In this forum, there's a constant drumbeat of men and women having severe relationship issues. For as much as there is, there seems to be an inadequate coverage of relationships in churches. And, what there is, is often garbage. Guys, I doubt you're going to save a marriage by following the advice in the movie Fireproof. You'll just make yourself look like an undesirable sad sap.
Churches need hard-nosed instruction, and not in the form of relationship classes which are awkward to attend, and won't be attended until it's too late. This instruction should be weaved subtly and pervasively into Sermons and Sunday school classes.
I've seen a lot of people get divorced, and the saddest part of is that they often seem ideal for each other, even as they're getting divorced! They appeal to "irreconcilable difference", "he's emotionally abusive", "she's a shrew [except, they use a different word]", etc. In reality, they just suffer from the contempt of familiarity. They don't know how to have a functional relationship and they only get lousy advice from random nitwits and Politically Correct "experts." And, even if someone tells them the truth, they won't accept it because their brains have been steeping antichristian and impractical nonsense for so long.
Churches need hard-nosed instruction, and not in the form of relationship classes which are awkward to attend, and won't be attended until it's too late. This instruction should be weaved subtly and pervasively into Sermons and Sunday school classes.
I've seen a lot of people get divorced, and the saddest part of is that they often seem ideal for each other, even as they're getting divorced! They appeal to "irreconcilable difference", "he's emotionally abusive", "she's a shrew [except, they use a different word]", etc. In reality, they just suffer from the contempt of familiarity. They don't know how to have a functional relationship and they only get lousy advice from random nitwits and Politically Correct "experts." And, even if someone tells them the truth, they won't accept it because their brains have been steeping antichristian and impractical nonsense for so long.