Sex outside of marriage

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Destiny1

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Im struggling with sex outside of marriage im scared im going to go to hell........... I believe in God and im truely sorry for having sex outside of marriage
 

Hizikyah

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Im struggling with sex outside of marriage im scared im going to go to hell........... I believe in God and im truely sorry for having sex outside of marriage
Confes to Him, He is merciful;

[FONT=Times New Roman, serif]Ecclesiastes 7:20, “For there is not a righteous man on earth who does good and does not sin.”[/FONT]


[FONT=Times New Roman, serif]1 John 1:8-10, "If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we have not sinned, we make Him a liar, and His word is not in us."

but we can not contiue in sin;

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[FONT=Times New Roman, serif]Romans, “6:1-2, "What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin* that grace may abound? By no means! How can we who died to sin still live in it?"

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[FONT=Times New Roman, serif]1 Timothy 2:5, “For there is one Father and one Mediator between the Father and men, the Man Messiah [/FONT][FONT=Times New Roman, serif]יהושע[/FONT][FONT=Times New Roman, serif],”[/FONT]


[FONT=Times New Roman, serif]Hebrews 7:24-25, “but He, because He remains forever, has an unchangeable priesthood. Therefore He is also able to save completely those who draw near to YHWH through Him, ever living to make intercession for them.”[/FONT]

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PennEd

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Im struggling with sex outside of marriage im scared im going to go to hell........... I believe in God and im truely sorry for having sex outside of marriage
No one is going to hell because of their sin. They are going to hell for rejecting the cure for their sin.

You stopping pre marital sex won't save you.
Accepting Jesus Christ, acknowledging who He is, God in the flesh, and what He has done, died for your sin, and believing He rose to life after 3 days, is the Gospel unto Salvation.
His Holy Spirit will then sanctify and transform you into His likeness.

Your desires will change, and you will have the power to walk in the Spirit and deny the flesh.

Btw. Welcome!!! Glad you are here.
 
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StevieXKR

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What a load of shit! the bible was not written by Jesus or god it was written by ignorant zealots like you. Sex outside of marriage? Yes well plenty of god fearing zealots shag prostitutes whilst in the sanctity of marriage. You people make me absolutly vomit. While the rest of the world's children struggle from day to day for only water and food you scumbags bleat on from your false pulpits. HERE IS WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN TO THE RIGHTEOUS MIDDLE AMERICA.
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Hizikyah

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John/Yahanan 15:5-16, "I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, produces much fruit; but without Me, you can do nothing. If anyone does not abide in Me, he is thrown away like a branch, and is withered; and they gather them and throw them into the fire, and they are burned. If you abide in Me, and letting My words; abide in you, you will ask what you will, and it will be done for you. In this is My Father glorified: when you produce much fruit; and in this way you become My disciples. Just as the Father has loved Me, so have I loved you; continue in My love. If you keep My Commands, you will abide in My love; just as I have kept My Father's Commands, and abide in His love. These things I have spoken to you, that My joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be complete. This is My Command: Love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: that one would lay down his life on behalf of his brothers. You are My brothers, if you do whatever I command you."

Habakkuk 3:19, “יהוה the Master is my strength. And He makes my feet like those of deer, And makes me walk on my high places...”

Matt 19:26, "And looking intently יהושע said to them, “With men this is impossible, but with Yah all is possible.”

Philippians 4:13, "I have strength to do all, through Messiah who empowers me."

2 Timothy 1:7, "For Yah has not given us a spirit of cowardice, but of power and of love and of self-control."

Proverbs 3:5-7, “Trust in יהוה with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; Know Him in all your ways, And He makes all your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear יהוה and turn away from evil.”

Psalm 16:8, "I have set יהוה always before me; Because He is at my right hand I am not shaken."
 
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joefizz

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Im struggling with sex outside of marriage im scared im going to go to hell........... I believe in God and im truely sorry for having sex outside of marriage
Well to be honest many people have done the same and think just the opposite,it's good that you have remorse for this,for that's what God looks upon,if you had no remorse then I would be worried for you,but more importantly you ought to just focus on doing right for God,God understands that we have desires one of the strongest being lust,often leading to physical intimate contact,with possibily even resulting in birth of a child,before marriage,always good to consider such results but that's part of our being in sin and the flesh wanting even when we don't really want any such things,but our conscience often says no but our flesh persists on yes,it's still our choice and sin but it's not unforgiveable,people who are on the verge of hell are those who don't care what they do no matter how sinful,try to just get your mind focused on other things,like church songs,kid like thoughts such as an old child hood show or read a bit of the bible,because the annoyance with lustful thoughts is that they come to you when you are bored/not thinking or you just feel aroused for out of the blue,it is a constant battle,but just try to focus on doing right not only for God but for your own sake,for lust can be somewhat overwhelming so try not to think on it so much and let God guide your actions,God knows that we have times of impulse,so don't beat yourself up over this,and try to find other things to focus your time and mind upon because if you have lust on the brain you'll most likely repeat what you've done before,I'm sure more people have good advice so that's all from me.
 

