If this is a stupid question, please forgive me in advance.
I love anything about nutrition, health, exersize all that stuff, so im part of a group that focuses on living a healthier lifestyle. The group mainly consists of body builders personal trainers people like that.
The one thing in common that i hear most of them say is. It was my time to be selfish, it was time for me to focus on myself for a change. (they were saying this in relation to how they got in their profession of becoming body builders, personal trainers, because they wanted to make a lifestyle change)
I have no idea what to think of that. If your vastly overweight, a chain smoker, alcoholic, any of those things, i mean is it wrong, to say ok instead of focusing on everyone else, im gonna focus on myself to get my problem under control..Is it possible to focus on yourself god and everyone else??? Is it wrong to ever be selfish??? is there ever a time where its appropriate and inappropriate??
Thank you for reading.... and i do hope you all get what im talkin about here..