Free will and God's will

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And considering that he still cannot at least spell the words correctly (calvanist, armenian...).
Ack! I have trouble spelling Arminian. I'm not going to fault someone for misspelling Calvinism. lol
 
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You don't know what you're talking about at all. Nor do EG or john146. :D

Yep. He can not prove us wrong, so all he has left is to attack and tell us we do not now what we are talk9ng about.

Yep. Here is a man of God here, who really is humble. And wants to help others. (Not)

The rest of the posts on this page are ignored. I wonder if they were all getting their jolly’s slamming me??

Lol. They can continue, it just probed what I said about them right,

What’s really sad? I consider them my brothers, and they are attacking me based on doctrinal truths that will not even help 1 person get to heaven (a non essential)

Just gotta love it
 
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EG has never stated this. Faith comes from God I have always maintained this.


Not of yourselves referees to the word work.

If it referred to the word faith, It would say for by Grace we have been saved by grace, NOT of yourselves. Not through faith or works, lest anyone should boast.


It is the WORK OF GOD that one believes in him.

I have posted this thousands of times, Yet you still think I said it comes from myself.

I am dumbfounded.
If you do not recall the conversation then maybe I am only thinking it was you I had the conversation with. I know you were deeply involved in the conversation over the course of many days but I guess it was someone else IN our conversation who said it...
 
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If you do not recall the conversation then maybe I am only thinking it was you I had the conversation with. I know you were deeply involved in the conversation over the course of many days but I guess it was someone else IN our conversation who said it...

Its all good sis. At least your humble enough to admit you made a mistake. And not blameshifting, or acting like a spoiled brat who needs to attack others who do not agree with them because they are offended.
 
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Yep. He can not prove us wrong, so all he has left is to attack and tell us we do not now what we are talk9ng about.

Yep. Here is a man of God here, who really is humble. And wants to help others. (Not)

The rest of the posts on this page are ignored. I wonder if they were all getting their jolly’s slamming me??

Lol. They can continue, it just probed what I said about them right,

What’s really sad? I consider them my brothers, and they are attacking me based on doctrinal truths that will not even help 1 person get to heaven (a non essential)

Just gotta love it
As an aside, I agree you are not being spoken well to at all times and in every post.

I somewhat agree the matter does not bear on salvation...its bearing is important to those of us with a history of becoming a foolish Galatian for some space of time. And the importance of its bearing may be more or less according to to us considering how little or long we remained in the agony.
 
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As an aside, I agree you are not being spoken well to at all times and in every post.

I somewhat agree the matter does not bear on salvation...its bearing is important to those of us with a history of becoming a foolish Galatian for some space of time. And the importance of its bearing may be more or less according to to us considering how little or long we remained in the agony.

I will say, I understand, when someone disagrees with us, It can take us back, and even may be offensive at times (especially if it is on of my churches main doctrines) but if I have to resort to tactics like have been going on in here. Then something is either wrong with my faith, or I need to take some humble pie.

I admit, I can be offended and not respond right, but I pray when someone corrects me for those tactics I repent and just stick to discussion of what is true about what I believe, and why I can not agree.. Which is all we should be doing anyway.
 
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As I said earlier. What is it about a group of people who think they have to bully everyone else to their point of view? Do they think they will win any converts?
I am sick of a group of people who act the way they do. Cooling off is not going to help much, because I will come back and they will continue to do it.,

It appears to be the way they feel they have to argue with people to make their point. I do not care for bullies, even if they are my brothers in Christ.
Nah I don't really believe it's exactly "attacks" it's more of "egotistical gloating" people do it once in awhile "even me" but it's not "surprising" we all feel a passion that we are "right about God's word".
Once in awhile we feel the need to get sarcastic or be overbearing with certainty in our beliefs,but "it happens" only when things "get out of hand" is it "best" to "retaliate with blunt truth" but if we just simply "get angry" then chances are that our thinking will be clouded and speak confounding things,we must always remember the difference between "Angry banters" and "Righteous,Passionate,Truth" getting riled up for the Lord is one thing,just getting upset and bitter is another.
 
