Forgiveness and Repentence

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jellyroll123

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Here is a question I have been thinking about.
There are times in the bible where forgiveness is asked for those who are not repentant.
Jesus on the cross. "Forgive them for they know not what they do. He asked God Himself to forgive the very people who tortured, killed and mocked him with absolutely no repentance.
Steven to those who stoned him. Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, looked up to heaven and saw God’s glory and Jesus standing at the right side of God. “Look!” he said. “I see heaven opened and the Son of Man standing at the right side of God!” With a loud cry the Council members covered their ears with their hands. Then they all rushed at him at once, threw him out of the city,and stoned him. The witnesses left their cloaks in the care of a young man named Saul. They kept on stoning Stephen as he called out to the Lord, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit!” He knelt down and cried out in a loud voice, “Lord! Do not remember this sin against them!” He said this and died. ACTS 7:55-60

I also know there are many scriptures telling us to repent.
I believe forgiveness is given even when repentance is not achieved. Thoughts?
 
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Well, despite the fact that you are looking at "Repentance" as something it is not (a demonstrative display of sorrowfulness), even using "Repentance" that way, it becomes a "work" performed by us for what God said was His free gift to give as He chose. He decides to forgive.... we do not earn it by acting sorry.

God actually extended "forgiveness" to the whole world "while we were yet sinners"..... IF we would repent (change our minds) about what we believed would bring us Salvation, by refocusing our trust to His Son.
 
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MichaelOwen

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The very meaning of the word repentance means to turn away, go 180 degrees from what you were doing. Some people, even Christians, struggle with addictions, BUT, the forgiveness and grace given to us by Christ, He helps us overcome those addictions and to transform our mind to where our desire won't be to please the flesh, but be pleasing unto Him
 
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God actually extended "forgiveness" to the whole world "while we were yet sinners"..... IF we would repent (change our minds) about what we believed would bring us Salvation, by refocusing our trust to His Son.
What?
"Repentance is a change of mind about what you believe brings us salvation by refocusing our trust to His Son."

Repent and believe the gospel = Change your mind about what you believe brings you salvation and believe the Gospel.

Believe and Believe!

This is the "Today's Christianity dictionary # The believer's edition":

Repent means believe
Believe means believe
Faith means believe
Obey means believe
 

Prov910

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Here is a question I have been thinking about.
There are times in the bible where forgiveness is asked for those who are not repentant.
Jesus on the cross. "Forgive them for they know not what they do. He asked God Himself to forgive the very people who tortured, killed and mocked him with absolutely no repentance.
Steven to those who stoned him. Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, looked up to heaven and saw God’s glory and Jesus standing at the right side of God. “Look!” he said. “I see heaven opened and the Son of Man standing at the right side of God!” With a loud cry the Council members covered their ears with their hands. Then they all rushed at him at once, threw him out of the city,and stoned him. The witnesses left their cloaks in the care of a young man named Saul. They kept on stoning Stephen as he called out to the Lord, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit!” He knelt down and cried out in a loud voice, “Lord! Do not remember this sin against them!” He said this and died. ACTS 7:55-60

I also know there are many scriptures telling us to repent.
I believe forgiveness is given even when repentance is not achieved. Thoughts?
Somehow the red text above got whited out in your first post. :shrug:

Perhaps people who have not repented *can* (might?) be forgiven particular sins if the person whom they sinned against asks for their forgiveness. So maybe those sins won't be held against them. (I'm just spitballing here.) But presumably if they haven't repented they likely have other sins—maybe a LOT of other sins—on their ledger. /jmho
 

jellyroll123

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Well, despite the fact that you are looking at "Repentance" as something it is not (a demonstrative display of sorrowfulness), even using "Repentance" that way, it becomes a "work" performed by us for what God said was His free gift to give as He chose. He decides to forgive.... we do not earn it by acting sorry.

