My friend killed himself just over a year ago. I found no mention of suicide as being a sin. In fact, as I recall, several prominent people in the bible killed themselves.
Abimilech, Samson, Saul, Saul's Armour bearer, Ahitophel and Zimri all committed suicide, and they aren't condemned for it. Your are very wronge, and what is your stand with the Lord Jesus Christ. Samson never killed himself, he prayed to destroy his enemies, and the pillar made the house fall apart, as he was in it. Saul was a very evil man, that was intent to kill David, who's heart was after God. I don't believe you are a born again believer, it is murder, man's spirit does not belong to you it goes back to God, who gave it, life and the breath of God is HOly and imortal, Satan wanted to rule God's throne, and kill his truth, the bible calls him a murderer, a thief and a destroyer, of life, for God is the creator of all life. To take another's life, is murder, to take your own, is murder. YOu know a lot of facts about everything, but seem not to quote things from the bible. Saul was evil, and was jealous of David's anointing, and chased him into a cave, where David hide all the years, murder in the mind of Saul to kill David, just killed himself, which at one time he was anointed, but God took that anointing away from SAul, because of Saul's wicked evil heart of his jealousy of David, this is why the very thought of killing, and murder is evil, and this killed Saul, his evil dark wicked heart. YOur very wronge posted this here in a Christian Chat room, it's not okay to even think defeating thoughts, this is in the word of the Lord, "it says bring every thought CAPTIVE, to rebuke bind and claim the promises of God," The fact that people without Jesus have no hope, it is the reason, they have nothing left, Jesus Christ, is our Hope, it is in the bible many, many times, HOPE IN THE LORD,' GOD would not and does not want anyone to kill themselves, he came to heal, and to give life. I pray that you repent and renounce your words here, for your not in align with the word of God. If you continue to express that suicide is okay, then what your saying and said, someone in pain, don't pray, don't have hope, get a shotgun, your words are evil. The Lord rebuke your eil words. Those who do such things, God is their Judge, but what your saying that it is permissable, is a lie from Satans Kingdom. Also, in Jesus name, I rebuke all thoughts of you promoting this as powerless over other's minds in Jesus name.
The Catechism states that God can provide the means for eternal rest and peace for those who commit suicide, but this is of course, not considered a canonical script and so many people don't heed it as the truth, per se.
If a person is in intolerable phsyical, emotional or mental pain, sometimes they don't see any other way out. I don't particularly view this as shameful or against the laws of the world.
It would be better to commit suicide than undergo torture, for instance. If I had the option of taking a cyanide pill or having my toes cut off, my fingernails ripped out and then killed, I know which one I'd choose.
Samson killed himself to avoid the shame of being killed by a woman, and so that those who imrpisoned him wouldn't 'defeat him'. saul did so to avoid dishonour of capture and torture. saul's armour bearer did it to atone for a killing of his own. Aphitophel did it because he couldn't bear the deception and manipulation all around him. Zimri to avoid capture by the army.
So, really, Judaism and christianity, in their basic scripts don't condemn suicide as a punishable offence. In fact, some of the people who committed it are considered heroes in some way.
Hinduism accepts the right to fast until death, and maintains that a person's actions are their own. However, their understanding of oneness and non-duality then equates that suicide with a 'killing'. It's interesting that this argument is most often given my christians, that suicide is murder, and yet the bible doesn't teach it, and it actually comes from hinduism.
Jainism doesn't permit suicide, per se. But again, fasting until death is considered acceptable.
Buddhism takes the view of the world in general nowadays. That a person's past experiences shape them, and pave the way for their future decisions, thus a person who commits suicide does do because they have been led to whatever they are led to. The Buddhist mantra doesn't actually condemn or condone suicide, it simply accepts the fact that suicide is something that happens when a person is led to a road or a moment where their experiences and sufferings outweigh their ability to cope with them. The act is, however, seen as non-benificial to walking the path of enlightenment, since self-harm isn't a 'compassionate' way to think of oneself. On the other hand, they recognize compassion themselves for those who are in such a turmoil and state of suffering.
Judaism in itself without christianity, doesn't actually have a definitive view of the afterlife, a concrete concept of heaven and hell, and thus there is very little on the afterlife and suicide. While it's not benificial to 'life', since it institutes 'death', there's no soolid condemnation in the abrahamic texts. I'm sure that the priests and rabbis would comment on the practice, but there's no absolute evidence in the Mosaic texts or other bases for the religion.
The Islamic texts refer sparsely to suicide, with one particular instance being 'do not kill yourselves, for surely God will be merciful to you'. Kind of a reverse-psychological thing I thought. 'God's gonna have mercy on you anyway, there isn't much point in suicide, is there?' Interesting to note this given the widely held view that suicide bombers are led by religious texts. There is another mention to suicide in Islam that those who commit such an act will be always in the perspective of such an act. In otherwords, suicidal thought is an entrapping way to think.
Wiccan religions generally find suicide as a contrary statement to the sanctity of all life.
And lastly, the Bahai's believe that a person's purpose is to contribute to the advancement of the spiritual family of the world into true spiritual unity and understanding, and that suicide takes away a person's capacity to do this. However, they don't condemn suicide. Like buddhism, they simply see it as not beneficial towards the realization of the ultimate reality.
I've included all these religious beliefs because it gives some perspective on the world's religions as a whole. Also removes some widely held myths about christianity and suicide, I think.
People are very quick to condemn other religions, till they realize a lot of their beliefs don't come from the one they label themselves with!
At any rate, I personally don't view suicide as something punishable in an afterlife.