe that he will use who he chooses for whatever he needs. God wants to use us to do great and amazing things for his kingdom, he isn't looking for the strong or the weak nor is he looking for man or women he is looking for the willing. Those who are willing will be used regardless of their sex
 
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The scriptures also say to stone a women for adultery yet what did Jesus say? Let me ask you this, if a women is a pastor of a church and in her ministry has helped to lead many people to Christ and has healed many wounded and broken hearts in her ministry was she ordained by God to be a pastor and to lead his flock or did she disobey what he has declared?
So......do we reject the word and allow the end to justify the means?

The bible doe not teach that principle.....
 

Blain

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So......do we reject the word and allow the end to justify the means?

The bible doe not teach that principle.....
That isn't what I am saying, I am just saying that there are times when God will use a women to lead his flock. Also a pastor is not one with authority so a women does not have authority over men. A pastor is simply a teacher and speaker to help guide the church but on no account take simply act on their own accord as they see fit as one with authority could. Everyone in the church has a role to play it has nothing to do with authority, Also When paul said these things the times they lived in women were not allowed to do much and womens worth was not equal to a man's and while paul did say these things but he also said this

Galatians 3:28 There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
 
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The word of God is clear that in the church(assembly) God has said that the men are to lead. I am thinking of two very popular women leaders of days gone by. They were extremely popular and many claimed they had a great anointing, both of these women took a position of authority over men. Also, both of these women had affairs with married men and made themselves very rich by their ministries, and both died in very strange and not a good way. If I were female I would not take a position of authority over men in the church for all the gold in South Africa because it is contrary to a clear command of God.
 

Desertsrose

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Quote "Okay so is the first answer to go out and seek women and open the pastorship to women?"

Im not sure what the answer is and I didn't really say the answer was to make all pastors women.What I did say is men are not attending church and if the only pastor you can see in the pulpit is a man then what are these churches to do? Should they close the doors because no man is there to be the pastor? It seems hypocritical to say women should be left to do all the work in the church but they cannot be in the pulpit. Whether you agree with females pastors or not,men are not going to church and you dont get the right to sit back and criticize females in the church when men are the problem. {not you specifically}


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How would it not minister to youth and young ones? The early church met in homes. Are you saying they were ineffective?

Many home churches I have seen have gotten into error much more serious than a woman preaching. And when there are churches available why should we be having home meetings? It depends on who is teaching but Ive seen a lot of failures in home churches.


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He can if He has to, but does He want to? Have we done everything we can to insure that we are abiding by God’s word. Are we even praying that God will raise up Godly men instead of women?'

I personally believe God uses either. God doesn't have to raise up Godly men,they are there,they claim to believe God,they just aren't stepping up. And if women are willing I believe God will use them.


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So you don’t see in the word of God that He chose men for the pastorship/leadership?"

I believe God can and does use both. The women in my family are Godly servants and are willing to work in the fields to bring in the harvest.Now they are pastors with their husbands but I do not see why a woman cannot pastor especially since the men are not doing their part.We do see it differently,but Im a lot more concerned that people are being reached than which sex is reaching them.

​I'm for doing it God's way which I believe is men, shepherding and maturing the Church with teachers who are gifted.

But yeah, we disagree so we can leave it there. And I still love you!
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I went to a small meeting years back where the speaker was a woman, Betty Miller by name, her husband was on the stage with her, however she was doing the speaking. Anyway she was calling a few people up for prayer and after a while she asked me if she and her husband could pray for my back. I finally consented and after prayer my back became better(even to this day). I have great respect for the woman and her husband, however I still believe that God has commanded for men to led in the church because it is so clearly written in the word of God. God has exalted His word to an incredible degree, that is what we will be judged by, so it is very important to be in the truth of the word of God.
 

Desertsrose

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That isn't what I am saying, I am just saying that there are times when God will use a women to lead his flock. Also a pastor is not one with authority so a women does not have authority over men. A pastor is simply a teacher and speaker to help guide the church but on no account take simply act on their own accord as they see fit as one with authority could. Everyone in the church has a role to play it has nothing to do with authority, Also When paul said these things the times they lived in women were not allowed to do much and womens worth was not equal to a man's and while paul did say these things but he also said this

Galatians 3:28 There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

Hi Blain,

This scripture is being used out of context all the time. What is Paul telling the Galatians....what's going on that he's correcting. He ends up summing it all up

Galatians 3:22-29

But the Scripture has shut up everyone under sin, so that the promise by faith in Jesus Christ might be given to those who believe.