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As I said earlier. What is it about a group of people who think they have to bully everyone else to their point of view? Do they think they will win any converts?
Nah I don't really believe it's exactly "attacks" it's more of "egotistical gloating" people do it once in awhile "even me" but it's not "surprising" we all feel a passion that we are "right about God's word".
Once in awhile we feel the need to get sarcastic or be overbearing with certainty in our beliefs,but "it happens" only when things "get out of hand" is it "best" to "retaliate with blunt truth" but if we just simply "get angry" then chances are that our thinking will be clouded and speak confounding things,we must always remember the difference between "Angry banters" and "Righteous,Passionate,Truth" getting riled up for the Lord is one thing,just getting upset and bitter is another.
Hmm I'm still confused where I learned all these long words that I use in bible posts I didn't even go to college,why am I using such words?
oh well moving on...
 

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I can only go on what i read.. I respond to what i read.. So i think it is gross for you to accuse me of being a gross brother... You want to be the judge of my intentions ? So be it.. I will give this over to God..
You made judgment (do I hate Scripture? Sad. Very sad). Someone else called you out on it. Show me the exact words you read in which I stated "I hate Scripture." A person's reading comprehension is different than the exact words being said. It's dangerously similar to the traits of the mainstream media. That's not a compliment.
 

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Larger example from the Bible again: Pharaoh.

God did not need ten plagues to set his people free. He chose ten plagues to show who he is. Dimwitted Pharaoh goes off and has his own version of free will for the first few plagues. Then, God, not being done with him or Pharaoh's peeps, THEN hardens Pharaoh's heart and continues on. So, no matter who freely chose, God got his will.

Your work problem:
As hard as this is to believe, God did not guide you go into that field of work because that field of work matches your college curriculum for what you should do after college. God has purpose for you. You specifically. His goal is to teach you two things in this life to prepare you with everything you need to know for eternal life:
1. God really, really, really loves you.
2. Trust him.

Your whole life comes down to getting those two things, so you will be ready for eternal life. AND eternal life means you get the privilege and joy of worshiping the Lord in all his glory.

There will be Pharaohs in your life choosing to do stuff that doesn't seem to be in your best interest. It doesn't matter. Ultimately, the Lord is going to set you free!

You will be Jonah -- fighting to stop God from taking you where he wants you to go. It doesn't matter ultimately. God will get you where he wants you to go. The only difference is which way are you getting there -- fish belly or ship?

You may have your stones-and-a-sling moments like David had when he faced Goliath. Cool, but ultimately, the Lord put you there to resolve that problem at that moment, and he's the one angling the trajectory.

This may be the one and only job you ever get in your field, or you might end up being very successful. No matter how that goes, that's God getting you to HIS goals.

When I was in my 20s, I too was thinking "career." I laugh at that now. I've had "careers." Quite a few of them, actually. Ultimately, I look back now and see why God did not let some perfectly good plans work out for me. I needed money. He needed me to be at the right place at the right time to help someone really important to him too -- my husband. (And hubby was tasked with taking good care of someone else the Lord loves -- me.)

Little did I know way back when that I wasn't really trying to figure out if being a housewife was my calling, it wasn't. I just needed to be home when hubby broke his back, so I could see that little want ad in the paper that would give us a place to live and something to eat, while his back mended.

When it did mend, we still had just enough to get by and get back on our feet again. And when we both got back on our feet again, who knew the most secure job in America -- a federal government job -- would end up not being secure at all. And who knew that while starting my own business, and hubby getting a free education to learn how to network computers, would end up with me becoming disabled, and then him being more disabled? Oh, yeah! God did! Because God needed me to be home, yet again, when hubby was on chemo, and then when hubby needed to be driven to the ER with a massive heart attack.

Honestly. A job is not why God put you on earth. He put you on earth to love you and teach you to trust him for eternity. All a job does is help you help others, put some food on your table, and a roof over your head, while you're in God's school learning his purposes for you.