God actually extended "forgiveness" to the whole world "while we were yet sinners"..... IF we would repent (change our minds) about what we believed would bring us Salvation, by refocusing our trust to His Son.
I guess my point is that these soldiers or the men who stoned Steven, had no change of mind.
Are you saying that all are forgiven regardless of repentance? I like that idea. I find the bible very confusing. I have been a lifelong Christian. I don't understand why God gives us free will. I don't like it. I mess up every chance I get! I have heard people say that He doesn't want robots. BUT if we are honest, if we are not robots he sends us to eternal damnation? That doesn't make sense. What about mentally ill people or people who are brainwashed? I believe God is so much bigger and loving than we can imagine. I was curious to see what others think. Thank you!
 
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I guess my point is that these soldiers or the men who stoned Steven, had no change of mind.
Are you saying that all are forgiven regardless of repentance? I like that idea. I find the bible very confusing. I have been a lifelong Christian. I don't understand why God gives us free will. I don't like it. I mess up every chance I get! I have heard people say that He doesn't want robots. BUT if we are honest, if we are not robots he sends us to eternal damnation? That doesn't make sense. What about mentally ill people or people who are brainwashed? I believe God is so much bigger and loving than we can imagine. I was curious to see what others think. Thank you!
Jesus asked the Father to forgive them, did He not? Do you feel God answered, "Sorry, I ain't gonna do it." That's doubtful. So...... we have to assume all those people were actually forgiven for murdering Jesus.

But, they did NOT put their trust in Jesus as the Scriptures tell us is what we have to do to be saved. (Being "forgiven" of something is not being granted Salvation. That only comes from trusting in Jesus' sacrifice to have the power to raise us from being dead.
 

jellyroll123

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I gave my heart to Jesus a long time ago. My fear is that my atheist friends. They just don't get it. I worry about them. I know only God can change hearts, but I try to reflect the love of Christ. I am far from perfect but I do know Christ died for me and them and you. Even if they don't realize it, the love is there.
 

MichaelOwen

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I gave my heart to Jesus a long time ago. My fear is that my atheist friends. They just don't get it. I worry about them. I know only God can change hearts, but I try to reflect the love of Christ. I am far from perfect but I do know Christ died for me and them and you. Even if they don't realize it, the love is there.
Absolutely! You're being an example in front of them, you're doing what God is requiring of you to do. You're showing them love and peace, and patience. Keep praying for them, I promise you, a prayer for the lost does NOT go unheard. From time to time, when the opportunity arises, throw a little of the word in there when they ask you how you are doing, and when they see the happiness and peace and contentment you have in your walk of life, give them the answer, and that answer is Jesus Christ :)
 
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I guess my point is that these soldiers or the men who stoned Steven, had no change of mind.
Are you saying that all are forgiven regardless of repentance? I like that idea. I find the bible very confusing. I have been a lifelong Christian. I don't understand why God gives us free will. I don't like it. I mess up every chance I get! I have heard people say that He doesn't want robots. BUT if we are honest, if we are not robots he sends us to eternal damnation? That doesn't make sense. What about mentally ill people or people who are brainwashed? I believe God is so much bigger and loving than we can imagine. I was curious to see what others think. Thank you!
God sends NO ONE to damnation. The Bible says over and over again that we simply got stuck with ALREADY being on that road..... and it is an inherited thing because we are born into a world that our earliest ancestor messed up for us. I can't argue the right or wrong of that (just like I can't argue the right or wrong of us dying if we jump from a 900' building). Both seem to be facts of the life we live.

But, a way is offered to us to avoid BOTH. In the case of the building, choose not to jump. In the case of Jesus, choose to trust that whatever power it was that raised Him from the dead, will also raise us if we get onboard with Him, and do all we can to live as He asks us to.
 

jellyroll123

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Are you saying there is no hell? That is something I just can't seem to wrap my head around either. I don't want to think of my non-believing friends going to hell for not accepting Christ. I think we all get the chance to see it. Like Thomas did not believe until he saw the wounds! Wouldnt that be offered to all and not just Thomas?
 
