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I don't know where to post this thread. I simply want to ask, how do you become "the salt and light of the world" in front of people who are made bitter towards Christianity because of the Christians themselves?
I have a friend (aged 32) born and raised in a Catholic family. But since his mom "converted" from Catholic to Charismatic Protestant when he was a child, life in his family turned upside down. She took everything in the Bible literally, to the extent that she doesn't listen to anybody else but "Jesus," hence her continuous fights with her husband (and kids). She spends more time in the church and doing evangelism, as if she didn't know that serving the family is also a God'-given mission; pretty much she left the family second to her "Christianity."
Two years ago, he came to me saying that he finally got down on his knees and prayed after I snapped at him a couple weeks before then, "Aren't you afraid of God?" He started going to church with me, but then after several months he got occupied and when I asked him, he said he still visited church but now with his dad to the Catholic church (which wasn't a big deal for me because both churches worship the same God).
This year, I realised he hasn't been going to church for a long while. I still tried to incorporate God's message for him whenever appropriate. But then, just recently his trusted uncle who ran his store wanted to quit the job. That was a big blow to my friend because he doesn't want to trust the store to an outsider. And when he asked the uncle why he wants to quit, the answer was: "Because God wants me to serve full time in the ministry." Just like that, and my friend was stunned and simply asked me, "If God tells you to go full-time in a ministry, would you just leave everything behind?" I said, "Yes, but not abruptly because I can't be a blessing in my new territory if I leave the previous territory as a nuisance."
I approached to him, saying that I'd pray for him and that things will be alright. Asked him to also go to my church for an encouragement prayer, but he replied, "I'm just not in the mood to go to church now."
He is now very bitter about Christians (who made up Christianity), to the extent that he sometimes make a joke about it. I think now he's in a borderline between believing there's God, and believing there's no God. He keeps saying things like, "So if God is good and taking care of us, why disasters still happen? Why people experience horrible death? etc etc"
So, yes, back to my question: How do you approach this kind of a person to walk on God's path (again)? -- FYI, he believes in God and he used to be quite active in both Catholic and Protestant church in his younger age. Yet I don't think he has ever had a spiritual experience (which I have, and I've been trying to share that with him but I know he just can't understand, like... "So you believe that was God's work, and not because of this and that?").
Thanks a lot and God bless.
I have a friend (aged 32) born and raised in a Catholic family. But since his mom "converted" from Catholic to Charismatic Protestant when he was a child, life in his family turned upside down. She took everything in the Bible literally, to the extent that she doesn't listen to anybody else but "Jesus," hence her continuous fights with her husband (and kids). She spends more time in the church and doing evangelism, as if she didn't know that serving the family is also a God'-given mission; pretty much she left the family second to her "Christianity."
Two years ago, he came to me saying that he finally got down on his knees and prayed after I snapped at him a couple weeks before then, "Aren't you afraid of God?" He started going to church with me, but then after several months he got occupied and when I asked him, he said he still visited church but now with his dad to the Catholic church (which wasn't a big deal for me because both churches worship the same God).
This year, I realised he hasn't been going to church for a long while. I still tried to incorporate God's message for him whenever appropriate. But then, just recently his trusted uncle who ran his store wanted to quit the job. That was a big blow to my friend because he doesn't want to trust the store to an outsider. And when he asked the uncle why he wants to quit, the answer was: "Because God wants me to serve full time in the ministry." Just like that, and my friend was stunned and simply asked me, "If God tells you to go full-time in a ministry, would you just leave everything behind?" I said, "Yes, but not abruptly because I can't be a blessing in my new territory if I leave the previous territory as a nuisance."
I approached to him, saying that I'd pray for him and that things will be alright. Asked him to also go to my church for an encouragement prayer, but he replied, "I'm just not in the mood to go to church now."
He is now very bitter about Christians (who made up Christianity), to the extent that he sometimes make a joke about it. I think now he's in a borderline between believing there's God, and believing there's no God. He keeps saying things like, "So if God is good and taking care of us, why disasters still happen? Why people experience horrible death? etc etc"
So, yes, back to my question: How do you approach this kind of a person to walk on God's path (again)? -- FYI, he believes in God and he used to be quite active in both Catholic and Protestant church in his younger age. Yet I don't think he has ever had a spiritual experience (which I have, and I've been trying to share that with him but I know he just can't understand, like... "So you believe that was God's work, and not because of this and that?").
Thanks a lot and God bless.