Ken when you say "chances are 9 times out of 10 if not 10 out of 10 she is being sexual abused to." it sounds much like when there is a court case of violence which involves 2 people of different races one side will try to say it is a hate crime. They are quick to point out statistics, 9 out of 10 times. What about the one time it was not. One person is wronged based on statistics. This is the difference between Jesus teachings and the world. The world accepts losing 1 for the majority. Jesus gave us the example of the good Shepard; how he stopped and found the 1 that was lost. Everyone is important no sacrifice of 1 no not 1
You have a good point, however that works in reverse to with God.
If ones selfless act of giving their life away because of their love for the Lord brings others to the Lord then this is also accepted.
Example: Girl in Waco, Texas who had a gun put to her, and told to renounce the Lord or die.
She did not, so he killed her. In this one's act of love for the Lord, hundreds came to know the Lord.
God allowed this act of one individual life to be taken, because it brought hundreds more to believe in Him.
People turn things into race issues, not statistics.
I don't believe all statistics, but I have seen abused women and talked to some and what they said to me fit right with the statistics I have heard. They defended their abusers, suffered low self-esteem, and lived in total fear.
One statistic I don't agree with is the one that says if you are abused as a child, you will become an abuser.
I have known and talked to a lot of people who were abused as children, that are not abusive themselves.
My mom is even an example of that, she was abused by her father growing up, but she never once abused me or my sister's.
She was loving and caring, and taught good moral values.