My husband and I tithe and give. To our church and to various ministries that preach the gospel, take care of children, etc.
I don't believe in the tithe! But, my husband does, so I have always honoured his wishes in this. AND God has blessed us, materially, spiritually, our family, and in every way. BUT, we do not tithe to get. We do not give to get. If God took everything away, we would be ok with that, too!
I am reading Job again, he is my best buddy! Right now, much needed since my knee is in terrible pain and barely working. It gives me such comfort to know God does not change and in the end, everything works out. And I do not mean I get everything back, but rather, my eyes are fixed on Jesus, and our eternal destiny with him.
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He said, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I will return there. The Lord gives, and the Lord takes away. May the name of the Lord be blessed!” Job 1:21 NET
Here is one of the best articles I have read on this issue:
The Tithe is Illegal
However, the tithe being illegal, or not required, does not mean we should not give in abundance!