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I have noticed whether it is I or someone else, anytime the subject of holy, righteous living is brought up those that support the idea are treated as unloving, uncaring, unedifying cretins. We are called everything from legalistic to unsaved, depending on our own work instead of God, even though we all make it clear that holiness is a work of God in us not of ourselves. It just blows my mind that all believers would not agree that we as Christians should live holy lives, abstaining from sin and lusts of the flesh. God makes this abundantly clear in His word. The fact that those that believe God's word and stand for His truth are the ones being ridiculed even in what is supposed to be a christian site is mind blowing. It makes you wonder even more about the state of the church in these last days, very discouraging.
Peace be to you
Amen

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One thing to remember, Although Jesus always aproached with love, understanding, compassion and grace. He often said: now go and sin no more:. Some times my discomfort as Im sure many others is the thought that they have to earn Jesus's love. For me a result of some bad teachings. But even though I am covered by grace my desire and all should desire to avoid sin. For many reasons listed in the word but for me because of my love for Jesus. Because of this love I try and hope to follow his will and by his grace I have sought this all my life and believe by his grace will one day achieve this. God bless, pickles
Peace be to you

Pickles
Maybe its because of this verse;
For every tree is known by his own fruit. For of thorns men do not gather figs, nor of a bramble bush gather they grapes.
A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh.
And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?
Whosoever cometh to me, and heareth my sayings, and doeth them, I will shew you to whom he is like:
He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock.
But he that heareth, and doeth not, is like a man that without a foundation built an house upon the earth; against which the stream did beat vehemently, and immediately it fell; and the ruin of that house was great.



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Watchmen, there's a difference between being holy and being holier-than-thou.

It makes you wonder even more about the state of the church in these last days, very discouraging.
That right there? That's being holier-than-thou. It's annoying, and it's why people call you unloving. That's not love, it's an attempt to guilt people into thinking your way.
 

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Peace be to you

Pickles
Maybe its because of this verse;
For every tree is known by his own fruit. For of thorns men do not gather figs, nor of a bramble bush gather they grapes.
A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh.
And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?
Whosoever cometh to me, and heareth my sayings, and doeth them, I will shew you to whom he is like:
He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock.
But he that heareth, and doeth not, is like a man that without a foundation built an house upon the earth; against which the stream did beat vehemently, and immediately it fell; and the ruin of that house was great.



Love a friend in God
I love this scripture, but as Ive said before I havnt seen one I did not like. For me no matter what fruits I see in my life I always see what I still need to overcome and know my weakness. It is only in the last decade that I finally began to believe that Jesus loves me even when Im not perfect. The religion I was raised in only condemed or measured by your sacrifice. I was taught that You had to earn Jesus's love. Jesus spoke to my heart at that time and let me know his truth but I was never sure untill another comfermed his truth. Also the abuse I recieved was tied into obedience but thankyou Jesus this to has been healed. For some it may boil down to what had been taught to them in their first knowlage of Jesus and it would hep to end all sharing of his word with a word of Love. Small gestures can go along way sometimes. Thankyou and God bless, pickles
 
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IT is a narrow line. We are called to be holy, yet we are incapable of it. We are to flee from sin yet all fall short of the glory, all sin. quote]

God would have never called us to be Holy, if we are not capable of achieving it, we all have sinned and we all have sin , but we don't have to sin you mentioned Romans try Romans 6

Ro 6:1What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound?Ro 6:2God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?


The inspired Word of God tells us not to sin, Jesus told several people go and sin no more, and man says well Jesus didn't mean what He said He knows that they couldn't have not sinned no more .

1jo 2:1My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous:

here the Word of God has said that we have a choice IF Any man sin , doesn't say when any man sins but IF any man sins look at these verses
1co 10:13There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.



with every temptation God will provide you a way out, not ye were able to resist But God will make a way out . now watch this


2pe 2:9The Lord knoweth how to deliver the godly out of temptations, and to reserve the unjust unto the day of judgment to be punished:
with these last two verses. if one says that we still have to sin after coming to Christ is to say that God lied. He does not provide away out for his people and that God can not keep His promises and keep His people/ strengthen His people so that they can resist temptation.