Free will? Sure, you got it. So does everyone else. BUT God is still sovereign and decrees stuff that makes the entire universe work all the time just so he can have a people who will love and worship him eternally. Trust him. He's perfect at what he does. And he is working out even this per diem stuff out just right for you, no matter what your bosses think or do.
I agree God did not create us just so we go through life paying bills. There are plenty of those in less fortunate situations such as third world countries and on the streets altogether. That doesn't mean God thinks any of them less. God does call us, however, to move out and become our own. It's hard to do that when you're 27 years old and living at home.

There's a difference between God allowing stuff to happen and God calling for stuff to happen. I mentioned people committing crimes in a previous post. Not even just a crime, but a sin like infidelity. God isn't going to tell a husband/wife to cheat on the spouse. That would be Him encouraging someone to sin, which we know is false because God cannot have sin.

Another example would be someone living in an abusive environment. He may have someone go through that as a way to bring that person closer to Him, but no one can honestly say God expects someone to be abused and tortured for the rest of their lives while not doing a thing about it. Is it any different than someone going into the later part of his 20s while still living at home? I think not. God doesn't call us to be slouches and mooch off people for the rest of our lives. There's a difference between asking for help, and being a sloth. The latter is also something God speaks against.
 
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I am NOT a fatalist! It bothers me when people tell others what I am, when I'm not that. And rather than call me that, he (EG) puts it in vague terms that come down to the one word being used too often here -- "they."

It also bothers me when you label other people "open theists" when you aren't randomly calling "them" open theists. You're ticked off at a few people so are grouping all Arminians into the same group.

You're doing the same thing EG is doing -- passive-aggressively lumping everyone into one term. "They," as a word, sucks when all it is used for is to slice-and-dice people.

Two wrongs doesn't make a right, and it's not very godly.

If your theology doesn't become doxology, it's not a good theology.
No my Sister. That post wasn’t directed at anyone but who are open theists. John146 is one. EG and the others aren’t. I wasn’t throwing everyone into the open theist camp.
 
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I am NOT a fatalist! It bothers me when people tell others what I am, when I'm not that. And rather than call me that, he (EG) puts it in vague terms that come down to the one word being used too often here -- "they."

It also bothers me when you label other people "open theists" when you aren't randomly calling "them" open theists. You're ticked off at a few people so are grouping all Arminians into the same group.

You're doing the same thing EG is doing -- passive-aggressively lumping everyone into one term. "They," as a word, sucks when all it is used for is to slice-and-dice people.

Two wrongs doesn't make a right, and it's not very godly.

If your theology doesn't become doxology, it's not a good theology.
John146 continually claims that God did not know if the Ninevahites would repent or not, or if Abraham would truly sacrifice his son Isaac, until after the fact. In other words, he is stating that God does not know all things, and if God does not have perfect foreknowledge, then He is no better than you or I. That was what(God's exhaustive foreknowledge) and whom(John146 and all open theists) I was addressing in that post you quoted of mine.

I am sorry and offer you my sincerest apology for mistaking that post as a slam on all Arminians. Arminians are not open theists. But in today's churches, there are very few...if any...true classical Arminians. They're really semi-Pelagianists.
 

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Another thread has degenerated into Sniper's Paradise. Why not simply deal with the issues instead of practicing one-upmanship?

1. Did God create Man to have free will? Absolutely.

2. Did man's free will disappear after the Fall? Absolutely not.

3. Does man's free will restrict God's will in any way? Absolutely not.

For those who wish to see this backed up with Scripture, kindly do your personal study of this issue.
 
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John146 continually claims that God did not know if the Ninevahites would repent or not, or if Abraham would truly sacrifice his son Isaac, until after the fact. In other words, he is stating that God does not know all things, and if God does not have perfect foreknowledge, then He is no better than you or I. That was what(God's exhaustive foreknowledge) and whom(John146 and all open theists) I was addressing in that post you quoted of mine.

I am sorry and offer you my sincerest apology for mistaking that post as a slam on all Arminians. Arminians are not open theists. But in today's churches, there are very few...if any...true classical Arminians. They're really semi-Pelagianists.
Yes if not full pelagian. There was also some inconsistency on the part of his teachings. Isaiah 46:10 was used as saying God knows only the beginning and end, just not the things in between. That is contradictory to his Abraham and Nineveh scenarios but all false teachings have inconsistent hermeneutics by necessity. Bottom line he has God learning and coming to know things. That is classic Openness/Open Theism.

