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My parents got divorced when I was seven; my sister and brother and I lived with our mom, who began dating within a few months of the divorce, and she was married again a couple of years later, and has been married to my step-dad for nearly 20 years now.
I've wondered, from time to time, how different my life would be, had my parents stayed together. Had my mom not kicked my dad out and filed for divorce, had I grown up with my biological father around...would things have been better?
I honestly don't think so. I know divorce is "bad", I know it's certainly not the ideal. Yes, it tears a family apart...but is that always a bad thing?
I've seen, both on this site and in my community, people condemning those families who have been ripped apart by divorce. I've heard people insulting the children involved, claiming that now they'd never amount to anything because they come from a "bad" family.
I think we've all heard or seen divorced people treated with zero respect solely because of their circumstances.
Is that right?
Are these broken families "less than"?
Do you think anything good can come from divorce?
I've wondered, from time to time, how different my life would be, had my parents stayed together. Had my mom not kicked my dad out and filed for divorce, had I grown up with my biological father around...would things have been better?
I honestly don't think so. I know divorce is "bad", I know it's certainly not the ideal. Yes, it tears a family apart...but is that always a bad thing?
I've seen, both on this site and in my community, people condemning those families who have been ripped apart by divorce. I've heard people insulting the children involved, claiming that now they'd never amount to anything because they come from a "bad" family.
I think we've all heard or seen divorced people treated with zero respect solely because of their circumstances.
Is that right?
Are these broken families "less than"?
Do you think anything good can come from divorce?