If you're a honest person, you give a Yes or No . No double mindedness .Cant rely on someones word who cant even answer directly .
God give us absolutes, YES OR NO .. So the bibles teachings are a good example of what we'd give yes or no to .
You'll notice if you read some of the threads they interject stuff into their talk, that makes them hard to believe or take seriously .
Example : They'll talk about how special they are, or they will start out with a lengthy commentary without much scriptures, and conclude it must be there, basically ask you to take their word for it . And many similar things people do.
If you have to resort to that, its best not to talk. A man of God will not be fast to talk. I maybe falling into that trap here .
longer the rant, likely longer the lie .
If you're a criminal, a laywer in a trial may ask the same question over an over, until inconsistency in the lies appear.
So if not careful, our own words can be destructive to us . Satan knows all the tricks, and this world is set up by Satan.
So just be honest, and do whats is right. Deal with people honestly.
James 3:5 Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth!
6 And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.
7 For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind:
8 But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.