Luke 14:26 "If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple."
That word hate is comparative, which is the same word used in Romans 9:13, in comparison to His love for Jacob.
So yes, God loves everyone, with a gooey, wooey gentle love like a love sick man who who's chasing after his bride.