How do you reconcile Exodus 20:12 with Luke 14:26?

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could be the reverse psychology thing.

Matthew 22:34-40

The Greatest Commandment
(Deuteronomy 6:1-19; Mark 12:28-34)

34And when the Pharisees heard that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, they themselves gathered together. 35One of them, an expert in the law, tested Him with a question: 36“Teacher, which commandment is the greatest in the Law?”

37Jesus declared, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’d 38This is the first and greatest commandment. 39And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40All the Law and the Prophets depend on these two commandments.”
See that? All of the law and all written by the prophets are based on these two commandments..That means...Ready?...Keep these two commandments, and you keep all of the law!! So, are Christians really free from the law?
 

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See that? All of the law and all written by the prophets are based on these two commandments..That means...Ready?...Keep these two commandments, and you keep all of the law!! So, are Christians really free from the law?
Yes they are Colossians 2:13-15 And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses,14by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross.15 He disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame, by triumphing over them in him.

The
legal demands of the Law are no longer against us, do we need to keep the commandments to remain saved, no. Do we love the Lord and our neighbors as ourselves, yes. because the grace of God set us free and our response is loving Him because He first loved us.
 
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Yes they are Colossians 2:13-15 And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses,14by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross.15 He disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame, by triumphing over them in him.

The
legal demands of the Law are no longer against us, do we need to keep the commandments to remain saved, no. Do we love the Lord and our neighbors as ourselves, yes. because the grace of God set us free and our response is loving Him because He first loved us.
We are not free from these two commandments? Yet all the law, I'm talking Torah not 'rabbinical law' The Tenahk. Then you are keeping all of Torah law. So we're free from having to keep a couple hundred laws by keeping two. Is this right? Because as I say..All of the law hangs on these two commandments?
 
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See that? All of the law and all written by the prophets are based on these two commandments..That means...Ready?...Keep these two commandments, and you keep all of the law!! So, are Christians really free from the law?
No I don't see where the law was all written by the prophets please explain?
 

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See that? All of the law and all written by the prophets are based on these two commandments..That means...Ready?...Keep these two commandments, and you keep all of the law!! So, are Christians really free from the law?
Yes, they are.

1 John 4:10 [FONT=&quot]Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.

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Hebrews 7:18-19
[FONT=&quot]18 For there is verily a disannulling of the commandment going before for the weakness and unprofitableness thereof.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]19 For the law made nothing perfect, but the bringing in of a better hope did; by the which we draw nigh unto God.[/FONT]
 

notbythesword

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I believe that Luke 14:26 is speaking of us being sinful creatures. That we need to recognize and hate this about ourselves and everyone around us. Everyone is a sinful creature and needs to follow after Christ. We should detest and hate this sinful nature in everyone, even our own family members and yes even ourselves. It does not mean to dishonor or disrespect them. It does not mean to have contempt for them. It simply means to recognize they and everyone else in this world needs the purification of the Lamb. It’s the sin within all humanity and this world that is to be hated.
 
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Johnny_B

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I believe that Luke 14:26 is speaking of us being sinful creatures. That we need to recognize and hate this about ourselves and everyone around us. Everyone is a sinful creature and needs to follow after Christ. We should detest and hate this sinful nature in everyone, even our own family members and yes even ourselves. It does not mean to dishonor or disrespect them. It does not mean to have contempt for them. It simply means to recognize they and everyone else in this world needs the purification of the Lamb. It’s the sin within all humanity and this world that is to be hated.
Not sure how you got all of that, the answer to the context is in verse 33 So therefore, any one of you who does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple.
 
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No I don't see where the law was all written by the prophets please explain?
Yup. You misunderstood...But we only make mistakes when we're trying to do something or trying to learn something. So thank you for asking.

Let's look at the scripture in question....
[h=1]Matthew 22:36-40 (KJV)[/h] [SUP]36 [/SUP]Master, which is the great commandment in the law?
[SUP]37 [/SUP]Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
[SUP]38 [/SUP]This is the first and great commandment.
[SUP]39 [/SUP]And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.

[SUP]40 [/SUP]On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.

I said nothing about the prophets writing the law..But they all wrote books of the Bible...right? All of the law, the Torah, and all of the books written by the prophets are based on this law in Matthew. That is to say. "The Law of Love" Did I say it better?
 

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Exodus 20:12 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.


Luke 14:26 If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.
Hi E2H,
As a new
believer I remember the pastor saying it like this. If any man come to me, he shall love less, his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, or he cannot be my disciple.

As to your other verse, if we're following after God first, we will be honoring our mother and father because it will be something the Lord will lead you to do because He's love.

But lets say for example's sake, Paul kept putting his family first and God second. Maybe his parents were very needy and poor or maybe very sick or disabled. How would Paul put God first and honor his parents at the same time?

God always provides a way. Paul could write to his parents from wherever he was and before he left, he could ask the church family to care for his parents while he's away spreading the good news, being obedient to the Lord and putting Him first and foremost before anything else.