I'd be looking for another God, there has to be a much higher being than that. And of course there is.
 
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John146 continually claims that God did not know if the Ninevahites would repent
Do you believe God lied when He said, "Yet forty days and Nineveh shall be overthrown"? God is perfect in knowledge. I just don't agree with your man made definition. I allow Scripture to define God's characteristics.
 
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I agree God did not create us just so we go through life paying bills. There are plenty of those in less fortunate situations such as third world countries and on the streets altogether. That doesn't mean God thinks any of them less. God does call us, however, to move out and become our own. It's hard to do that when you're 27 years old and living at home.

There's a difference between God allowing stuff to happen and God calling for stuff to happen. I mentioned people committing crimes in a previous post. Not even just a crime, but a sin like infidelity. God isn't going to tell a husband/wife to cheat on the spouse. That would be Him encouraging someone to sin, which we know is false because God cannot have sin.

Another example would be someone living in an abusive environment. He may have someone go through that as a way to bring that person closer to Him, but no one can honestly say God expects someone to be abused and tortured for the rest of their lives while not doing a thing about it. Is it any different than someone going into the later part of his 20s while still living at home? I think not. God doesn't call us to be slouches and mooch off people for the rest of our lives. There's a difference between asking for help, and being a sloth. The latter is also something God speaks against.
Job was a true man of God. Why did God allow Satan to kill Job's kids, destroy his business, and fill him full of disease to the point that pottery shards could not squelch the itch? It wasn't because Job sinned. It wasn't to discipline him. It certainly wasn't Job's free will. The thing that drives me nuts about the Book of Job is God never answers that question. The BIG question we all have -- Why me, Lord?

I want to know. Really, really want to know!

When I became disabled, I asked. And he actually answered me on that one. He said, "Why not you?" Truthfully, it cracked me up, because I'm not Job, so why not me? lol

But Job, who was a righteous man of God, never did get a direct answer. He did, however get a very long, thorough answer that satisfied him too. Because he's God!

I can't tell you why some people get the crappy end of the stick. I can tell you that nothing happens without God's say-so, as proved by the Book of Job. And, ultimately, all things work for the good of those who love the Lord and are called to his purposes.

You, sir? YOU are 27 and still living at home. That ain't bad in this day and age. The cost-of-living and the cost of education has increased at such a rate that it is not like back in the olden days when I graduated school. Even back then, unless a person had something lined up right away AND worked during college to save up for a place with all the trimmings, home was where most went after school for about 6 months to a year. And back then, the expectation of the cost of a place to live was only 25% of the net paycheck for the month. Now it is 33%.

You're not sluffing. You are focusing on the Lord, and you are focusing on going out on your own. Considering those two things, you are exactly where you're supposed to be. And you will get out on your own.

I get it's frustrating. I get it's not where you planned to be by this age. But I'm seeing it from the other end of the path. I've done everything from cleaning the third floor of a not-air-conditioned frat house in the heat of August, (smelled like stale beer and urine), to counseling to copywriter to telemarketing to bookkeeping. I even had my own business before I became disabled. (Becoming disabled is what killed the business.) I've lived on Chef Boyardee with Little Meatballs donated by a company, because I couldn't afford groceries despite working 50 hours a week. (Only got paid minimum wage for 30 hours, but part of the deal was working 50 hours.) I lived on press ham sandwiches and popcorn (and I seriously mean that's all I had for food) for a whole summer. When my husband became disabled too, we lived on $839 a month with a $550 mortgage for nine months. (Utilities averaged $350 too.)

Trust this -- the Lord will see you through no matter what happens financially. He promised to take care of his kids, and he does in amazing ways. This per-diem annoyance you have at the moment will become part of a rich tapestry of watching how the Lord is working out things in your life. Keep on keeping on, and I promise the Lord will be there to keep you keeping on. Don't take my word on this. Take his word on it!
 
