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I should have been shocked. I wasn't. The fact was Pastor J was a class Asst. Pastor. The fact is a Pastor having an affair is practically common. It's happened in churches I've attended before.
Pastor J cheated on his Wife in an affair with a woman within the church. A church I left over two years ago. On FB however I decided to check in on him... his FB profile no where to be found. Upon an internet search I located general websites featuring Pastors. So I went to the churches home page to discover his profile missing.
I msg'd an old friend asking where he went, did he quit, move, get fired? I got no response. So I msg'd another friend and was provided the news.
Pastor J was a good-guy Pastor. Pastor cool and Pastor fun. Got along with everyone, some more than others obviously.
The fact was my ex-GF worhshipped him (to the best of my knowledge never engaged in an affair with him). Following our breakup (which is what it is, still on good terms) the aura of the church would vastly change. Back in those days Pastor J was a new guy. I was rich into my time with that church. Those were the peak days of the place... when everyone went. Still Pastor J to me was a guy who came in Post-Drama. A Drama phase where things were just crazy at church. I brokeup and left for other things in life.
In my time away, everyone left, Pastors were forced to resign. Pastor J rose in the ranks. My initial impressions of him were as an unmarried playa. Someone who didn't seem like an honest Christian. Then I learned he had a wife. An unattractive wife with zero confidence. Thought a guy who was such a playa would have a more suitable wife to be honest.
Anyways, I'd return 2-5x per year. Pastor J now had authority over the young adults and oddly... never led it like previous Pastor's did. Never would preach of teach. This was the post-Era of this church to me... aka Saved by the Bell the New Class as I referred to it. I grew on Pastor J and he on me. We eventually got along great.
Unfortunately, like I said... the guy had an affair and was fired.
Pastor J cheated on his Wife in an affair with a woman within the church. A church I left over two years ago. On FB however I decided to check in on him... his FB profile no where to be found. Upon an internet search I located general websites featuring Pastors. So I went to the churches home page to discover his profile missing.
I msg'd an old friend asking where he went, did he quit, move, get fired? I got no response. So I msg'd another friend and was provided the news.
Pastor J was a good-guy Pastor. Pastor cool and Pastor fun. Got along with everyone, some more than others obviously.
The fact was my ex-GF worhshipped him (to the best of my knowledge never engaged in an affair with him). Following our breakup (which is what it is, still on good terms) the aura of the church would vastly change. Back in those days Pastor J was a new guy. I was rich into my time with that church. Those were the peak days of the place... when everyone went. Still Pastor J to me was a guy who came in Post-Drama. A Drama phase where things were just crazy at church. I brokeup and left for other things in life.
In my time away, everyone left, Pastors were forced to resign. Pastor J rose in the ranks. My initial impressions of him were as an unmarried playa. Someone who didn't seem like an honest Christian. Then I learned he had a wife. An unattractive wife with zero confidence. Thought a guy who was such a playa would have a more suitable wife to be honest.
Anyways, I'd return 2-5x per year. Pastor J now had authority over the young adults and oddly... never led it like previous Pastor's did. Never would preach of teach. This was the post-Era of this church to me... aka Saved by the Bell the New Class as I referred to it. I grew on Pastor J and he on me. We eventually got along great.
Unfortunately, like I said... the guy had an affair and was fired.
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