Even before his own will and desires like the thorn in the flesh. He didn't leave God or give up on him because of all the sufferings and persecutions that came with being a child of God and especially an apostle that puts you out in the open, being bombarded with all the darts the enemy could throw at him.
 

notbythesword

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Not sure how you got all of that, the answer to the context is in verse 33 So therefore, any one of you who does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple.
I’m not sure if you’re saying that everyone needs to hate everyone…this does not seem very biblical to me. Jesus said in Matthew 10:34-37…

“Don’t assume that I came to bring peace on the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I came to turn a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; and a man’s enemies will be the members of his household. The person who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; the person who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.”

It is not about hating them, but loving Christ more than them. We must be able to follow Christ at all costs. There may be some members of the family who will not believe in Christ. We have to be prepared to put Christ first, potentially leaving them behind. Jesus is simply talking about loving Him MORE.
 
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Hi E2H,
As a new
believer I remember the pastor saying it like this. If any man come to me, he shall love less, his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, or he cannot be my disciple.

As to your other verse, if we're following after God first, we will be honoring our mother and father because it will be something the Lord will lead you to do because He's love.

But lets say for example's sake, Paul kept putting his family first and God second. Maybe his parents were very needy and poor or maybe very sick or disabled. How would Paul put God first and honor his parents at the same time?

God always provides a way. Paul could write to his parents from wherever he was and before he left, he could ask the church family to care for his parents while he's away spreading the good news, being obedient to the Lord and putting Him first and foremost before anything else.

Even before his own will and desires like the thorn in the flesh. He didn't leave God or give up on him because of all the sufferings and persecutions that came with being a child of God and especially an apostle that puts you out in the open, being bombarded with all the darts the enemy could throw at him.
You had a wise pastor....You are blessed.
 

Johnny_B

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Hi E2H,
As a new
believer I remember the pastor saying it like this. If any man come to me, he shall love less, his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, or he cannot be my disciple.

As to your other verse, if we're following after God first, we will be honoring our mother and father because it will be something the Lord will lead you to do because He's love.

But lets say for example's sake, Paul kept putting his family first and God second. Maybe his parents were very needy and poor or maybe very sick or disabled. How would Paul put God first and honor his parents at the same time?

God always provides a way. Paul could write to his parents from wherever he was and before he left, he could ask the church family to care for his parents while he's away spreading the good news, being obedient to the Lord and putting Him first and foremost before anything else.

Even before his own will and desires like the thorn in the flesh. He didn't leave God or give up on him because of all the sufferings and persecutions that came with being a child of God and especially an apostle that puts you out in the open, being bombarded with all the darts the enemy could throw at him.
Why do all these pastor's twist the Scriptures, there is a word for "love less" it is "like" and Jesus did not use that word He used "hate" not "like".

But your explanation, you know more then that pastor.
 

Desertsrose

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Yes they are Colossians 2:13-15 And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses,14by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross.15 He disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame, by triumphing over them in him.

The
legal demands of the Law are no longer against us, do we need to keep the commandments to remain saved, no. Do we love the Lord and our neighbors as ourselves, yes. because the grace of God set us free and our response is loving Him because He first loved us.
Hi John,

I would say that the demands of the law are no longer against us because they are met in us through the Law of Love.

So although we're under grace and not the law, we establish the law by not being law breakers......by walking in His love. And if we're in Christ, we'll be living that life of love. :)

Owe nothing to anyone except to love one another; for he who loves his neighbor has fulfilled the law. For this, “You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and if there is any other commandment, it is summed up in this saying, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. Romans 13:8-10

Love fulfills all of the law. What a wonderful gift........God's love in us fulfills the righteous requirements of the law. Halleluyah!
 

Johnny_B

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Hi John,

I would say that the demands of the law are no longer against us because they are met in us through the Law of Love.

So although we're under grace and not the law, we establish the law by not being law breakers......by walking in His love. And if we're in Christ, we'll be living that life of love. :)

Owe nothing to anyone except to love one another; for he who loves his neighbor has fulfilled the law. For this, “You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and if there is any other commandment, it is summed up in this saying, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. Romans 13:8-10

Love fulfills all of the law. What a wonderful gift........God's love in us fulfills the righteous requirements of the law. Halleluyah!
Amen we do des
 
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Yes they are Colossians 2:13-15 And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses,14by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross.15 He disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame, by triumphing over them in him.

The
legal demands of the Law are no longer against us, do we need to keep the commandments to remain saved, no. Do we love the Lord and our neighbors as ourselves, yes. because the grace of God set us free and our response is loving Him because He first loved us.
I agree The legal demands of Torah are not on us anymore but..The Law of Love. Matthew 22:36-40 IS on us. That law, the law of love in the basis for all of Torah... Can that be any more clear?
 
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Why do all these pastor's twist the Scriptures, there is a word for "love less" it is "like" and Jesus did not use that word He used "hate" not "like".

But your explanation, you know more then that pastor.
Oops loveless.

The opposite of hate is love, people don't choose to be a disciple but Jesus chose His disciples.
 

Johnny_B

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No point, I should of did a jk instead of a LOL, it was supposed to be a joke. I'm not very go at this internet joking, posting or understand it. Someone LOL me and I replied to it and they said they were joking/kidding so I thought LOL the laughing implied joking. I'm just going to stay away from it, since I don't seem to get it or am able to use it. I'll just say what I'm trying to say.

But that Scripture made me laugh either way.