Please have a scripture to back up anything you post. I am curious about what the Bible has to say and some of y'all's personal opinions about this situation.
I'm not sure what to think yet but I have a friend, She is 20, a devoted christian, saving herself for marriage, never even been kissed or had a boyfriend she has been so strict on herself. She has met this guy that she is constantly talking about. He is in his late 20's, is a strong christian but he has a child with another woman (they were never married). When this woman had the baby she got postpartum depression and started becoming abusive (I have verified this information through friends) He tried to make it work for the baby but decided it was better for the baby to see him on and off then have turmoil constantly in the house. Other then the child and last woman he seems to be a good guy (from what I can tell at least).
I wish my friend could meet a guy who has saved himself like she has but she really likes this guy! I just want to know what I should say to help her make the decision Jesus would have her make.