It is a very dangerous doctrine to twist 1 John 1:8 and say that the bible says that we have to sin, it says that we have sin But nothing about that we HAVE to sin 1jo 1:8If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.


if we have flesh we have sin , but if we walk in the Spirit and not in the Flesh then we don't have to sin.


Ro 8:2For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death.Ro 8:3For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh:Ro 8:4That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.Ro 8:5For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.Ro 8:6For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.Ro 8:7Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.Ro 8:8So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.Ro 8:9But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his.
 
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I love this scripture, but as Ive said before I havnt seen one I did not like. For me no matter what fruits I see in my life I always see what I still need to overcome and know my weakness. It is only in the last decade that I finally began to believe that Jesus loves me even when Im not perfect. The religion I was raised in only condemed or measured by your sacrifice. I was taught that You had to earn Jesus's love. Jesus spoke to my heart at that time and let me know his truth but I was never sure untill another comfermed his truth. Also the abuse I recieved was tied into obedience but thankyou Jesus this to has been healed. For some it may boil down to what had been taught to them in their first knowlage of Jesus and it would hep to end all sharing of his word with a word of Love. Small gestures can go along way sometimes. Thankyou and God bless, pickles
Peace to you pickles

how about this verse;Psalm 133
It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments;

Ewwwwwwww lol
 
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It makes you wonder even more about the state of the church in these last days, very discouraging.
Watchmen, there's a difference between being holy and being holier-than-thou.



That right there? That's being holier-than-thou. It's annoying, and it's why people call you unloving. That's not love, it's an attempt to guilt people into thinking your way.
If I did not love I would not be biscouraged for I would not care. I am discouraged because I care.
 
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It's been said before and it's worth saying again. If Jesus disciples can't decide on what he said and when. Who are you to make judgement on which church is correct 2000 years after your saviours birth. And it is impossible not to sin. As god knows your every thought can you honestly claim that you have never coveted? Have you worn clothes made out of two different materials? Sin, have you said Oh my god inapproapriately? Sin, Disrespected your parents in your youth? Sin.
God does not ask of us to be perfect because by right of free will we cannot be. He asks that you strive to be as good as you can be. And If you claim to be holier than another man, I'm quite sure there's sin right there, adolation if nothing else. God alone judges, do not presume to be his judge or even the jury least you find yourself facing the executioner.
 
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If I did not love I would not be discouraged for I would not care. I am discouraged because I care.
Fair enough. But you're expressing your concern in a way that comes across as nagging, sometimes about things that don't really matter like whinging about Harry Potter.

You send mixed signals when you claim you love someone but don't respect them enough to know the difference between fantasy and reality.
 
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Fair enough. But you're expressing your concern in a way that comes across as nagging, sometimes about things that don't really matter like whinging about Harry Potter.

You send mixed signals when you claim you love someone but don't respect them enough to know the difference between fantasy and reality.
ahhh you make you commits because of another thread not because of what l wrote in this one. Anyone that thinks it already to watch Harry Potter need to reevaluate their relationship with Christ, and i say this out of love.
 
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watchmen. Just because you add "I say this out of love" Doesn't mean it's something nice to say. The inquisition did what they did out of love, the crusades claim to be doing it out of love of mankind. There is no such thing as witches, Harry Potter is just a piece of fiction no different from the tales of Grim which disney's movies are based upon.
And if what you say in other threads is not relevant, then are you just trying to win points? Do you believe that scaring others will score more heavenly points? God alone judges and untill he makes a statement about Harry Potter we shouldn't judge. And quoting scripture will not prove anything. There's always another passage that can be interpetrated to suit ones need if you are just trying to win arguments...
 
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ahhh you make you commits because of another thread not because of what l wrote in this one. Anyone that thinks it already to watch Harry Potter need to reevaluate their relationship with Christ, and i say this out of love.
It's an easy thing to say, perhaps even an easy thing to convince oneself of.

Why do people who think it's okay to watch Harry Potter need to reevaluate their relationship with Christ? You haven't given a good reason for this. Are we supposed to take your word for it? God did not make you the arbiter of morality. If Harry Potter is a stumbling block for you, then by all means avoid it, but when you say things like that, all you're doing is creating fear in spiritually immature Christians. It does nobody any good.

So you may have love in mind when you say these things, but good intentions only go so far.
 