But before faith came, we were kept in custody under the law, being shut up to the faith which was later to be revealed. Therefore the Law has become our tutor to lead us to Christ, so that we may be justified by faith.

But now that faith has come, we are no longer under a tutor. For you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus.

For all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus. And if you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s descendants, heirs according to promise.

So the point is that Abrahams true descendants are not those under the law, but those who believe in the Lord Jesus Christ by grace through faith. There were those trying to distort the gospel of Jesus Christ and bring the Galatians back under the law.

Paul tells them in the final analysis, that those who are born again of the Spirit are the sons of Abraham where there's no Jew nor Greek to, no slave nor free, no male nor female because in the Spirit we're all one in Christ.

But he's not applying it to the natural man. We still have a man and woman. The wife still bears the child. We still have Jews and Gentiles, slave and free. But in the Spirit, we are all a child of God where there's nor favoritism. The freeman isn't to think he's better than the slave. The Jew is not to think his heritage makes him better than the gentile believer.

In the congregation of believers, this scripture is not nullifying the qualifications for the position of elders. When Paul says men, he means men, not women.



 
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So......do we reject the word and allow the end to justify the means?

The bible doe not teach that principle.....
No but we should make sure the Bible says what folks claim it says.
 

Laish

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Well from just reading the title of this thread and seeing the number views and posts I can say it looks like we are all gluttons for punishment . Or we enjoy getting our feelings hurt.
Blessings
Bill
 

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She disobeyed. I can't believe I'm going to say this. This one is for you preacher4truth. How many people have come to the Lord from someone, who others claim, to be a false teacher? God can use anyone to bring someone else to the Lord.
Philippians 1:18 But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached.
 
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Well I know the same people that promote women's rights promote homosexuality. Is that because it also destabilizes our society and weakens us?

By women's rights I mean the people who take it to extremes of wanting no differentiation between how we treat men and women. Women should be able to drive cars and have protection from spousal abuse, but we have a society where you essentially have to get a 40 hour work week job.

They also encourage women to have multiple partners because "men are allowed to", and it's a very childish mentality. Double standards exist for many things on both ends.
 
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Those that refuse to hear a woman, might be refusing an angel.

Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. Hebrews 13:2

Knew of an elderly lady that had a prison ministry, she asked to be called granny, and thats how she acted like she was every ones granny, such a sweet lady kinda angelic. She loved sharing her Lord and savior Christ Jesus. Who would have the right to take this from granny besides God. Doesn't seem God would not want such a witness be silenced.
Everyone know angels are male, actually neither male or female, they just manifest themselves as men.

That was supposed to be a joke, then my mind took over.
 
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If you believe women are not allowed to be Pastors, and don't want your feelings hurt, STOP reading now!
And.. some get all puffed up trying to explain WHY we should disobey God's Word which is right in line with denying the Lord mentioned in 2 Peter 2:1

Getting all bent out of shape over others not agreeing with you exposes your immaturity and insecurity.

Like it or not, we're going to find out in the end that God meant what He said in His Word and inspite of sinful men handling the scriptures over the years, the Lord personally controlled what went in to His canon.


I am completely fed up with this hypocritical ideology pushed on women and the Church!
Here's a clue for ya... ain't nobody gives a fat rat's back side if you are fed up or not.

Everyone has a right to their viewpoint even if... gasp... you disagree with them.

At least on this issue you are denying the Word of the Lord which makes you wrong!



Women are much stronger and smarter than men, anyway..
That's laugable... just throw a spider at a women and we'll see who is the strongest



Those that refuse to hear a woman, might be refusing an angel.
Not hardly



Seems like your problem is with the word of God and not with those "hypocrites."
Word!


They were/are pastors along with their husbands
So who wore the pants in those relationships???
 
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Exactly what's preached at feminist rallies... lol
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well, Prynce,

some of us Mothers only desire our sons to grow-up into being the living example of our Lord and Saviour...
it's especially hard, when our mates are only focused on themselves or what their churches teach...
 

p_rehbein

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I wear the WHOLE ARMOR OF GOD! Thanks...........and, I don't mind the target.......hypocrites will shoot no matter what

Mr. Elephant, hope you put your armor on.
You just painted a target on yourself.
 

p_rehbein

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So, I guess the women in your church keep their mouths shut, do not own or read Bibles, dress appropriately and recognize that they are nothing more than property......right? If not..........hypocrite!


Attacking other human beings for reprieved personality faults does not make one iota of difference to what the Word of God says about the Matter...

Oh and flinging mud everywhere means that you will be falsely accusing some people, guaranteed...