You claim that when you speak of being "in Christ" you refer "not only His death, but as well, His burial, Resurrection, and Exaltation", but that is not what comes across in your posts.
For the most part your posts leave Christ on the cross. The crucifixion points to the sufferings of Christ and His humiliation (He "despised the shame" according to Heb 12:2).
Jesus knew His Father would raise Him up on the third day. He had that promise and He held to it even as He was led away to be crucified.
And we are to reckon ourselves buried with him by baptism into death: that like as Christ was raised up from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life. Knowing this, that our old man is crucified with him, that the body of sin might be destroyed, that henceforth we should not serve sin (Rom 6:4,5).
We are crucified with Christ in order that we can overcome sin (not serve sin) and thereby we walk in newness of life (Rom 6:4).
Rom 6:11 Likewise reckon ye also yourselves to be dead indeed unto sin, but alive unto God through Jesus Christ our Lord.