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Are you saying there is no hell? That is something I just can't seem to wrap my head around either. I don't want to think of my non-believing friends going to hell for not accepting Christ. I think we all get the chance to see it. Like Thomas did not believe until he saw the wounds! Wouldnt that be offered to all and not just Thomas?
Doesn't the Bible say, "Blessed are those who DON'T get to see?" (slightly paraphrased)

And doesn't the Bible say (in Hebrews 11) that every single one of those people died without seeing ANYTHING of the blessings promised them? But they stayed faithful (in the mode of trusting God's promises). I'm fairly sure they weren't threatened with a frightening view of a "Lake of Fire" either.

Hell? I dunno that any of us have any real idea of what that will be. In any case, do you expect that it is anything you want a part of?
 
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Are you saying there is no hell? That is something I just can't seem to wrap my head around either. I don't want to think of my non-believing friends going to hell for not accepting Christ. I think we all get the chance to see it. Like Thomas did not believe until he saw the wounds! Wouldnt that be offered to all and not just Thomas?
You seem to still be missing it.

NO ONE is punished for not accepting Christ. Our road to Hell (whatever that will be) is already paved, and we are walking it. We cannot get off this road on our own, at all. It is a done deal that from the moment you first squalled in that delivery room, that you were going to die after the passing of a certain number of years. And, upon dying, you are going to go to a very unpleasant place (or state of being... we really don't know what it will be) if all you do is live the life you happen to want to frolic in........ OR even if you live like a monk in a monastery...... OR even if you give every dime to the poor.

Trusting in Jesus is a way that has been offered to us to avoid that very definite eventuality..... if we want to.
 

BillG

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Here is a question I have been thinking about.
There are times in the bible where forgiveness is asked for those who are not repentant.
Jesus on the cross. "Forgive them for they know not what they do. He asked God Himself to forgive the very people who tortured, killed and mocked him with absolutely no repentance.
Steven to those who stoned him. Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, looked up to heaven and saw God’s glory and Jesus standing at the right side of God. “Look!” he said. “I see heaven opened and the Son of Man standing at the right side of God!” With a loud cry the Council members covered their ears with their hands. Then they all rushed at him at once, threw him out of the city,and stoned him. The witnesses left their cloaks in the care of a young man named Saul. They kept on stoning Stephen as he called out to the Lord, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit!” He knelt down and cried out in a loud voice, “Lord! Do not remember this sin against them!” He said this and died. ACTS 7:55-60

I also know there are many scriptures telling us to repent.
I believe forgiveness is given even when repentance is not achieved. Thoughts?
With regards to your quote above

Luke 23:34
34 Then Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.”
And they divided His garments and cast lots.

The reason they were not repentant is because they had no idea what they were doing was wrong.
They thought they were doing the right thing.

The same for those who stoned Steven.

He said the same to those who stoned him who Jesus said the same to. The religious leaders

Acts 7:51-54
51 “You stubborn people! You are heathen at heart and deaf to the truth. Must you forever resist the Holy Spirit? That’s what your ancestors did, and so do you!52 Name one prophet your ancestors didn’t persecute! They even killed the ones who predicted the coming of the Righteous One—the Messiah whom you betrayed and murdered. 53 You deliberately disobeyed God’s law, even though you received it from the hands of angels.”
54 The Jewish leaders were infuriated by Stephen’s accusation, and they shook their fists at him in rage.


Acts 7:59-60
59 As they stoned him, Stephen prayed, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.”60 He fell to his knees, shouting, “Lord, don’t charge them with this sin!” And with that, he died.

Jesus said into your hands I comitt my spirit, Steven did the same and both said forgive them them.

Both knew that to those who killed them thought they were doing right.

Even this man

Acts 8:1-3
Chapter 8
Saul Persecutes the Church
1 Now Saul was consenting to his death.
At that time a great persecution arose against the church which was at Jerusalem; and they were all scattered throughout the regions of Judea and Samaria, except the apostles. 2 And devout men carried Stephen to his burial, and made great lamentation over him.
3 As for Saul, he made havoc of the church, entering every house, and dragging off men and women, committing them to prison.