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Nah I don't really believe it's exactly "attacks" it's more of "egotistical gloating" people do it once in awhile "even me" but it's not "surprising" we all feel a passion that we are "right about God's word".
Once in awhile we feel the need to get sarcastic or be overbearing with certainty in our beliefs,but "it happens" only when things "get out of hand" is it "best" to "retaliate with blunt truth" but if we just simply "get angry" then chances are that our thinking will be clouded and speak confounding things,we must always remember the difference between "Angry banters" and "Righteous,Passionate,Truth" getting riled up for the Lord is one thing,just getting upset and bitter is another.
Where does ignoring someone's real responses and real questions to you fit into this?

(I did answer you, and did ask you something but got absolutely nothing in return.)
 
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John146 continually claims that God did not know if the Ninevahites would repent or not, or if Abraham would truly sacrifice his son Isaac, until after the fact. In other words, he is stating that God does not know all things, and if God does not have perfect foreknowledge, then He is no better than you or I. That was what(God's exhaustive foreknowledge) and whom(John146 and all open theists) I was addressing in that post you quoted of mine.

I am sorry and offer you my sincerest apology for mistaking that post as a slam on all Arminians. Arminians are not open theists. But in today's churches, there are very few...if any...true classical Arminians. They're really semi-Pelagianists.
Ah. He's in my IggyLand.
 

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Job was a true man of God. Why did God allow Satan to kill Job's kids, destroy his business, and fill him full of disease to the point that pottery shards could not squelch the itch? It wasn't because Job sinned. It wasn't to discipline him. It certainly wasn't Job's free will. The thing that drives me nuts about the Book of Job is God never answers that question. The BIG question we all have -- Why me, Lord?

I want to know. Really, really want to know!

When I became disabled, I asked. And he actually answered me on that one. He said, "Why not you?" Truthfully, it cracked me up, because I'm not Job, so why not me? lol

But Job, who was a righteous man of God, never did get a direct answer. He did, however get a very long, thorough answer that satisfied him too. Because he's God!

I can't tell you why some people get the crappy end of the stick. I can tell you that nothing happens without God's say-so, as proved by the Book of Job. And, ultimately, all things work for the good of those who love the Lord and are called to his purposes.

You, sir? YOU are 27 and still living at home. That ain't bad in this day and age. The cost-of-living and the cost of education has increased at such a rate that it is not like back in the olden days when I graduated school. Even back then, unless a person had something lined up right away AND worked during college to save up for a place with all the trimmings, home was where most went after school for about 6 months to a year. And back then, the expectation of the cost of a place to live was only 25% of the net paycheck for the month. Now it is 33%.

You're not sluffing. You are focusing on the Lord, and you are focusing on going out on your own. Considering those two things, you are exactly where you're supposed to be. And you will get out on your own.

I get it's frustrating. I get it's not where you planned to be by this age. But I'm seeing it from the other end of the path. I've done everything from cleaning the third floor of a not-air-conditioned frat house in the heat of August, (smelled like stale beer and urine), to counseling to copywriter to telemarketing to bookkeeping. I even had my own business before I became disabled. (Becoming disabled is what killed the business.) I've lived on Chef Boyardee with Little Meatballs donated by a company, because I couldn't afford groceries despite working 50 hours a week. (Only got paid minimum wage for 30 hours, but part of the deal was working 50 hours.) I lived on press ham sandwiches and popcorn (and I seriously mean that's all I had for food) for a whole summer. When my husband became disabled too, we lived on $839 a month with a $550 mortgage for nine months. (Utilities averaged $350 too.)

Trust this -- the Lord will see you through no matter what happens financially. He promised to take care of his kids, and he does in amazing ways. This per-diem annoyance you have at the moment will become part of a rich tapestry of watching how the Lord is working out things in your life. Keep on keeping on, and I promise the Lord will be there to keep you keeping on. Don't take my word on this. Take his word on it!
I've read the book of Job. I get what you're saying. I'm going to have to respectfully disagree about the part saying I'm exactly where I should be, though. Sometimes being at home isn't the best case scenario. I refer you back to a spouse living in an abusive environment. Although none of that is going on here, it's definitely holding me back in many areas, including spiritually. I don't really feel like putting my whole personal history out there as to why this isn't a good situation.