Zmouth

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Im struggling with sex outside of marriage im scared im going to go to hell...........
So are you bragging, complaining or stating a fact?

I believe in God and im truely sorry for having sex outside of marriage
If you believe in truth, then what makes you sorry for having sex outside of marriage?

Here are a couple of KJV passages that you might consider reading; Luke 20:34 | John 17:14-16
 
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Zi

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Well someone is angry..
What a load of shit! the bible was not written by Jesus or god it was written by ignorant zealots like you. Sex outside of marriage? Yes well plenty of god fearing zealots shag prostitutes whilst in the sanctity of marriage. You people make me absolutly vomit. While the rest of the world's children struggle from day to day for only water and food you scumbags bleat on from your false pulpits. HERE IS WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN TO THE RIGHTEOUS MIDDLE AMERICA.
https://youtu.be/3mbBbFH9fAg
 
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StevieXKR

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I am sorry that it has to come to this. I have sent 5 EMAILS patiently and respectfully asking admin to delete my profile!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Zi

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Well you'll be sure to be banned now so just hang in there
I am sorry that it has to come to this. I have sent 5 EMAILS patiently and respectfully asking admin to delete my profile!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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joefizz

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What a load of shit! the bible was not written by Jesus or god it was written by ignorant zealots like you. Sex outside of marriage? Yes well plenty of god fearing zealots shag prostitutes whilst in the sanctity of marriage. You people make me absolutly vomit. While the rest of the world's children struggle from day to day for only water and food you scumbags bleat on from your false pulpits. HERE IS WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN TO THE RIGHTEOUS MIDDLE AMERICA.
https://youtu.be/3mbBbFH9fAg
are you supposed to have a point with all your random,bleating?
 
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StevieXKR

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I am sorry but it is unacceptable that they wont carry out my respectful wishes, there is no other way I can think of to acheive this other than a bad message. I am very sorry that it has come to this
 
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Zi

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I'm sorry it has come to this as well..
I am sorry that it has to come to this. I have sent 5 EMAILS patiently and respectfully asking admin to delete my profile!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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StevieXKR

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I just want my profile deleted. I am sorry that I had to resort to this after 5 requests
 

Hizikyah

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Or.... you could show self control and not post
 
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joefizz

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I am sorry that it has to come to this. I have sent 5 EMAILS patiently and respectfully asking admin to delete my profile!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
it's not like you "have" to delete your account on one site I didn't delete my account on a chat site and think nothing of it,if you are upset for whatever reason you are free to leave at anytime,no need to vent.
 
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StevieXKR

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Well if my respectful and polite request had been carried out then it would not have to be needed. 5 REQUESTS
 
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kaylagrl

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What a load of shit! the bible was not written by Jesus or god it was written by ignorant zealots like you. Sex outside of marriage? Yes well plenty of god fearing zealots shag prostitutes whilst in the sanctity of marriage. You people make me absolutly vomit. While the rest of the world's children struggle from day to day for only water and food you scumbags bleat on from your false pulpits. HERE IS WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN TO THE RIGHTEOUS MIDDLE AMERICA.
https://youtu.be/3mbBbFH9fAg

Wow! Someone has a serious chip on their shoulder!!
 
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joefizz

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I am sorry but it is unacceptable that they wont carry out my respectful wishes, there is no other way I can think of to acheive this other than a bad message. I am very sorry that it has come to this
leaving a trail behind of hurt,is not wise,you'll only hurt yourself overall,if you've sent an admin a message of wanting to have your account deleted then you have done your part and are free to go,they will get to doing so in time,no need for anymore action by you sad that you feel the need to do so.
 
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Ugly

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Well if my respectful and polite request had been carried out then it would not have to be needed. 5 REQUESTS
Still you choice to log in either way. But accepting responsibility for your own actions doesn't seem to be in your wheelhouse. Just an angry, bitter person eager to bring people down to your miserable, trollish level. Good news is you don't phase me. I'm still smiling. (=