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It's an easy thing to say, perhaps even an easy thing to convince oneself of.

Why do people who think it's okay to watch Harry Potter need to reevaluate their relationship with Christ? You haven't given a good reason for this. Are we supposed to take your word for it? God did not make you the arbiter of morality. If Harry Potter is a stumbling block for you, then by all means avoid it, but when you say things like that, all you're doing is creating fear in spiritually immature Christians. It does nobody any good.

So you may have love in mind when you say these things, but good intentions only go so far.
Take it back to the Harry Potter thread please :)
 
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If you wish to revive that debate, by all means do so. But I was just using it as an example.
 
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If you wish to revive that debate, by all means do so. But I was just using it as an example.
And it is a perfect example of how so called christians live in sin and hate those that suggest we should be holy.
 
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A couple of commits I myself have not nor have I seen anyone say people who are not perfect are less than any other Christian.
But yet you go on to say......

And it is a perfect example of how so called christians live in sin and hate those that suggest we should be holy.
just sayin'.....
 
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And it is a perfect example of how so called christians live in sin and hate those that suggest we should be holy.
You don't get to be the arbiter of holiness.

That's the whole reason people get annoyed with you. It's not because they hate you for pointing out legitimate flaws, it's that you set yourself up as the one who determines what others should and shouldn't do, and it drives people to quit the church in disgust--and in some cases, it drives them into depression because they can't live up to the impossible standards their church or its members have placed on them.

You took a dig at whether people who've committed the horrible offense of reading a Children's fantasy novel are really Christians. Let me tell you, I've read Harry Potter--and I've done a hell of a lot worse than reading Harry Potter, and I still believe that God's love is greater than my faults.

When I was a teenager, my youth pastor would constantly push us to question our salvation--not because of some great sin, or because we were apathetic to God's will, but because we didn't share his own enthusiasm for preaching. He made us feel as though our friends were all going to wind up in hell and it would be all our fault. Sincere, spiritually immature believers hear comments like that and begin to question their salvation, their self worth, and eventually whether being a follower of Christ is even worth it.

That Christians do this to their own makes me sick. I got depressed and spent two weeks in a psychiatric hospital thanks to that mentality. Sometimes people don't get better and chose suicide.

It has to stop. Legalism, accusatory statements, the persecution mentality--it all needs to go, because it's not holiness, it's the same sin of the Pharisees that Jesus preached against 2000 years ago.
 
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Also, I'm aware that I might have come across as setting myself up as an arbiter of legalism... I don't mean to, and if I've erred, by all means correct me.
 
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If it was humanly possible for us to live without sin, God our Father would not of had to send His Son in our place. Remember it was love that put Him on the cross. It was His choice. Stop hammering the nails that keeps Him there. He is risen !!!!! Lord bless you all !!!!!

Hoping to be sharing His love with you in chat soon walk, love, breath, share His undying love for all,
your sister in Christ Jesus... Theresa (Dawnbreaking)
 
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If it was humanly possible for us to live without sin, God our Father would not of had to send His Son in our place. Remember it was love that put Him on the cross. It was His choice. Stop hammering the nails that keeps Him there. He is risen !!!!! Lord bless you all !!!!!

Hoping to be sharing His love with you in chat soon walk, love, breath, share His undying love for all,
your sister in Christ Jesus... Theresa (Dawnbreaking)
all have sinned but this is before our belief in Jesus Christ, even the old testament saints looked for His first coming, to say that one through Jesus/ God and the power through the Holy Spirit/ God, He gives to the ones that belong to them, that we can't be perfect is to say that God has lied .

God is no respect of persons we believe that God allowed one person to partake of His Kingdom then everyone has a shot at it through Jesus Christ. But when God says that there is a man that was perfect, we say no way no one can be perfect except Jesus But through Jesus we can. I can do all things ( except turn from sin ) through Christ which strengthens me, No Php 4:13I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.

I can set that sin down and walk away from just as Job did the Bible doesn't teach us that we can't be perfect if it does then we do have a contradiction, Job 1:1There was a man in the land of Uz, whose name was Job; and that man was perfect and upright, and one that feared God, and eschewed evil.
but man says we can't be perfect and we turn our itchy ears to man's teaching away from the Word of God
 
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