Caught my husband cheating

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purpose

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My ? is does this other woman know about you ? she doesn't care? Have you confronted her? may be a step above the boundries i don't know? If she does she is also disrespecting you. That is not right either. I am sorry you are going through this. I believe the The lord will put on your heart what to do sweety i hope you make the right descision. LOVE&PRAYERS to you.
 
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purpose

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My Bad sweety went up and reread what you posted and she has actually told you. Yet she continues to talk and text him and should stop. If a married guy was doing that im like um no your married and have nothing to do with him. He knows she told you. wow. Yes im am Totally praying for you!
 
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MeliDean

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to the best of my knowledge he didn't have sex with her, but a couple weeks ago he said he was going to study with his friend..didn't invite me to go with him and it was on a Friday night...I have a very bad gut feeling he was on a date with her. he was supposedly going to a city named Melbourne. well the girl is from Palm Bay...its just the city before Melbourne... So I put two and two together. I can't get a straight answer from him... it hurts and its frustrating
 
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MeliDean

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purpose said:
My Bad sweety went up and reread what you posted and she has actually told you. Yet she continues to talk and text him and should stop. If a married guy was doing that im like um no your married and have nothing to do with him. He knows she told you. wow. Yes im am Totally praying for you!
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she told me that she would not contact him anymore after I told her that he was married. to the best of my knowledge she hasn't contacted him. when I confronted him and he denied it I got her on the phone and she said that he was a liar because he knew exactly who she was. but he still denied it
 
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dawn2014

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Hi MeliDean....I am so sorry this is happening.. At this point..have you seen them together..other than just talking? Is it more than that.. I can imagine with what you have seen , exchanging pictures. text messages.. etc..Is it..for sure..Adultery?.....How long have you been married and do you have children? I will pray you find a way to resolve this..He needs to own up to what he is doing, If needed , can you move to a relatives home..to make him realized you are serious about dealing with this situation NOW..not later....that might just make him deal with it the way that he should..What he is doing..is only prolonging a bad situation so .Don't give up.God can move mountains!.. God Bless Dawn
 
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purpose

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You deserve so much better sweetheart. I know this is not easy . I am so sorry you have to go thru this. A man to be in such denial when the proof is in front of him. Its one Lie after another he is really digging himself a whole. I dont know that i would trust her either honestly. regardless of what she says . How has he been since Then . is he coming home at night? how is his words toward you? You are going to make a decsion or hopefully and praying God is working in your situation.
 
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pastac

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There is a fine line of seeking wisdom and getting an ear full. This question should have been taken to your pastor not a public site. You have gotten all sorts of advice some great some garbage and yet you are still in the same position. Cut your losses on this topic on this site and go to your pastor. I will be in prayer for you.
 
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purpose

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You deserve so much better sweetheart. I know this is not easy . I am so sorry you have to go thru this. A man to be in such denial when the proof is in front of him. Its one Lie after another he is really digging himself a whole. I dont know that i would trust her either honestly. regardless of what she says . How has he been since Then . is he coming home at night? how is his words toward you? You are going to make a decsion or hopefully and praying God is working in your situation. Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding: in all your ways acknowledge Him, And he Shall direct your paths.
 
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I know with God all things are possible but this guy is going to become a law enforcement officer which is an occupation that is very stressful on relationships. He is already testing forbidden areas of the relationship.

Marriage is a covenant between two people. Makes me wonder if any oath he swears will be worth anything. Reminds me greatly of the covenant between Jehovah and Israel.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
 
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spunkycat08

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Just an FYI for everyone who posted on this thread.

There are emotional affairs and there are physical affairs.

Both are wrong.
 
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VioletReigns

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I am praying for you now, sister. The Lord's will be done.
 
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