We all know the story of Saul, he met Jesus, or should I say Jesus met him.
He fell on his knees and repented.

That repentance was change his mind coencerning who Jesus actually was and is.

There does not seem to be any record of him saying sorry for what he had done but there is a record of his repentance of unbelief.

Acts 9:3-6


3 As he journeyed he came near Damascus, and suddenly a light shone around him from heaven. 4 Then he fell to the ground, and heard a voice saying to him, “Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting Me?”
5 And he said, “Who are You, Lord?”
Then the Lord said, “I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting. It is hard for you to kick against the goads.”
6 So he, trembling and astonished, said, “Lord, what do You want me to do?”
Then the Lord said to him, “Arise and go into the city, and you will be told what you must do.”

He calls him Lord.

A change of mind (repentance) concerning Jesus which would lead to repentance of his lifestyle.

I think we need take on board what Jesus said about our enemies and those who persecute us.

Matthew 5:44
44 But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you,

I think part of this is to ask God to forgive them. In a sense if they persecute us because we proclaim Jesus then actually it’s Jesus they are persecuting and not us.

Further I would like to say if someone sins against us and knows they are doing it we should still ask that God forgives them but we MUST forgive them as well.

If we do not then we put ourselves in a prison.
A prison of bitterness, anger, resentment and so.
It binds and chains us.

To forgive is to set the prisoner free only to realise the prisoner was us (Lewis Smedes)

To me part of this process (speaking from very personal experience) is not only to forgive them but ask that that they come to meet Jesus.

Just like Saul, aka Paul
 
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Here is a question I have been thinking about.
There are times in the bible where forgiveness is asked for those who are not repentant.
Jesus on the cross. "Forgive them for they know not what they do. He asked God Himself to forgive the very people who tortured, killed and mocked him with absolutely no repentance.
Steven to those who stoned him. Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, looked up to heaven and saw God’s gl
I would offer its how the word repent is used. Having a good definition can go a long way. Especially when it comes to talking about God repenting.

Strongs Lexicon..S05162 nacham {naw-kham'}
a primitive root; TWOT - 1344; v
AV - comfort 57, repent 41, comforter 9, ease 1; 108
1) to be sorry, console oneself, repent, regret, comfort, be comforted 1a) (Niphal) 1a1) to be sorry, be moved to pity, have compassion 1a2) to be sorry, rue, suffer grief, repent 1a3) to comfort oneself, be comforted 1a4) to comfort oneself, ease oneself 1b) (Piel) to comfort, console 1c) (Pual) to be comforted, be consoled 1d) (Hithpael) 1d1) to be sorry, have compassion 1d2) to rue, repent of 1d3) to comfort oneself, be comforted 1d4) to ease oneself and Jesus


Forgiveness with a hope of repentance.Two working together as one. with repentance a healing comfort, knowing our sin will not be held against us as in eternal separation. But rather God will cast it as far as east is from the west never to come to his mind again. After we are turned by his great mercy we can repent as we are reminded of our childish ways . If he does not do the first work of turning us towards himself no man will repent.

I think God has defined it for us beautifully below as always he must do the first works.

I have surely heard Ephraim bemoaning himself thus; Thou hast chastised me, and I was chastised, as a bullock unaccustomed to the yoke: turn thou me, and I shall be turned; for thou art the LORD my God."Surely after that I was turned", I repented; and after that I was instructed, I smote upon my thigh: I was ashamed, yea, even confounded, because I did bear the reproach of my youth. Jer 31:19

It sort of like the instruction for us in view of His mercy that does turn us towards Him comforting us in . As Jesus said forgive them for they now not what they do ina similar way in Rom 12

Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.Rom 12:21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good. Rom 12:20

Summing it up in affect he says owe no man no debt except for the continuing debt to love one That remind us of him working in us hopefully y strengthening us to do His will from our new heart.

Therefore we can love Him because he first loved us comforting
us with His word.

Rom 13:8 Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.