I see that's where you keep getting stuck. I don't know why. My entire blood family is lost as of this moment. Does that mean I don't pray for them because God already knows if they are elected? No way! I'm praying hard for them. Does that mean I don't tell them about God because he already decided? No, actually, I try hard to tell them, but they shut me down. Does that mean they are the unelected? No, because I'm not God's only witness and this is all up to God. If he elects them, they will here. I don't know if they are, but I've been pleading their cases for 45 years now. I've even taken to asking others to pray for my Dad, because mentally, he cannot hear anymore. Well, he can, but Alzheimer, so he can't remember the first half of a sentence before anyone says the second half, so mentally he's gone.
Does that mean God didn't elect him? Maybe, but God can still reach him now, so maybe not.
With all my heart, I want God to save them. I want God to save everyone. And I know we're to witness for God, and I'm doing that. I just know, he won't save all. And he still hasn't given anyone the list of the elected, so we're still "stuck" with loving others. What greater love can we give someone but to pray that God saves them? We just don't know if he will. and whether you are a TULIPer or not you still know God does not save everyone.
How is this different from what you believe in this department? And what does that have to do with free will or choice? Of course we want our families and loved ones to be saved. We want everybody to be saved.
45 years now, and haven't given up yet. Are we any different?
We are not saying a sinner cannot cry out for God's mercy! God is not stepping on the leash!
We are saying a sinner will only cry out for God's mercy because God gave him/her that! Sinners leashless and not getting up without God's prompting. But, when God prompts? Still no leash required. We come willingly.
Lord, please give our loved ones your prompt. Amen!