Something to just consider justamanda It sounds very much like this is about self for him, rather then your beliefs. But there are two scriptures which come to my mind as you spoke. 1.Proverbs 25:17 which says Let your foot rarely be in your neighbor's house,Or he will become weary of you and hate you.
I know you are married to this man, and are far more then any neighbor!!! However most men never wish to be nagged to death because of there lack in any area,I am not saying you are a nag either sis! I am saying he wants, or rather is now demanding his own space!
If a person does not wish to hear about the Lord from you, why continue something he really does not wish??( matt 7:6) Why give what is holy to dogs? I know you care very deeply for him and for his salvation,but like I did to a friend i had,you are doing the same thing to your husband.
I had a really close friend,and when I came to Jesus,I was much like you. I nagged him to death about Jesus and how important Jesus should be in his life,after a couple of weeks of this,he got mad at me and did not wish to be around me anymore! I felt bad of course,at first blaming him!
But it was not him, It was me!! I, me, myself was looking to make a change in him!! Self righteous me!! It was then I went into prayer and found out my problem, not his problem! Love never fails,even if some people do fail us sis.( 1 cor 13:4-9!!!)
What we believe we do know about someone, we only know in part,although our flesh will look to led us into the belief we do know him or her entirely. If we allow our minds to get to this point about anyone,pride can set in,and then we lose. After a couple of weeks i called up my friend to repent to him,I promised him, I would not nag him anymore about Jesus,but that I did hope in time he would see Jesus in me. ( 1 cor 13:4-7!!!!)
At first, I was just going to part from him,and move on,but that is not what the Lord wanted me to do,he wanted me to learn how to endure!!( heb 10:36!!!) It was not easy!! He swore a lot! He made a lot of bad jokes about believers as well! And he did this to push my buttons into going back to the word i had said to him,I endured sis,and after 4 months, I received a call from my Chruch that this friend of mine came in,and asked to receive Jesus into his heart!
He then came to me the next day to repent of all the things he did to me,and how sorry he was that he always mocked me in front of others,which of course he did LOL This dear sister is only something for you to consider,you know you far better then I do!! But i just wanted to perhaps give you something you may not have considered,of course my prayers are for you, and with you sis!
I of course forgave him,and today he is a pastor of a fine church in Corbin Kentucky,married, with two fine children. Sometimes sis what does appear to our eyes appears for a short of a time as we endure to see past what we see!( 2 cor 4:16-18!!) We learn to look as Jesus looks,past what we see into what cannot be seen! For that is Eternal!! And if we believe past what our eyes tell us,we become rewarded in our Jesus!!( heb 11:6) Blessing sis!!
