hmmm I'm thinking b4 you respond you should pray Christs words into your response. Not condescending "sweeties" do you honestly think she's listening to you after reading that. WHY would you think I was being condescending? I was not. I speaking, simply, as an older, motherly, teacher (which is one of my giftings). Did you not read the entire post?
We need to speak the truth in love. I understand it is necessary to rebuke at times but we need to also pray for the right words to convict those who are reading if its necessary. Also, I know blu & she's a beautiful lady. I don't question that! You should not take offense for another person. Doing so is wrong, even if the person you take offense FOR is offended. If she herself felt I was being unkind, then it is she that should say so. Regardless, I intended no offense of condescension. She's younger than I am, that's all. Believe me when I tell you that if I had wanted to be condescending and had done so, the whole lot of you would have been down my throat because it would have been very obvious and harsh. But then what would be the point of that? Then all that I typed would not be received as wisdom, and she would see no cause to REconsider the things she writes. I hope that makes sense.
~I was in a group once, on a different site. One of the members called himself a pastor, saying he pastured a church in the NW. He would not say what city or the name of his church. This guy, if you disagreed with him would do exactly what you accused me of….use terms of endearment, but VERY sarcastically. He would call me 'dear', sweetheart' and others that I don't recall. He was ANGRY because I did not agree with him. His sarcasm was not lost on anyone in the group. He was mean, rude and never apologized…although he did get kicked out of the group several times for his inability to exude the love of Christ. I was informed that he had mental problems, but that, IMO, as no excuse for his unchristian demeanor in posting. We all have to learn to take correction without taking offense. While it was his purpose to offend me, hoping I would leave the group, my calling Blu, 'Sweetie" was simple, 'motherly' friendliness. I AM old enough to be her mom! And then some~~
~ok don't tell anyone else that! Cuz I refuse to act like it! ;-)
Maggie
We need to speak the truth in love. I understand it is necessary to rebuke at times but we need to also pray for the right words to convict those who are reading if its necessary. Also, I know blu & she's a beautiful lady. I don't question that! You should not take offense for another person. Doing so is wrong, even if the person you take offense FOR is offended. If she herself felt I was being unkind, then it is she that should say so. Regardless, I intended no offense of condescension. She's younger than I am, that's all. Believe me when I tell you that if I had wanted to be condescending and had done so, the whole lot of you would have been down my throat because it would have been very obvious and harsh. But then what would be the point of that? Then all that I typed would not be received as wisdom, and she would see no cause to REconsider the things she writes. I hope that makes sense.
~I was in a group once, on a different site. One of the members called himself a pastor, saying he pastured a church in the NW. He would not say what city or the name of his church. This guy, if you disagreed with him would do exactly what you accused me of….use terms of endearment, but VERY sarcastically. He would call me 'dear', sweetheart' and others that I don't recall. He was ANGRY because I did not agree with him. His sarcasm was not lost on anyone in the group. He was mean, rude and never apologized…although he did get kicked out of the group several times for his inability to exude the love of Christ. I was informed that he had mental problems, but that, IMO, as no excuse for his unchristian demeanor in posting. We all have to learn to take correction without taking offense. While it was his purpose to offend me, hoping I would leave the group, my calling Blu, 'Sweetie" was simple, 'motherly' friendliness. I AM old enough to be her mom! And then some~~
~ok don't tell anyone else that! Cuz I refuse to act like it! ;-)
Maggie