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Thread: The reason for TY's ban

  1. #1
    1still_waters
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    Default The reason for TY's ban

    We don't generally make a public post about bans, but this case kind of warrants it. TY has been public on Facebook about his ban, and some are making judgments about the decision, and reaching negative conclusions about the site because of the decision.

    I banned him because he brought his real life drama in to chat, then bothered someone in PM, within chat, by initiating the harassing PM with someone who was minding their own business in chat.

    This person was minding their own business in chat, yet TY took it upon himself to initiate a PM in chat with said person where he:

    1. Judged her by calling her ungodly.
    2. Seemed to insinuate she was involved in some sexual sin.
    3. Bothered her after being asked by her to leave her alone.
    4. Accused her of something based on hearsay.
    5. Accuses her of starting drama, when it was HIM who started the drama by initiating the PM.
    6. Insults her by calling her a jerk.

    Here are the transcripts to back up the charges above.

    1. Judged her by calling her ungodly.

    Ty: you will not EVER get over
    yourself
    Ty: drugatic
    Ty: sleep with guys
    Ty: Yes I went ther!
    Ty: there**
    Ty: That is who you are
    Ty: I have tried to help you from day
    1
    Ty: not anymore
    Ty: You are an un-godly person
    Ty: I am praying for you Tyran
    Ty: I am
    Ty: I do have him


    2. Seemed to insinuate she was involved in some sexual sin.

    Ty: you will not EVER get over
    yourself
    Ty: drugatic
    Ty: sleep with guys
    Ty: Yes I went ther!
    Ty: there**

    Ty: That is who you are
    Ty: I have tried to help you from day
    1
    Ty: not anymore
    Ty: You are an un-godly person
    Ty: I am praying for you Tyran
    Ty: I am
    Ty: I do have him


    3. Bothered her after being asked by her to leave her alone.

    Ty: ask her
    Ty: nothing?
    Ty: I didnt think so
    AwesomeKid_12: y dont u just leave
    me alone

    Ty: Everytime you dont like
    something
    Ty: you whine
    Ty: you say I am going to go do
    drugs
    AwesomeKid_12: so do u who crys
    with liz if he doesnt get his was
    Ty: I am going to commit suicide

    4. Accused her of something based on hearsay.

    AwesomeKid_12: who did i say that
    too
    Ty: I am not sure
    Ty: But I know it was said
    AwesomeKid_12: cant prove i said it if
    u have no clue who i supposedly said
    Ty: Then why did you tell them the
    other day that the only way it will
    ever work is if Lizzie gets rid of me
    completely
    AwesomeKid_12: who did i say that
    too
    Ty: I am not sure
    Ty: But I know it was said
    AwesomeKid_12: cant prove i said it if
    u have no clue who i supposedly said
    AwesomeKid_12: ya no i dont no wut

    ur problem is but im not letting u affect
    me anymore just saying


    5. Accuses her of starting drama, when it was HIM who started the drama by initiating the PM.

    Ty: Your the one causing the DRAMA
    right now
    AwesomeKid_12: ur the one who just
    pmed me rite now when i was ignoring
    everyone and everything so who was
    causeing the drama
    Ty: Not ignoring everyone

    Ty: Stuff was going on at the

    6. Insults her by calling her a jerk.


    Ty: I am not stupid!
    Ty: I am sick of your drama
    Ty: I am sick of your drama
    Ty: I am sick of your drama
    Ty: Good job!
    Ty: Congratualations!
    Ty: You got what you wanted
    Ty: sh blocked me on FB
    Ty: Thanks alot
    Ty: JERK
    AwesomeKid_12: who r u talking to
    like that
    _________

    Ty may say she's the one causing drama and he's just defending himself. That really isn't relevant. Chat isn't the place to settle your real life feuds with people. Us moderators aren't here to solve your real life problems. We have enough to deal with, with onsite drama. We don't need to wade through their personal stuff too, in most circumstances.

    Ty may say I banned him without knowing the full story of their real life drama. Again that's not relevant. I'm here to deal with issues within chat. The issue within chat is that he initiated contact and did the above things in chat! I don't need to know the other side of his real life drama, to know that he initiated said PM with Awesomekid and harassed, judged and insulted her within chat. Even if I did know the other side of the story to this real life drama, it wouldn't justify what he brought in to chat and did to someone who was minding their own business in a chat room.

    Bottom line, this girl was minding her own business in chat. Ty initiated contact with her. Stirred up drama. He kept it up and that's why he's banned.

  2. #2
    1still_waters
    Guest

    Default Re: The reason for TY's ban

    This thread is closed because I really don't have the time to go endlessly back and forth with people over a ban. This is why we don't make a habit of publishing MOST bans in the first place. Mods don't have the time to sit around explaining and debating it all day!

    Some may say I'm not giving the whole context of the PM here and I'm just using snippets. This doesn't negate the fact that TY initiated said PM! It doesn't negate the fact the he brought said drama in to chat and initiated with said chatter. It doesn't negate the fact that he said what he said.

    None of the above would have occurred if he had decided NOT to drag his real life drama in to chat and bother someone who was simply minding their own business.

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