59And he said unto another, Follow me. But he said, Lord, suffer me first to go and bury my father.
60Jesus said unto him, Let the dead bury their dead: but go thou and preach the kingdom of God.
61And another also said, Lord, I will follow thee; but let me first go bid them farewell, which are at home at my house.
62And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God(Luke 9:59-62).
It seems like the point Jesus was making is in verse 62,any man having started following Jesus,gets side tracked with something other than laboring for the kingdom of God,is not fit for the kingdom of God.
Which means laboring for the kingdom of God is our main concern,and like Jesus when He was 12 years old,His parents did not know where He was,for Jesus was apart from them for 3 days,teaching in the temple,and when they found Him,they said they sought after Him with sorrowing,but Jesus said do you not know that I must be about My Father's business,which Jesus is pointing out that laboring for the kingdom of God was His main concern.
When the man asked Jesus if he could go back and bury his father,that is what he meant to bury his father who had died,which Jesus said let the dead bury the dead showing that the father died,like the one who wanted to go and say goodbye to his family,but Jesus said get a move on with laboring for the kingdom of God.
Any man having put his hand to the plough,looking back,is not fit for the kingdom of God,which means any man having started laboring for the kingdom of God,gets side tracked with other affairs,is not fit for the kingdom of God.
Laboring for the kingdom of God is our main concern.
Also it is not that Jesus did not care about the man's father getting a proper burial by loved ones,but there are people to take care of that,and the man should let his family take care of it,and go preach the Gospel of Christ.
Jesus is saying let the people that do not live for Me bury your father,which is why He said let the dead bury the dead,meaning they can take care of the burial those who do not live for Me,while you who live for Me can be concerned with laboring for the kingdom of God.
Jesus is saying there is people in your family to take care of that matter of burying your father,and you take care of the matter of laboring for the kingdom of God,your spiritual family,that overrides the concerns of your physical family.
Like Jesus was preaching a sermon one day,and a man spoke up and said Master,speak to My brother,that he divide the inheritance with me,and Jesus said,Man who made Me a judge or a divider over you.
Which Jesus was saying that His concern was laboring for the kingdom of God,and there are people in the land that handle these matters,and go to them about it,like the man that wanted to bury his father first,his concern should be laboring for the kingdom of God,and there are people in his family that can bury his father.
Let the world attend to the affairs of the world,for our concern is laboring for the kingdom of God,and if we put other concerns ahead of the kingdom of God,we are not fit for the kingdom of God.
That is the point Jesus was making.
I do not think the man was procrastinating of laboring for the kingdom of God,at least not in the sense that he did not want to labor,for it seems like he wanted to labor for the kingdom,but he wanted Jesus to allow him to bury his father first then he would labor for the kingdom of God.
Like the man who said Lord let me say goodbye to my family first,then I will follow you,which the man that wanted to bury his father is in the same scenario,that they both wanted to do something first concerning their family,then they would follow Jesus,which is they were giving their physical family priority above the kingdom of God at that point,when the kingdom of God has priority.
You say Jesus is your Lord,then get busy laboring for the kingdom of God,and let your family handle the physical family matters.